A Beautiful Mess Podcast

This week we're getting honest about what it's really like working with family. We've been working together since our early 20s and people always ask how we do it so today we're spilling the tea. We're also discussing what we're reading and a hot take about long vs short books.
 
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Biggest Pro: Time spent together
 
Biggest con: More risk to the relationship
 
Book Report:
Elsie: Lincoln in The Bardo by George Saunders
Emma: Lights Out By Navessa Allen
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This week we're talking about the books that genuinely shifted how we see the world — not just 5 star reads, but the ones that rewired our thinking and books we still find ourselves talking about years later.
 
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Elsie's books:
Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton
Station Eleven by Emily Sr. John Mandel
Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro
 
Emma's books:
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
 
Nonfiction Bonus:
Elsie: Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
Emma: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
 
Book Report:
Elsie: The Astral Library by Kate Quinn
Emma: One Golden Summer by Carley Fortune
 
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This week we're entering a world in which there are no iPhones, no internet, no apps, no online shopping, no social media no steaming and no smart tech of any kind. Yes: We're traveling to a land where you get advice from magazines, information from encylopedias and to speak to someone you must pick up the phone and dial numbers.
 
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Things we miss:
magazines (specifically at Borders bookstore)
malls in the 1900s
AOL chat
maps
phone books
phone calls on land lines
listening to an album start to finish on the day it came out
scheduling your entire life around your favorite tv show
no one being about to reach you
Toys R Us (is an amazon childhood)
computer lab
 
GUILTY PLEASURE TREASURE
Elsie: Traitors
Emma: Little Debbie Cosmic Brownies
 
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This week we're talking about how to develop your creative palette and style without being derivative. This is a subject that applies across different creative practices from art to writing and even how you dress or decorate your home.
 
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Steal like an Artist by Austin Kleon
 
Steps to develop your creative palette:
Step one: Develop your taste (Be a fan! Appreciate art!)
Step two: MAKE DERIVITIVE WORK (keep doing so until your own style emerges)
Step three: Keep developing, keep growing, keep making (to infinity & beyond)
 
BOOK REPORT
State of Wonder by Ann Patchett
 
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In this week's episode we're diving into how to make vision boards and 5 year plans. If you're in the mood to think about your goals and dreams, you're in the right place. We're also answering some listener questions and engaging in a Hot Take Debate about whether romantic comedies are actually the worst.
How to make a vision board:
Create different categories for your goals (family, work, fitness, etc)
Write in present tense
Get pictures from the internet or magazines
"We overestimate what we can do in a day, but we underestimate what we can do in a year."
Check out Remit Sethi's books:
I Will Teach you to be Rich
Money for Couples
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