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Kourosh Dini
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  • 30. The 4 Limits of Productivity
    Discover why your latest app or productivity hack is not the real hero—or the real challenge. In this episode of "Rhythms of Focus," we explore what truly lies beneath those endless quests for the perfect system, shining a compassionate light on wandering minds and ADHD.Listeners will uncover how recognizing and respecting four key limits—time, agency, working memory, and trust—is far more liberating than forcing themselves into rigid molds. Instead of battling against limitations, you’ll learn to use them as anchors for meaningful work and creative rhythm. This episode unpacks the seductive promise of productivity systems, the artistry of aligning attention with intention, and gentle strategies to transform overwhelm into empowered agency.Key takeaways:Honor time, agency, working memory, and trust as necessary boundaries that support creative flow.Replace shame and frustration with self-compassion—embracing playful mastery over strict discipline.Discover actionable ways to build a trusted, resilient productivity environment that fits a wandering mind.As always, enjoy an original piano composition woven into today’s episode, designed to nurture calm and focus.If this resonates, subscribe and visit rhythmsoffocus.com for more insights, resources, and episodes to help your unique rhythm thrive.Hashtags #ADHD #WanderingMinds #Agency #MindfulProductivity #FocusRhythms #CreativeFlow #WorkWithLimits #SelfCompassion #AttentionMastery #OriginalMusic TranscriptWhy won't the system work?! I found a new productivity app, let me tell you about, it's the greatest thing ever. Oh, did you hear about that productivity book by Mr. Awesome Sauce. It's the greatest thing ever. Fast forward two months, uh, another system down the drain. I can't do any of these.Maybe there's just something wrong with me. I can't seem to make any of these work. What's going on? I what? What if it's not the app? What if it's not the book? What if it's not ourselves? All right, where is it then? Maybe it's in something we still need to acknowledge the limits.Seduction of an AppThe promises of some productivity system can be powerfully seductive.The idea is that we'd get more done with less effort. Stay on top of it all. Everything's organized. Everything shows up exactly where we need it. Heck, I do have a system myself and I think it's pretty darn awesome. Lemme tell you, it's all shiny and new, but that may well crash too.Pushing Limits We often push limits.It's important to push limits. Play, this depth and breadth of flow between self and world discovery, question and tension- it's a vitality that once it finds root can be such an inspirational flow. The sap of mastery and meaningful work and relationships. We see it in the toddler in their focus while they're stacking blocks and we see it in the craft's master that has that same focus as they're in that deep reverie.Play pushes limits. We tend to think of limits as somehow enemies, or perhaps they're ever present challenges that must be dominated, broken through, if not destroyed.And we can see that as well between the toddler and the adult.Supportive EnvironmentsTo reach that place of being able to stack blocks, we have a sense that our environment can hold us, that it won't interrupt us without care or reason.That's somehow takes us and our being hood into account. Maybe we push one way or the other. We try to wander this way or that. But time and again, in ways we know and in many ways we don't, perhaps only feeling it as this gentle wave from some distant shore, we are supported, in being here and now.The craftsperson similarly has done the work themselves of establishing those things, the environment, whether appearing to be a chaotic mess or this pristine lining of tools and resources. Somehow...
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  • 29. What if I break the chain?
    Break free from the tyranny of the unbroken streak—what if focus meant something deeper than chasing another checkmark? This episode of Rhythms of Focus invites wandering minds and adults with ADHD to let go of the pressure to “never miss a day,” discovering a kinder, rhythm-based approach to meaningful growth.In this episode, explore:- Why the “Don’t Break the Chain” habit method can create more anxiety and shame than mastery.- How shifting from scorekeeping to presence transforms habit-building from a rigid tally into a playful, mindful journey.- Practical strategies to reframe loss and missed days as part of life’s natural ebb and flow—fostering agency rather than guiltKey takeaways:- Learn why focusing on experience rather than streaks fosters real mastery and self-compassion.- Discover the three-part Daily Invite: decide, be, and act—without the weight of perfection.- Begin to view your habits as musical rhythms, not broken chains—open to improvisation, pauses, and creative renewal.This episode features an original piano composition, “Ascend,” reflecting the dance between struggle and growth. Subscribe for more gentle, empowering strategies, and visit rhythmsoffocus.com for resources tailored to creative, neurodivergent thinkers.### Hashtags:#ADHD #WanderingMinds #FocusRhythms #MindfulProductivity #GentleHabits #SelfCompassion #DailyInvite #CreativeGrowth #Agency #NeurodiversityMentioned in this episode:Join the Weekly Wind Down NewsletterThe Weekly Wind Down is an exploration of wandering minds, task and time management, and more importantly, how we find calmer focus and meaningful work.
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  • 28. Clock Time vs Self Time
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  • 27. The Principles of the Waves of Focus
    Uncover a revolutionary approach to managing ADHD and wandering minds in this episode of 'Rhythms of Focus.' Discover the 'Waves of Focus,' a comprehensive guide designed to transition you from force-based productivity to trust-based agency. Delve into key concepts such as the anchor, visit, and visit guide. Understand how to create a meaningful, rhythm-oriented life framework that enhances agency and mindfulness. - Key Takeaways: - Learn to transition from force-based to trust-based productivity. - Discover tools and techniques like the anchor and visit guide. - Understand how to create meaningful rhythms and improve your sense of agency.Subscribe to 'Rhythms of Focus' and visit rhythmsoffocus.com. ### Links- [Crocodile and Cube: In the Studio](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaRbIj8RyZIaLGCiP4DYnPBsTbKuSj1Nw)- [Episode 4](https://rhythms-of-focus.captivate.fm/episode/from-force-to-flow-with-a-visit/)- [Episode 9](https://rhythms-of-focus.captivate.fm/episode/i-dont-wanna-and-the-practice-of-agency/)- [Episode 14](https://rhythms-of-focus.captivate.fm/episode/the-magnified-mind/)### Keywords #WavesofFocus #Agency #Mindfulness #RhythmsOfFocus #Tools #ADHD #WanderingMinds #TrustBasedProductivity #AnchorTechnique #VisitGuide00:00 The Principles of the Waves of Focus03:36 What are the Waves of Focus?03:47 One - a Goal04:30 Second - a Philosophy06:19 Three - a Metaphor08:01 Four - A Set of Tools09:29 Five - A Framework12:25 Six - A Set of Rhythms14:55 Seven - a Practice15:26 Final Thoughts15:59 Music - "The Dust Cleared"Transcript How do we approach challenge? Sometimes we turn away, sometimes we dive in, sometimes we sidle up next to it. Gently stir the water with a big toe slip our legs in, sit with our feet dangling as we look across the pond and wonder. So I put a challenge before myself here now. It's about trying to explain my life's work, this Waves of Focus.A guide for those with wandering minds, ADHD, and beyond. This course that I've put together, and I wanna be able to describe it in as short and simple as possible in this episode today. How the heck am I gonna do that?    When you live and breathe something, it can become difficult to say what it's about to someone who doesn't live and breathe that same thing.Sometimes we simply have a vision in our head. It could be a vision of a deck. We're trying to build a memory that came to mind from something that was said, an interesting idea about a story.Whatever it is, it's hard to explain it, and sometimes it's even hard to explain to ourselves.There's this hilarious set of YouTube videos called Crocodile and Cube. I'll link to it in the show notes. In which there's this one character, where he, hears something in his mind, this music, and he wants to create it.And there's this other person that he's working with and they're trying to make sense of it. They're saying, okay, one person tells the story of what they want to hear. The other person tries to put it together, and together they try to bring this out into the world. It's a wonderful metaphor for the parts that can live within ourselves, even.And wandering minds tend to connect with a depth of experience, a reality that feels alive. Words can feel hollow and brittle at times, unless they're really backed up by that sense of reality within them. How do we translate these ideas, these images, these somethings within our mind, into words, into images we can describe to others. and to anything?But somehow we do. Artists, authors, creators, we all practice, define, refine over time, and eventually we come up with maybe not just a single story, but. Many...
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  • 26. The Trouble Isn't Interest, It's Force
    Ever feel lost at the starting line, waiting for motivation or urgency to nudge you into action? In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, we break through the myth that productivity is just about interest or deadlines and instead explore the deeper role of trust—trust in oneself, in emotions, and in the gentle rhythms of daily life. Discover how acknowledging your questions and fears can open the door to meaningful engagement rather than forceful productivity. Learn to nurture agency as you’d cultivate a delicate plant—growing your ability gently, with care and play, instead of harsh deadlines or rigid routines.Key TakeawaysPractice pausing with kindness to heal the injured trust beneath procrastination and overwhelm.Embrace agency as the starting point for guided growth, letting agency serve as your compass in emotional storms.Replace forceful tactics with playful, mindful rituals that support reliable starts and creative fulfillment.Enjoy this episode’s original piano composition, "Snow," weaving gentle three-four rhythms in C minor—a musical reflection of trust and play in motion.Subscribe now and visit rhythmsoffocus.com for more tools to nurture your wandering mind.Keywords: #ADHD #WanderingMinds #agency #mindfulness #gentleproductivity #trustyourself #creativegrowth #emotionalresilience #playfulfocus #RhythmsOfFocusTranscriptI just can't get started. Oh, but once I can, I'm good to go. It's a familiar refrain from many a wandering mind. Sometimes we work strong. The stars align whether by deadline or unknown, stumble, spark of novelty. Somehow we find ourselves in a deep dive.In the immortal words of the Talking Heads, David Byrne, you may ask yourself, well, how did I get here?  Trust over InterestToo often we say it's all about interest or urgency, something shiny or on fire. We throw up our hands and say, "without these we can't do anything."But there's so much more going on than simply interest. Interest, after all, is a deeply complex emotion. In fact, it may be more about an injured sense of trust within ourselves.The word "trust" itself might seem boring. We hear it so often, seems to have lost all meaning. I've said it before, but I'll say it again.Trust is a sense of feeling that something will continue to behave as it has been, such that it might be relied upon.It is a vital, vital concept that creates structure. Even words themselves. Our words exist because we feel that they will continue to behave as they have been within the ecology of the worlds in which we live inside and out.What do I mean by trust when it comes to play and work?A Few ExamplesWell, let's take an example. Let's say you see someone schedule themselves to do a thing from four to 5:00 PM. Four o'clock comes around, they sit down and they do it. What's the magic? It doesn't seem like we can do that. What happens if we don't feel like it? The feeling of even "feeling like it" is deeply complex.Wandering minds often face multiple worries each, and evidence of the loss of trust in ourselves.For example, let's say we try to set something at four o'clock and we might wonder a whole series of questions:how am I gonna feel when that time comes? What will I be in the middle of? Would I be able to stop if I got started? Would I be able to get back if I need to set it aside? Would I even know what to do if I started? And what if I don't? What if other things come up while I'm working? Will I even realize it? Would I miss yet another important matter? What if I run off on a thousand tangents in the meantime? And many other possibilities...Now, this is just about a thing at four o'clock. There's many other types of work, not to mention, balancing various things that we've got going on in our lives. Each of these questions have fears within...
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About Rhythms of Focus

Join psychiatrist, musician, and productivity strategist Dr. Kourosh Dini on a journey to transform your relationship with work, creativity, and focus. "Rhythms of Focus: for Wandering Minds, ADHD, and Beyond" explores the intersection of meaningful work and the art of engaging creativity and responsibility without force, particularly for wandering minds, ADHD, and beyond. Each week, Dr. Dini weaves together insights from psychiatry, mindfulness practices, and creative experiences to help you develop your own path beyond productivity, and to mastery and meaningful work. Whether you're neurodivergent or simply seeking a more authentic approach to engaging the world, you'll discover practical strategies for: - Building supportive environments that honor your unique way of thinking - Transforming resistance into creative momentum - Developing personalized workflows that actually stick - Understanding and working with your mind's natural rhythms Drawing from his experience as both a practicing psychiatrist and creative artist, Dr. Dini offers a compassionate perspective on productivity that goes beyond traditional time management techniques. You'll learn why typical productivity advice often falls short and how to craft approaches that genuinely resonate with your mind's natural tendencies.
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