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Kourosh Dini
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  • A Delight in Craft - The Unconscious Mind Board Game
    Ever felt your mind swept clean, like cobwebs brushed away, simply by admiring true craft? In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, I invite you to explore how the art of meaningful work—whether in a beautifully designed board game, a shared conversation about football, or the deliberate crafting of music—can nourish even the most wandering minds. We’ll journey into “The Unconscious Mind” board game as a living metaphor for navigating the playful, intricate decisions woven through daily life.You’ll discover:How appreciating and creating craft—and noticing its layers—can provide sustenance and grounding for adults with ADHD or restless focusWhy “the confusion barrier” is a vital threshold in learning and creativity, not a flawNew ways to recognize meaning and resonance in everyday moments, from the symbols on a board to a fleeting improvisationPlus, this episode features an original, never-to-be-repeated piano improvisation: “Morning Bird”—a gentle musical reminder that mastery and play grow together.Subscribe and explore more at rhythmsoffocus.com—reclaim your focus, your rhythm, and your creative spark.Keywords#ADHD #WanderingMinds #MindfulProductivity #Agency #BoardGames #Mastery #MeaningfulWork #Neurodivergent #PianoImprovisation #ResonanceTranscript Clearing the Mental CobwebsA colleague once told me that when she'd look at a piece of art, she'd feel the cobwebs of her mind swept away. I find the same thing happens when I admire any real craft- a fine meal, an expert dancer's, effortless appearing feats, a well-made fountain pen, drifting across quality paper.All of these we can feel. All carry that depth of play and care brought through time. This practice of bringing the spirits of mastery and meaningful work through some development into a bloom. Particularly for wandering mind, I find that mastery, meaningful work can be nourishing.Football   I was once at a party finding myself in a room entirely full of men. I only say that because you kinda get this feeling of the masculine energy in a room. They were all shouting periodically at a television screen, watching this football game.Now I know the rules of the game. I have a sense as to what's going on, but it's never really turned me on. Last time I watched with any real interest was the Super Bowl, 20 Chicago Bears as the Super Bowl shuffle was playing on the radio near nonstop.Other than that, when I encounter such environments, I generally slink into the corner, maybe look for some task to relieve me like getting a snack or maybe tidying the place up. But if neither of those are available, I wait for the pain of boredom to subside into some world of daydream or solving puzzles that come to mind, or something like that.On this particular occasion, though, things were cleared, dishes were done. I was tired of the gummy beers sitting there, which says a lot.For whatever reason, between those synchronized shouts, I turned to the gentleman beside me. I made deliberate eye contact, not an easy feat, and asked , what do you enjoy about this game?And he paused as I knew he would. You know, it's not often I was aware for someone to ask such a pointed and odd question perhaps. I decided to search for craft. "What do you enjoy about this game?"With a little more than a pause. Maybe sensing that sincerity, he began to talk about the battle on the field, the nuance of strategy, the importance of the individual players and their own histories. He thought about his own relationship with his family and his youth, and how they would share the game together.His excitement was palpable. I enjoyed hearing him out. He'd even lose a couple of seconds in that synchronized shouting as he continued to explain certain moments, seeing that I was there with him. And I could follow and appreciate the beauty that he
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  • Juggling Creation and Confusion
    Ever feel like your creativity is both a gift and a juggler’s challenge—especially when you’re navigating the winding paths of ADHD or a wandering mind? In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, we’ll explore how confusion is vital in creativity and how, by embracing it, you can uncover mastery, meaningful work, and joy along your journey.Discover:Why passion is more than a flash of excitement—it’s the steady, nurturing rhythm beneath mastery and meaningful work.The powerful role confusion plays in creative growth (and why learning to “hold” it can lead to breakthrough insights).How daily rhythms of engagement—not rigid productivity hacks—can transform decision overload into meaningful flow.Takeaways:Learn strategies for befriending confusion, using it as a stepping stone rather than an obstacle.Practice the “daily visit” approach to creative work, supporting your mind’s natural curiosity and growth.Recognize moments when play turns into overload, and discover gentle ways to restore clarity and self-compassion.Plus, this episode features an original piano composition—“Flagrant Air Biscuit”—capping off our exploration with musical playfulness.Subscribe to Rhythms of Focus and visit rhythmsoffocus.com for more episodes, resources, and inspiration fostering mindful, agency-driven creativity.Keywords#ADHD #WanderingMinds #Creativity #Confusion #MindfulProductivity #PlayfulFocus #MasteryJourney #MeaningfulWork #DailyRhythms #PianoCompositionTranscriptWhat about Passion? Challenge, interests, novelty, urgency, passion. These are often considered five grounding ideas for a wandering mind as Dr. Dodson once mentioned.But I find that passion is not often talked about. It's about mastery, meaningful work, craft skill, and exploration over time, when we feel that we are developing mastery and meaningful work in our lives, there's a sense of regular engagement, motion, this organizing foundation to our days. It helps bring the inner critic to a quieter place. The seas seem more settled.On the other side of it too, what we create. I think there's a phrase for it, which is "good work". So how do we foster good work?  On Writing a Good BookA listener recently wrote to me about my writing process. He read my book, Taking Smart Notes with DEVONthink. He thought it was a good book. Several people have told me so. If I may be so bold, I think it's a good book, too.So the question then is how do you write a good book? It's really the same question that goes into doing anything you try to do well.My answer, which I gave to this listener and which I liked enough to save for this podcast, was that I dragged notes from DEVONthink, this file management and note management software into Scrivener, this software for writing, and then cut up those notes, rearrange them, look for commonalities between pieces, see if some structure starts to arise, and then realize it doesn't work or it's boring, or I've said the same thing multiple times.I don't know where to cut. The order of parts is plain wrong, and so sometimes I scream, sometimes even internally. Then I go to sleep. Then the next morning, something new comes to mind. I write that material, realize I now have more to cut and edit, scream again, rearrange the stuff, try it all again, sometimes in that order.At some point my internal compass says, dude, that's enough. So I slap a price tag on it, put it up for sale, and have a panic attack, and then you have a book. Sometimes it's a good book.The short answer, however, is that I've learned how to handle confusion. I've learned how to hold confusion, and that is a vital skill for a wandering mind, particularly when you want to find mastery and meaningful work. Good work.Creativity, Play, and the Wandering...
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  • Decision Overload
    We often focus on “information overload”, but we’re often more caught in decision overload.Discover the deeper reasons behind that compulsive scrolling and indecisiveness, and learn how moments of mindful pause can help you reclaim your agency and bring relief to your wandering mind. Here’s what you’ll uncover: • The hidden connection between decision-making, emotion, and the experience of overwhelm for ADHD and creative thinkers • Why seeking relief, rather than just a dopamine hit, drives compulsive behaviors—and how to channel that toward agency • A practical anchoring technique to hold options in mind and lighten decision fatigue, even in the busiest momentsKey Takeaways: • Learn the anchor technique in brief • Identify the emotional undercurrents behind your toughest choices, rather than blaming “willpower” • Practice settling into silence after considering your options, building the clarity you need to move forwardAnd as always, enjoy an original piano composition, “Veranda,” inspired by the rhythms of thought and the calm that emerges when scattered moments coalesce.For more mindful agency and creative flow, subscribe and join us at rhythmsoffocus.com.LinksResources & Links • Podcast Home: Rhythms of Focus • Waves of Focus Course: wavesoffocus.com • Author: kouroshdini.com • Anchor Technique on YoutubeKeywords#ADHD #WanderingMinds #decisionoverload #mindfulfocus #agency #creativity #anchoring #emotionalclarity #productivity #originalmusicTranscript Information vs Decision OverloadWe're not in a state of information overload. We're in a state of decision overload. What does that even mean?Looking for Relief  "Uh, I can't even get off TikTok or Instagram or any of these things."We have so many things coming at us. We're looking at so many different ideas and jumping from one thing to the next, trying to figure out what's the next best thing?Scrolling through our phones, we can wonder, okay, is it dopamine again? And as I've described elsewhere, we tend to use dopamine as this metaphor for those things we can't control, this button embedded somewhere in our brains connected to sex and food, hijacked by present day technologies.But drifting off somewhere into these things that stimulate our minds- it's not new. The internet's just the most readily available latest thing. The ancient game of Go, this fantastic game that dates back thousands of years, once referred to "Go widows", the wives of husbands whose entire days were consumed by the game.Look at a picture of people on a train from years ago, and you'll see most if not all of them, with their faces buried in newspapers. It's not just dopamine. If we stay with that word, we tend to lose meaning. We're not just looking for that quick hit.We're also looking, I theorize here for relief.What from? Relief from decision."Where do you wanna go for dinner? I don't know. Where do you want to go? Can't someone just decide?"Decisions are heavy. It's nicely pointed out by author Charnas, in his book Work Clean, the word "decide" shares its origins with "homicide" and "suicide." The word means to cut. We examine a ball of options and then cut. The decisions quicken when we engage in some related action.This is by no coincidence, quite related to how I define "agency," and you might wanna listen to episode nine for more on...
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  • The Ultimate Trick Will Ultimately Fail
    Have you ever wished a hack or clever trick could spark your momentum—only to watch it fade just as quickly? In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, we gently unravel why shortcuts can undermine our confidence and how true agency is built on self-trust and mindful practice, not fleeting novelty.Join me as we explore the honest path to sustainable motivation for adults with ADHD and wandering minds. You’ll discover why “faking it” or relying on tricks often sabotages our systems and how deep, rooted confidence grows from repeated, intentional practice. Together, we’ll navigate:- The hidden costs of tricks, hacks, and novelty-seeking in our personal systems- How genuine trust in oneself—not force or self-deception—lays the groundwork for true confidence- The transformative power of embracing gentle, manageable risks as part of everyday growthKey Takeaways:- Recognize why relying on hacks often erodes your sense of agency- Practice building trust in yourself through small, consistent actions (“daily visits”)- Embrace gentle risks as stepping stones to confidence and masteryThis episode features my original piano composition, “Running on the Sun”—a musical frame for the hopeful risks we take in growth.If you find this episode resonates, subscribe and explore more resources at rhythmsoffocus.com. Keywords#ADHD #WanderingMinds #MindfulProductivity #Agency #SelfTrust #DailyPractice #GentleRisk #Confidence #Neurodivergent #IntentionalLivingTranscript I just don't feel like it. If I only had a hack, if I had a trick, if I had something novel, a new, something different, that'll, something just gets me to start. Ah, once I start, I'm good.The trouble with these approaches, it's not that they don't work, it's sometimes they do. Ultimately the seeds of the destruction of our systems are there, in the beginning of these sorts of approaches where we've just found some trick. We lead ourselves down some destructive path, something that will eventually fail.Why does that happen? How does that happen? And then what does work?What's wrong with tricks and hacks?What's wrong with a trick or a hack? Why can't we just make these things happen so that we can start and make ourselves work. Well one trouble is that they often rely on some novelty of some sort, and novelty by definition will fall apart. And perhaps we argue so long as we can keep this roulette wheel of novel possibilities around, we'll be good.Okay, look, if that works for you, wonderful. Please go right ahead and do it.The trouble I have though is that I find that trying to trick my unconscious , that part of me that's deep, it doesn't work. It knows already that it's not going to work. Essentially, it goes into this conversation of,"Well, if I somehow manage to trick myself into showing up, chances are I might even do something. And I don't wanna do something, and so I won't even try."So the approach in this way would fall apart immediately.But even in the case that we do succeed in tricking or forcing ourselves, the trouble is that we've effectively told ourselves that we cannot do things without tricks or force. In this way, tricks rot our systems. Trust is FoundationalTrust is the foundation of any relationship, and most importantly, with the relationship that we have with ourselves. Psychoanalyst Eric Erickson notes the first task of infant development is Trust versus Mistrust. We try to know what we can rely on, and that goes well beyond infancy into our everyday world.Trust, as I'm defining it, is a developing belief that something will continue to behave as it has been, such that we can rely on it.As I tend to do, I like to repeat my definitions and I know I've presented trust before, but I'm gonna do it again. Trust is a...
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  • The Power of Doing Nothing
    The Power of Doing NothingCould there be power to “doing nothing”? In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, we untangle the unexpected value of “the visit”—the art of showing up to your work, play, or creative project without any pressure to act. It’s a practice especially vital for adults with ADHD and wandering minds, offering a way to foster agency and mindfulness beyond the rigid mold of traditional productivity.You’ll learn:Why allowing yourself to simply “be” with a task—without expectation—can spark clarity, motivation, and self-understanding.How daily visits help you navigate fear, procrastination, and the deeper emotional storms that influence your focus.Why embracing thoughtful pauses can nudge your creativity and reveal new paths, even in moments of resistance.Key Takeaways:A “visit” to your work strengthens agency and self-compassion, helping you move at your own rhythm.Facing the discomfort of pausing with your project is emotional work—often more powerful than sheer action.True progress begins in the quiet moments between doing—where insight and motivation have space to emerge.This episode features an original piano composition, “Where Did the Table Go?”, Subscribe for mindful strategies and visit rhythmsoffocus.com to explore more rhythms for your wandering mind.Keywords#ADHD #WanderingMinds #MindfulProductivity #EmotionalWork #Agency #DailyVisit #FocusStrategies #CreativePauses #RhythmsOfFocus #PianoMeditationTranscriptIntroduction What's the point of doing nothing?I've recommended this approach that we can make to our work where we can sit with it and even not do a thing. I call this a visit, and so when I make this recommendation, I regularly hear a quite understandable question.What's the point of doing nothing?Well, as it turns out quite a lot, and I can get into those reasons, but simply saying that and going through those reasons often isn't enough to make it appealing. In fact, this question, what's the point, can often be a way of avoiding the attempt. It's protecting us from something.It can even act as a proxy for several quite understandable reasons for avoiding what could be a powerful tool in your life.A Visit ReviewedA visit, even more so, a daily visit to some work that you have in front of you, some play that you wanna get into can be an absolute force to be reckoned with -this wonderful unit of work that can guide projects, habits, even developing relationships into fruition at a pace that works for you.I've described visits in some detail in episode four, but in short, they're about showing up to a thing, whatever that thing is, desired, dreaded, and then fully being there without any obligation to doing any of it.We could sit there staring out at the garden. Maybe we nudge it here or there. Maybe we get into a flow, or maybe we walk away without having touched it at all.The important matter is that we're somehow fully there for at least a moment, maybe for a single deep breath.Allowing ourselves to do nothing is not only important, it's absolutely vital. It supports that sense of agency. It's like the difference between being assigned a book to read in school or choosing to read that same book yourself.The Complexity of a VisitWhile a visit can sound simple, it is by no means simple.In fact, it can not only be difficult, it can be dangerous and scary. In this question, "what's the point of doing nothing?" There's a clue in fear. Somehow we'd waste our time. The fear of wasting time is one of wasting life- this existentially awful feeling.What would we gain in taking this chance of being and not necessarily doing?For example, let's say I'm struggling with a school report. If I simply avoid it, I might fail the class. If...
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Join psychiatrist, musician, and productivity strategist Dr. Kourosh Dini on a journey to transform your relationship with work, creativity, and focus. "Rhythms of Focus: for Wandering Minds, ADHD, and Beyond" explores the intersection of meaningful work and the art of engaging creativity and responsibility without force, particularly for wandering minds, ADHD, and beyond. Each week, Dr. Dini weaves together insights from psychiatry, mindfulness practices, and creative experiences to help you develop your own path beyond productivity, and to mastery and meaningful work. Whether you're neurodivergent or simply seeking a more authentic approach to engaging the world, you'll discover practical strategies for: - Building supportive environments that honor your unique way of thinking - Transforming resistance into creative momentum - Developing personalized workflows that actually stick - Understanding and working with your mind's natural rhythms Drawing from his experience as both a practicing psychiatrist and creative artist, Dr. Dini offers a compassionate perspective on productivity that goes beyond traditional time management techniques. You'll learn why typical productivity advice often falls short and how to craft approaches that genuinely resonate with your mind's natural tendencies.
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