Mamas On A Mission

From our DMs to the Mic: in the last episode of the season, Charlotte & Fay answer answer listener questions about self-esteem, co-parenting, dating, CMS and friendships post-divorce.
They emphasise the importance of community support and personal growth, while also addressing the challenges of parenting and maintaining connections with children. In this conversation, the hosts delve into the complexities of co-parenting, particularly in the context of emotional abuse and the challenges of navigating child support systems. They emphasise the importance of self-care and healing for parents, while also addressing the systemic issues that often leave single parents struggling financially.
Questions answered;
How to build up self esteem/confidence again after an affair/divorce?
When to be intimate with a guy you’re dating?
When to meet the kids
Might be impossible - But how do deal with the fact that the dad isn’t interested but the children want to see him
When I became a single mum I lost friends, did you? I’ve felt alone a lot lately
How do you keep in touch with the kids when they’re at their others parents house?
How do you navigate things like potty training while co-parenting esp with conflict
How to say I’m done being nice please go fuck yourself you bastard in the nicest way possible
How to tell ex husband about new boyfriend? I’m still married
Ive had to apply for child maintenance due to my ex not seeing my son for the last 4 weeks - just received a letter saying I'll get £25 a week! I'm furious, he earns over 70k a year self employed but declares 12k, is there anything I can do?
I'm in the process of separating from my emotionally abusive, narcissistic partner. He earns significantly more than I do, yet under our 50/50 custody arrangement, the child support he’s required to pay is minimal. Sometimes, I find myself wondering: Is it wrong or selfish to think maybe our child would be better off living primarily with his dad? I love my child deeply, but this system feels so broken. It’s like it’s built to ignore the invisible labour and emotional toll of parenting.

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In this episode, Charlotte & Fay dive into the powerful shift happening in modern womanhood, where being single is no longer seen as a lonely, but a conscious, empowered choice. They explore the driving forces behind this shift, including the cultural, emotional, and personal reasons why more women are choosing singlehood over settling. The conversation also touches on modern relationship dynamics, shifting expectations of men, and the cost of parenting. From exes to emotional labour, this episode invites women to prioritise peace, purpose, and self-respect in all things love and life.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction. Moans & Manifestations
06:11 The Rise of Single Women: A Choice?
12:15 Emotional Independence and Self-Awareness
18:31 The Impact of Societal Norms on Relationships
24:44 Male Loneliness Epidemic and Relationship Expectations
30:31 The Role of Education and Career in Women's Choices
35:58 Financial Independence and the Future of Relationships

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In this episode, Charlotte and Fay get honest about the side of co-parenting that doesn’t always make the highlight reel. After exploring the positives of co-parenting in Episode 3, this conversation dives into the harder truths; the emotional toll, the loneliness, the power struggles, and the mental load that often goes unseen.
With raw vulnerability, they reflect on their own experiences navigating separation, mismatched parenting styles, and the tough handovers that can leave everyone emotionally drained. They discuss the importance of tuning into children’s emotional needs while also acknowledging their own. As always, Charlotte and Fay include ways they have coped during these co-parenting struggles, to help, support & inspire Mums listening to this episode.
This is a necessary follow-up to the previous episode here bthat focuses on the positive parts of co-parenting :https://art19.com/shows/mama-on-a-mission/episodes/4e499ffe-fdc6-4ad0-92dc-dbb8d427e0cd
Charlotte and Fay hold space for both truths, reminding listeners that it’s okay to feel the weight and still choose to show up with love.
Chapters
00:00 Moans & Manifestations
Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges
06:09 Emotional Struggles of Separation
10:47 Coping with Children's Emotional Needs
15:14 The Impact of Different Parenting Styles
22:47 Managing Mental Load and Responsibilities
27:30 Comparing Family Dynamics
33:05 Handling Tough Handoffs and Emotions

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In this episode, Charlotte and Fay share the warning signs all single parents must look out for, when dating again. From future faking, to love bombing, to lack of communication and effort. They draw on personal experiences and offer tangible advice, tips and never heard before dating stories.
As always, they begin with their hilarious moans and manifestations segment. So Grab your wine, coffee or tea & dive on in.
Chapters;
00:00 Introduction and Gratitude
04:55 Personal Experiences and Manifestations
10:08 Dating Red Flags: Future Faking
16:44 Effort in Dating: Planning Dates
21:31 Understanding Schedules as Single Parents
23:26 Negative Talk About Exes
26:18 Involvement with Children
31:03 Communication Styles in Dating
36:05 Asking Questions: A Sign of Interest
40:20 Conclusion and Future Topics

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In this episode, Fay shares her personal journey as she prepares for court day. She discusses the emotional and practical aspects of preparing for court during a divorce. She delves into coping strategies for managing emotions like anger and bitterness in co-parenting, emphasising the significance of focusing on the well-being of children. The episode offers insights into navigating the complexities of divorce while maintaining a positive mindset and self-care practices.
Chapters
00:00 Preparing for Court: A Personal Journey
09:29 Manifestation and Spiritual Growth
10:11 Navigating Divorce: Court Preparation Strategies
24:37 Coping with Emotions: Anger and Bitterness in Co-Parenting
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