The Divorce Podcast

What happens when you find love again after losing your partner - and that second love story ends too? 
Bereavement and divorce are widely cited as the two most stressful life events a person can go through – and Rosie Moss has lived both. Widowed suddenly in her thirties with three young children, Rosie found love again – and then walked through the breakdown of that second marriage. She joins Kate not to talk about how hard it's been, but about what's grown out of it.
Rosie is host of the award-winning podcast Widowed AF and author of the bestselling book Widowed As F**k. Together, Kate and Rosie explore love, loss, dating again and learning to like yourself through it all.
We talk about:
Meeting someone through shared grief - and what happens when a relationship is fast-tracked by loss
Helping children make sense of a step-parent leaving their lives 
Dating again as both a widow and a divorcee
Protecting your peace and discovering the strength you didn't know you had 
This episode is for anyone navigating loss and separation, dating again after divorce or bereavement, or simply trying to make sense of what comes next when life takes a turn you didn't plan for. 
Trigger warning: This episode discusses bereavement, mental health and alcohol use. If you're affected by anything discussed, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Meet Rosie Moss
Rosie Moss is the host of the award-winning podcast Widowed AF and author of the bestselling book Widowed As F**k. Widowed suddenly in her thirties with three young children, she found love again - and now speaks openly about what happens when that second relationship doesn't work out, and how hard it is to protect children while everything is shifting around them.
Her work focuses on the overlap between grief, separation and long-term stress, and how these experiences shape decision-making, resilience and recovery - particularly for women balancing it all. Through her podcast and writing, Rosie has built a global community by challenging the clichés around grief and divorce, and focusing on what life actually looks like when you're in the middle of it.
Follow Rosie on Instagram to learn more about her journey. 
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Family court is the part of divorce most people hope to avoid – and for good reason. But if it becomes part of your journey, knowing what to expect can change everything.
Kate is joined by Beth Kirkland from AdviceNow to talk about what happens when court becomes unavoidable, what it actually feels like to walk into one and how to give yourself the best chance if you're representing yourself.
We talk about:
How AdviceNow can help if you're going through a divorce or separation
The reasons couples end up in family court – and why it should be a last resort
What court actually feels like and what the common myths and misconceptions are
Beth's practical advice to anyone facing court without legal representation
This episode is for anyone navigating divorce or separation in England and Wales who wants to understand the family court process – whether court feels close, or you simply want to know your options before things escalate.
A note before you listen: this episode includes references to domestic abuse and coercive control. If you're affected by anything we discuss, you'll find support organisations listed at the bottom of this description.
Support organisations:
Women's Aid – womensaid.org.uk
Refuge – refuge.org.uk
ManKind Initiative – mankind.org.uk
Men's Advice Line – mensadviceline.org.uk
Mind – mind.org.uk
Samaritans – dial 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258
If your life is in danger, dial 999
The statistic Beth references comes from the Everyday Business report, published by the Domestic Abuse Commissioner in October 2025, which found evidence of domestic abuse in 73% of observed family court cases and 87% of case files involving children. Read the full report here. 
About AdviceNow
AdviceNow is a UK-based not-for-profit organisation and charity that increases access to justice by helping people to deal with life's legal problems. They provide legal support, including information, legal self-help tools, and training to help people use the law.
You can access free resources for divorce and separation that Beth mentions in the episode on AdviceNow website, and you can watch a video about the experience of family court with some helpful tips here. 
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Supporting your children through separation goes so much further than one difficult conversation - but knowing how to keep showing up for them is something many parents struggle with.
Kate is joined by Hannah Strong, therapist, separated mum and founder of My Thriving Child, to explore what children really need from their parents during and after a separation. Drawing on science, psychology and her own lived experience, Hannah shares her framework for helping children not just cope - but thrive.
We talk about:
Why it's not about getting it perfect – and the reassuring research behind that
What's really going on in your child's brain when family life changes
How to spot the signs your child might be struggling, even when they seem fine
Why the first conversation about your separation is just the beginning
The small everyday actions that help your children build security and thrive
This episode is for any parent going through separation who wants to do right by their children - whether they're at the very start of the process or years down the line.
Meet Hannah Strong
Hannah Strong is a therapist, coach and separated mum who specialises in helping parents to support their children in the best way possible through divorce - so their children do not just survive, but genuinely thrive. 
You can learn more about how Hannah can help your family on the My Thriving Child website and you can follow her on Instagram for more helpful tips. 
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200 episodes of honest, hopeful conversations about divorce – here are the moments that stayed with us.
To mark our 200th episode, we're looking back at some of the conversations that have meant the most – to us and to you. From day one, The Divorce Podcast has been part of amicable's mission to change the way people separate, making divorce kinder, fairer and a little less lonely. This special episode brings together the honest, funny and moving moments that capture exactly why we do it.
In this episode, you'll hear from:
Ella Kenion – on co-parenting, and why the thought of an ex meeting someone new can still sting
Emma Campbell – on the emotional weight of single parenting
Emma Reed Turrell – on the difference between kindness and people pleasing
Hal Cruttenden – on how hard many men find it to open up
Jonathan Fitter-Harding – on the day-to-day reality of 'nesting' and co-parenting with kindness
Ebele Okobi – on grief, growth and an unexpected reconciliation
This episode is for anyone navigating separation who could use a reminder that they're not alone – and a lovely place to start if you're new to the podcast.
So many of you have told us how much the podcast has helped over the years, and that means everything. If someone you know might need it too, please share this episode with them.
Trigger warning: This episode touches on themes that some people might find distressing, including serious illness, bereavement and times of low mood. If you're affected by anything discussed, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Meet our guests
Ella Kenion is an actress with a long and varied career across stage and screen, with highlights including 'The Outlaws', 'The Detectorists' and 'Midsomer Murders'. 
Emma Campbell is an author, speaker and podcast host, known to her Instagram followers as Limitless Em. 
Emma Reed Turrell is a psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, podcaster and author of Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live and What Am I Missing? Discover the Four Blind Spots That are Holding You Back and How to Overcome Them.
Hal Cruttenden is a stand-up comedian, actor and podcaster. In his latest show, Hal Cruttenden: Can Dish It Out But Can't Take It, he discussed the devastation of his divorce - after 20 years of marriage his wife left him.
Jonathan Fitter-Harding is a proud dad of two, a creative entrepreneur and one of the key people behind Pride Canterbury - the main LGBTQ+ event in the South East.
Ebele Okobi is the principal of Revolutionary Projects, an advisor, board member and maker of good trouble with 25 years of experience leading global teams across tech, consumer brands and arts institutions.
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Divorce can hit men hard – and many dads withdraw just when they need people most. For divorcing dads, that isolation isn't only painful – it can be dangerous.
Kate is joined by psychologist Dr Eran Magen, founder of Divorcing Dads, to explore why men are so much more at risk during separation – and the simple things that help them through it.
We talk about:
Why divorced dads face a much higher suicide risk
The particular challenges separated dads face, and the part society still plays in making them harder
How a strong support network protects men's mental health
A simple way to tell friends and family what's going on - and ask for what you need
This episode is for any dad going through separation – and for anyone who wants to better support the men they care about.
Trigger warning: this episode talks about poor mental health and suicide. If you're affected by anything discussed, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Meet Eran Magen
Dr. Eran Magen earned his M.A. in education and Ph.D. in psychology from Stanford University and completed post-doctoral training in child psychology and population health. He is currently an assistant clinical professor at the Yale School of Medicine Department of Psychiatry. Eran is the founder of Divorcing Dads and Parenting For Humans, both of which support parents in building strong, collaborative and joyful relationships with their children. He is also the founder of EarlyAlert, which provides early suicide prevention support for students and veterans.
You can listen to Eran on the Divorcing Dads podcast and get in touch with him on LinkedIn.
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