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• ADHD & Emotional Regulation

  Why is emotional regulation more challenging for children with ADHD - and how can we help our kids cope better with their emotions?In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by expert guest Dr Alessio Bellato to discuss the fascinating link between ADHD and emotional regulation. Dr Alessio is a Lecturer in Child and Adolescent Mental Health at the University of Southampton and a Psychologist with expertise in Child Psychiatry and Psychology. Whilst it is not part of the official DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for ADHD, emotional regulation can pose a significant challenge for children with ADHD and of course, parents too. In this episode, Claire and Dr Alessio discuss how emotional regulation develops. Rather than something we are born with, it is a skill we learn as we develop, and social acceptance plays a key role. Dr Alessio also touches on the difference between emotional reactivity and regulation and how different regions of the brain handle these processes in children with ADHDDr Alessio also describes some of the emotional dysregulation challenges for children with ADHD - for example, increased reactivity and sensitivity, difficulties with challenging behaviour like bullying, plus the challenges of managing teacher and parent expectations as they transition from primary to secondary school. He provides some interesting insight into Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) and the impact of real and perceived rejection on emotional regulation, for example, if children feel excluded from a friend group, rejected by a potential partner in their teens, or for a job. Dr Alessio describes how “putting rejection into context” and discussing the consequences of potential rejection with children can help them interpret it and better cope with it as they grow up.Claire and Dr Alessio go on to describe how we can learn to regulate our emotions with healthy coping strategies, providing insight into what happens in the brain when we react to stress and why babies cry so much. He also explains how emotional regulation is first something we rely on our caregivers for, and how we eventually learn to regulate our nervous system as we grow up. Finally, they discuss the different options to support emotional dysregulation in ADHD children. Dr Alessio shares some fascinating findings from a meta-analysis (as yet unpublished as of May 2025) on different interventions, showing that medication, behavioural therapies, coaching, and also exercise can be helpful to support children in regulating their emotions. He also describes how medication and other interventions can work in harmony to create better outcomes for people with ADHD, by “calming our mind and also our body”. Dr Alessio also invites parents to reflect on their own emotional regulation and the behaviours they model for their children as a result, emphasising the impact of speaking openly about your feelings with your children, particularly during big life transitions.This episode is a must-listen for parents looking to understand emotional regulation and reactivity in their ADHD children, and how best to support their kids to cope better with their feelings.To find out more about Alessio and his work, head to:https://telegraph.co.uk/gift/757cfcff3a168b76https://www.olihelp.com/post/emotional-regulation-and-adhd-how-can-we-better-manage-our-emotionsTo read other relevant papers on emotional regulation and dysregulation:https://www.jaacap.org/article/S0890-8567(24)00304-6/fulltexthttps://www.mdpi.com/2076-3425/14/5/453https://www.jaacap.org/article/S0890-8567(23)00075-8/fulltexthttps://acamh.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/jcv2.12148

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• EHCPs and SEND Law

  What is an Education, Health and Care (EHC) Plan, and how do you get one for your child?In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, we get the facts on EHCPs and SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disability) law with expert guest, Douglas Hamer. Douglas breaks down the legal essentials of EHCPs: what they are, how to get one, and what to do when things get complicated. We also touch on school placements, home education and EOTAS (Education Otherwise Than At School). Douglas is a specialist SEND solicitor who brings both professional expertise and lived experience of neurodivergence, to his work supporting families. Douglas's work focuses on EHCPs, ensuring they secure the right provision and placement for the child or young person, as well as ensuring they're worded robustly to protect the child or young person in the future.This episode is packed with key facts on the legalities of EHCPs and SEND law, along with guidance and insight for parents navigating this complex and often difficult system. Douglas walks us through: Understanding EHCPs - Douglas lays out the specifics of your legal rights, busts some myths around who can request an EHC Plan and also explains that an EHC Plan shouldn’t be seen as a "golden ticket”, rather, it is an important legal right to necessary provisions for children and young people.Your Legal Rights - Douglas elaborates on your legal rights under the Equality Act and the different provisions available under an EHC Plan, such as specialist teaching, speech and language therapy, occupational therapy, and psychological input. He also provides key details on how special educational needs are identified, the threshold for requiring an EHC Plan, plus how EHC Plans are funded.How to get an EHC Plan - If you suspect your child might need an EHC Plan, Douglas provides insight into how to request a needs assessment, what you can expect from a SENCO, and how the SEND Code of Practice works to continually assess whether your child is getting the right support.Why EHC Plan requests are often refused - and crucially, what parents can do about it. Douglas stresses the importance of “not taking no for an answer”,  maintaining a paper trail of evidence, and appealing decisions to the SEND tribunal.How to draft an EHC Plan - Douglas advises parents on how to include specific and measurable provisions, plus he describes what role independent educational experts play in the assessment process.Naming a preferred school in an EHC Plan - Douglas discusses why parents should consult with appropriate schools to provide a list for the local authority to consider, the challenges of securing placements in expensive independent schools, and the potential for appeals.The difference between elective home education (EHE) and EOTAS (Education Otherwise Than At School) - Douglas outlines what options parents have available as alternatives to traditional school placements, plus their parental legal obligations to educate their children vs the responsibility of the local authority. He also describes how the goal of EOTAS and EHC Plans is ideally to eventually support children to return to bricks-and-mortar education.Douglas’ personal journey - he also shares his experience of being diagnosed with dyspraxia at 13 and later with ADHD and Autism, plus how this understanding has helped him develop his own coping mechanisms, and improve his emotional regulation and relationships.This is a must-listen for all parents of SEN children, no matter where they are on their journey, providing a wealth of factual legal guidance on how to navigate a tricky system and still get the right educational support in place for their child.To find out more about Douglas and his work, head to: https://www.geldards.com/our-people/douglas-hamer/ 

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• Rachel Fuller - My ADHD Story

  Does your child with ADHD have an outlet for their creativity?In this episode of All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by special guest Rachel Fuller to share her inspiring ADHD story. Rachel is a composer, arranger and singer-songwriter, and has been making music since she was 10 years old. As such, her creative journey is deeply intertwined with her personal experiences. Diagnosed with ADHD in her late 40s, she navigated childhood challenges within the confines of mainstream education, emerging with a profound understanding of difference. Rachel’s talent and achievements provide a “crystal ball” for parents on the ADHD journey, illustrating just one of the ways ADHD creativity can shape a fulfilling and enjoyable career path.Rachel begins by describing her ADHD ‘aha’ moment when, prompted by a friend sharing their own diagnosis, she read Driven to Distraction by Hallowell and Ratey. Despite being initially skeptical about ADHD and believing it was just a label for “naughty kids”, she gradually came to recognise her own symptoms and seek a professional diagnosis. This led to her understanding ADHD as a physical condition rather than a character flaw.With her passion for music beginning at such a young age, Rachel goes on to describe how music provided a therapeutic outlet to help her cope with her high levels of anxiety. Due to the lack of emotional support she received at home and in school, Rachel learned to mask and internalise her anxiety, feeling inherently “different” and envious of her peers who just seemed to find things easier. Claire and Rachel discuss the importance of truly understanding ADHD in children in order to provide them with the support they need, and the impact that could have had for Rachel in her own childhood.Rachel’s encourages parents of ADHD children to watch out for their strengths and support their creative expression, particularly through the arts as they provide an ideal outlet for their energy. She also shares some wonderful insight into the story behind her book. Set to an original soundtrack, BEE is an enchanting story that inspires compassion and acceptance, and provides a fantastic resource for parents looking to support their children to find their own magical place in the world.To buy a copy of BEE, head to: https://www.amazon.co.uk/BEE-story-that-celebrates-differences/dp/1916797296To find out more about Rachel and her work, head to:https://www.instagram.com/rachelfullertownshend/?hl=en

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• The ADHD-Autism Link

  If you have a child who has an ADHD diagnosis, how likely are they to also fulfil the criteria for autism? And how can you best support them?In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by expert guest Professor Emily Simonoff to discuss the fascinating link and crossover between ADHD and autism in children. Emily is a professor of child and adolescent psychiatry at the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology and Neuroscience at King's College London, and honorary consultant child and adolescent psychiatrist at the South London and Wardsley NHS Foundation Trust. Professor Emily's research and clinical focus is on neurodevelopmental disorders in children and young people and their overlap with other mental disorders.A dual diagnosis was only possible from 2013, following a pivotal study in 2008 which was one of the first to establish that ADHD and autism can and do coexist. According to Professor Emily, the overlap between autism and ADHD is significant, with approximately 10-15% of children with ADHD also having autism, and 40-50% of those with autism having ADHD. She and Claire discuss the complexity of this crossover, stressing the importance of rigorous professional assessment to accurately diagnose both conditions. Professor Emily describes the genetic links between ADHD and autism, along with some fascinating insight from studies that compare identical and non-identical twins to better understand these genetic influences. Claire and Professor Emily go on to discuss why it's so important to recognise the overlap between ADHD and autism and how it manifests specifically for that child, highlighting how understanding their “whole profile” has a huge impact on a their ability to acheive their best potential. Professor Emily explains some of the differences in diagnostic assessments for autism and ADHD and shares some examples of how traits that go in one direction or another can balance themselves out when a child has both conditions.Having both ADHD and autism can significantly effect a child's self-perception and confidence, so Professor Emily highlights the importance of disentangling traits related to autism and ADHD, to ensure children are getting the right support. She also describes the link between anxiety and depression in children with both conditions, with anxiety more common during primary school and depression often presenting later, in secondary school. Claire and Professor Emily also discuss some of the ways we can better support children with dual diagnoses, including building positive experiences outside of school that feed into their interests and strengths, and considering a child's needs as they transition from primary to secondary school.This is a must-listen for parents of children with dual diagnoses, or who suspect that their autistic or ADHD child is also displaying traits of the other profile.To find out about Professor Emily and her work, visit:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18645422/https://www.kcl.ac.uk/people/emily-simonoffhttps://www.researchgate.net/profile/Emily-Simonoff

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• SEN and the Universal Classroom

  How can we better support children’s learning needs in school - without having to rely on formal diagnoses?The Universal Classroom project, led by Professor Joel Talcott, aims to address the crisis in special educational needs (SEN) provision in UK primary education. Joel is Professor of Developmental Cognitive Neuroscience at Aston University. His core research professional interests and outputs lie in interdisciplinary cognitive neuroscience, particularly in relation to the neurodevelopmental conditions that impact the learning and achievement outcomes of approximately 5% of all children and adults worldwide. In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire and Professor Joel discuss how the Universal Classroom project will identify children’s individual learning needs early, reducing the reliance on formal diagnostic labels and providing free, non-proprietary tools for teachers to assess and support children's cognitive skills.Claire and Professor Joel begin by discussing the impact of current underfunding and inefficiencies in the UK education system, particularly in SEN funding, and the government's commitment to additional resources and reform. With the Universal Classroom taking a strengths-based approach, Professor Joel describes how it is ideally placed to bridge the gap  and create a fairer system where all children have access to appropriate educational support, ultimately dissolving the barrier between special educational needs and general educational needs.Professor Joel also emphasies the need for a positive approach to SEN provision, with the universal classroom project aiming to create a collaborative environment where teachers, parents, and children work together to support learning. Claire and Professor Joel also discuss the long-term potential of the project, including reducing the need for formal diagnostic labels, reducing inequalities in SEN provision, improving children's learning outcomes and reducing economic losses.This episode is a must-listen for parents navigating the challenges of the current SEN system and offers a real message of hope for the future of the education system.To find out more about Professor Joel Talcott and his work, visit:Joel's profile - https://research.aston.ac.uk/en/persons/joel-talcottSchool of Psychology - https://www.aston.ac.uk/hls/school-of-psychologyIHN - https://www.aston.ac.uk/research/hls/ihnInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/astonuniversity/

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