All Aboard ADHD

• Devin - My Parenting Story

  How can parents navigate the many and varied challenges of raising neurodivergent children with ADHD and autism?In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by Devin, adoptive father of two neurodivergent children, both of whom are diagnosed with ADHD and autism, and former Head of Technology in the finance industry. Devin also has late-diagnosed ADHD himself and is now a full-time parent carer for his children, as well as supporting other families who are struggling to navigate life as new SEN or Adoptive Parents. Devin shares honestly and openly about his parenting journey, including some of the early signs of neurodiversity in his children, which were harder for him to spot as they can sometimes be mistaken for attachment or trauma-related behaviours in adopted children. He describes their diagnosis process, sharing some of the differences between the two and providing examples of how traits can manifest differently in girls and boys. Devin also shares his feelings of grief and relief around accepting his children’s differences. With a diagnosis in place, Devin discusses the impact of medication and how it has helped both of his children in terms of their mood and behaviour. Many parents will relate to the challenges he describes in terms of daily routines and school refusal, particularly as an ADHD parent himself! Devin also shares some of the challenges he faced advocating for his children and their needs, to ensure they found the right educational environment. Following a challenging period of overwhelm and stress around school avoidance, Devin made the decision to take his son out of school. This led to many challenges navigating the EHCP (Education, Health and Care Plan) process for his son, but he was eventually successful in ensuring his son had the right educational setup to thrive. Devin also shares some incredible examples of how he has taken the time to deeply understand his children and what works for them.Finally, Claire and Devin discuss some of the emotional challenges of parenting and the need to constantly adapt parenting strategies for their children as they grow. They both stress the importance of seeking community support, encouraging parents listening to share their experiences and ultimately feel less alone.The episode is an honest, relatable conversation about how to navigate neurodiversity as a parent, showcasing the power of resilience, acceptance, and unconditional love.Find out more about Devin and his work at: www.thesensibleapproach.com

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• ADHD and Co-Existing Conditions

  What are some of the most common co-existing conditions that exist alongside ADHD, and how can parents identify them in their children?Join Claire and expert guest Professor James Brown in this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast to understand which conditions most commonly co-exist with ADHD and crucially, why that might be. Professor James is a biomedical scientist, ADHD coach, the co-founder of ADHD Adult UK, and one of the creators of the ADHD adults podcast. Diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood, James brings both academic expertise and personal insight to his work. He is also the co-author of ADHD Unpacked, which provides a practical and honest guide to understanding ADHD in everyday life.Professor James begins by giving some examples of what a co-existing (or co-morbid) condition might look like in children with ADHD, for instance, anxiety disorders, dyspraxia, dyslexia, autism, and mood disorders. Incredibly, 60-70% of children with ADHD will have at least one co-existing condition, with 40% having two or more. Despite the prevalence of co-existing conditions, Professor James sheds light on the challenges around diagnosis, due to overlapping symptoms and the limitations of current diagnostic tools, stressing the need for a more holistic approach to diagnosing neurodivergent conditions.Together they dive deep into some of the fascinating biological and social factors behind ADHD and co-existing conditions, including key insight into how ADHD and mood disorders impact the brain, plus the potential role of inflammation, where research is still very much emerging. Professor James also explains the challenges of diagnosing ADHD in children with other conditions like dyslexia, encouraging a "yes and" mindset in the diagnosis process, rather than “either or.” With the right knowledge, parents are better able to advocate for their children and improve their understanding of ADHD, so Claire and Professor James discuss the need for a more inclusive and accepting understanding of neurodivergent conditions, reducing the shame and stigma around difference. Finally, Professor James emphasises the need to consider multiple domains of a child's life, including sleep, socialisation, and emotional control to ensure the right diagnosis. He also encourages parents to trust their gut and seek deeper understanding if they feel their child is not getting the right support. He and Claire also explore some of the lesser-known conditions that can co-exist with ADHD, such as sensory processing differences, demand avoidance, social anxiety and addiction.This episode is a must-listen for parents looking to understand and support their children with ADHD, especially where they suspect one or more co-occurring conditions.To find out more about Professor James and his work, head to: https://jbhd.uk/ You can find out more about his charity here: https://www.adhdadult.uk/To order a copy of his book - ADHD Unpacked - head to: https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/adhd-unpacked-9781526679369/ To listen to his podcast The ADHD Adults head to: https://open.spotify.com/show/2oYZwGakl7shJFG0lJ8JMt The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and/or personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances. 

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• My ADHD Story: Stride Beyond Silence

  Trigger warning: this episode contains detailed personal accounts of Kit's experiences, some of which could be emotionally challenging for some listeners, including suicide, addiction, eating disorders and self-harm.In this episode of All Aboard ADHD, Claire is joined by special guest Kit Birks - writer, adventurer, mental health activist and recovering addict living with ADHD and bipolar disorder. Kit speaks with raw honesty, breaking the silence around mental illness and vowing that no one should ever feel as alone or misunderstood as she once did. Her debut poetry collection “Burnt Toast” captures the quiet strength it takes to keep going and the beauty that can grow from brokenness. She is now undertaking “Stride Beyond Silence” - a world record solo trek spanning over 8500km, across ten countries, to raise awareness for suicide prevention.Kit shares a deeply personal account of her journey, with an ADHD diagnosis at 26, during her recovery from addiction, followed by a bipolar diagnosis a year later. Kit discusses the relief she felt afterwards as her “jigsaw puzzle” started to come together and the impact of being told by her psychiatrist that she had “done so well to get this far”. Kit also shares some of her early struggles with mental health, including insomnia, depression, and eating disorders, starting at just 12 years old. With a lack of information and education about ADHD at the time, and Kit being deemed “unteachable”, she began to feel more like a problem than a person. As an adult, Kit shares the huge impact her diagnosis had in terms of helping her to feel more understood and less alone in her struggles.Kit goes on to talk about the strengths she has developed despite her personal challenges, such as her ability to excel when she is particularly passionate about something. She discusses how her experiences have fueled her passion for helping others and why she believes reducing stigma around mental health is important. A key turning point came for her in early 2022, when she hit rock bottom and decided to seek help and attend a meeting with a friend. This marked the beginning of her process to empty her "invisible rucksack" of shame and trauma and ultimately learning to accept herself. Kit also explains how she discovered poetry as “a form of therapy” shortly after starting her recovery and how her book, "Burnt Toast," chronicles her journey from pain, to healing, and blooming, through poetry.Finally, Kit introduces her phenomenal solo trek, "Stride Beyond Silence," on which she has just embarked, to raise awareness for suicide prevention. She also offers a message of hope for parents of children with ADHD, stressing the positive impact of honest conversations and reassuring them that “even when it feels like it won't, it really will be okay.”Follow Kit’s trek on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @kitbirksYou can find out more about her trek here: https://www.kitbirks.com/stridebeyondsilenceAnd donate to support her mission to raise awareness for suicide prevention here: https://givestar.io/gs/stride-beyond-silence-arctic-to-aegean The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and/or personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances. 

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• ADHD & Explosive Behaviours

  How do we best support our ADHD kids with explosive behaviour?In this episode of All Aboard ADHD, Claire is joined by expert guest Sarah Ockwell-Smith to discuss ADHD and explosive behaviours. Sarah is a well-known parenting expert and author who writes about the psychology and science of parenting. She specialises in gentle parenting - a movement she is often credited as founding - and “childism”, which is the unconscious discrimination of children in society. Sarah is the mother of four young adults, including a son with ADHD. She has ADHD and autism herself. Her latest book, "Raising Attention" is a compassionate, evidence-informed, and deeply personal guide for anybody who has or works with children with ADHD and explosive behaviours.Sarah begins by defining the term ‘explosive behavior’, which can be anything from verbal aggression to physical actions, and how it relates to ADHD. She describes what drives explosive behaviour and what is going on for children on the inside in those moments. Whilst not all children with ADHD exhibit explosive behavior, and the term is not limited to children with ADHD, it can pose significant challenges, particularly at school. Claire and Sarah discuss the term ‘naughty’ and how it can keep children stuck in the "cycle of shame," where they feel useless and shamed, leading to more explosive behavior. Sarah also provides a challenge to the ethos of “all behaviour is communication”, highlighting the role of brain development as another potential driver of children’s behaviour, preferring to say "all behaviour has a reason".They go on to discuss the challenges of parenting and the importance of focusing on the child's well-being and long-term development, rather than compliance. Sarah provides some insight into the benefits of understanding your child’s triggers and capabilities. She also shares some practical strategies for parents to help them manage tricky situations, particularly when out in public, along with the importance of repairing and reconnecting with your child after a meltdown.Finally, Sarah shares her viewpoint on how schools can better support children with ADHD. Whilst many teachers understand the needs of neurodivergent children they are often limited by the educational system itself. Sarah encourages parents to celebrate small successes with their ADHD kids and to accept them as they are, rather than trying to change them.If you are looking for practical strategies to better support your ADHD child with explosive behaviour, this episode is a must-listen!You can order a copy of Sarah’s brand new book “Raising Attention” (release date 3rd July 2025):https://amzn.eu/d/0iAyXhzTo find out more about Sarah and her work:https://sarahockwell-smith.com/To follow Sarah on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sarahockwellsmithThe views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and/or personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances. 

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• My Neurodiverse Sport Story

  How can sport benefit ADHD and neurodivergent kids?In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by special guest Caragh McMurty to discuss the challenges and strengths of neurodivergence in sport. Caragh is a Team GB and Olympic rower, as well as being the co-founder and CEO of Neurodiverse Sport - whose mission is to empower athletes, participants, volunteers, and professionals to create a future where neuroinclusive practice is the norm, not the exception. Caragh speaks passionately about the danger of relying too heavily on labels and is determined to challenge common neurodiversity misconceptions to ensure athletes at all levels feel supported - from grassroots to elite competition. She is passionate about the transformative power in sports to empower neurodivergent individuals to learn, grow and self-regulate.Caragh kicks off by sharing a raw and honest look at her own journey, beginning with being misdiagnosed with anxiety, depression, and bipolar disorder, until finally receiving an autism diagnosis in her late 20s and beginning to suspect ADHD. Although she presented a ‘tough as nails’ exterior to avoid being bullied, Caragh felt vulnerable underneath it all - a fact that went unappreciated by peers and coaches alike. She explains how gaining the right diagnosis has since helped her better understand her brain and advocate for herself, particularly in sport. Certain environments in sport can cause sensory overload, which Caragh explains can be mistaken for a lack of motivation to exercise but is actually key for mental health. She also shares insight into some of the stereotypes about neurodiversity in sport and why we need to challenge them to ensure children can thrive.Claire and Caragh discuss the need for flexible systems in sport to accommodate neurodivergent individuals and the impact of positive reinforcement from coaches, particularly for children with ADHD. Caragh goes on to talk about Neurodiverse Sport’s mission to raise awareness and promote neuroinclusive practices in all sports, to ensure children feel fully understood and supported. She encourages parents to find a supportive community and to play an active role in helping their children thrive in sport.To find out more about Caragh and Neurodiverse Sport, head to: https://www.neurodiversesport.com/

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