Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

After years of criticism around child safety, Roblox is rolling out major changes designed to better protect kids online — and this podcast has the exclusive Australian interview.
Justin talks directly with Roblox Chief Safety Officer Matt Kaufman about the platform’s new age-based accounts, facial age checks, tighter content moderation, chat restrictions, and updated parental controls.
Can parents finally trust Roblox? What risks still remain? And how involved do parents really need to be?
This conversation unpacks what’s changing, what parents should know, and why online safety can never be fully outsourced to technology alone.
KEY POINTS
Roblox is introducing separate accounts for kids under 9, ages 9–15, and users 16+
Younger users will have heavily restricted chat and content access
Facial age estimation technology will be used to verify ages
Roblox says content moderation now combines AI with human review
Parents will gain more control over chat, content, and account settings
Justin challenges Roblox on past failures and broken trust with families
The biggest safety tool still isn’t technology — it’s parental involvement
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“Parents shouldn’t have to be constantly involved. The platforms have a responsibility.”
RESOURCES
#761 - Game… or Off? Are Video Games Really That Bad?
#1261 - Hooked on Games: How to Help Kids Break Free from Addictive Gaming (feat. Scott Novus, former VP at Disney & gaming expert)
The Screen Smart Series (Webinar)
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Review your child’s Roblox settings and parental controls together
Talk regularly about who they’re chatting and gaming with online
Make sure your child’s age is set up correctly on their account
Keep devices in shared family spaces where possible
Treat online safety as an ongoing conversation, not a one-time setup
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Your child starts school… and suddenly a screen becomes non-negotiable.
What happens when a school’s BYOD policy clashes with your family values? In this episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the growing pressure on parents to hand over devices earlier than ever - sometimes from kindergarten - and the hidden tension BYOD policies can create at home.
What does the research really say about screens in classrooms and why do many top tech executives keep devices away from their own kids? Justin and Kylie share a practical framework to help parents make confident decisions when school expectations don’t sit right.
If you’ve ever wondered whether technology in primary school is helping kids learn — or simply making life harder for families — this conversation will give you plenty to think about.
KEY POINTS
Why BYOD policies in early primary school are becoming more common
The hidden parenting pressure created by school-issued devices
What research says about technology and learning outcomes
Why many leading schools are reducing screen use in younger grades
The difference between meaningful tech use and “mindless” screen tasks
How to decide when a school policy clashes with your family values
Why clarity around priorities makes hard parenting decisions easier
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“If a decision clashes with your family’s core values, it may not be the right fit — no matter how good the school is.”
RESOURCES
The Screen Smart Series: Unplug Childhood + Tweens, Teens & Screens
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Clarify your family’s priorities around technology before school decisions are made
Ask schools to explain the educational value behind device use
Set firm boundaries around screen use at home
Consider whether devices genuinely need to travel between school and home
Remember that “normal” doesn’t always mean “best” for your child
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What if your child reviewed your parenting performance today? Would you want to hear the results?
In this deeply personal episode, Justin and Kylie share the parenting exercise that completely changed the way they connect with their children. From painful truths to unexpected reassurance, they reveal how asking a few simple questions uncovered what their kids truly needed most.
This conversation is honest, emotional, and incredibly practical for any parent who wants a stronger relationship with their child — even if the feedback stings a little.
KEY POINTS:
The 10 powerful questions that reveal how your child experiences you
Why good intentions don’t always feel loving to kids
The surprising parenting moments children remember most
How small daily habits can quietly damage connection
Why honest feedback from your child can strengthen trust
The difference between providing for your child and making them feel supported
How to create emotional safety so kids open up honestly
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“Your children’s honesty is a gift. They’re giving you another opportunity to get it right.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
What Your Child Needs From You by Dr Justin Coulson
Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:
Ask yourself: “Would my child say I’m truly available to them?”
Put away distractions during conversations with your child
Choose one area where your child may need more connection or reassurance
Try a simple parenting check-in using the questions shared in this episode
Listen without defending yourself if your child shares something difficult
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A quiet car ride. A game of footy. A conversation no one planned to have.
This week, Justin and Kylie reflect on a Mother’s Day that unexpectedly became one of their most meaningful yet — not because of gifts or grand gestures, but because of honest conversations with their adult daughters about motherhood, family, and the impact mums really have.
Plus, Justin shares how a surprising new obsession with rugby league has created an unexpected bond with their teenage daughter, proving that sometimes connection happens in the most ordinary moments.
This episode is a reminder that the small things families do together often become the moments kids remember forever.
KEY POINTS
Why motherhood often matters more than the world gives it credit for
The powerful conversations that can happen side-by-side in the car
How adult children begin to see parenting differently with age
Why simple family traditions create lasting connection
The surprising way sport brought a father and daughter closer
How shared interests help teens open up naturally
The hidden joy of grandparenting
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“Sometimes the small things families do together become the moments kids remember forever.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED
Happy Families
Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Create space for side-by-side conversations — especially during car rides or shared activities
Don’t underestimate the impact your parenting is having, even when it feels unnoticed
Look for low-pressure ways to connect with teens through shared interests
Prioritise time together over perfect celebrations
Build small family rituals that give everyone something to look forward to
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Your child finishes assignments faster than ever… but are they actually learning anything?
In this Doctor’s Desk episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson unpack two alarming new studies on how AI is changing the way kids think, learn, remember, and make decisions. From “cognitive offloading” to “cognitive surrender,” they explore why students using AI remembered less, trusted wrong answers more, and became increasingly dependent on technology to do the thinking for them.
If AI is becoming our children’s autopilot instead of their co-pilot, what happens to critical thinking, confidence, and real learning?
This conversation will challenge the way you think about ChatGPT, schoolwork, and the future of parenting in an AI-driven world.
KEY POINTS
Why students using AI remembered significantly less information
The hidden learning deficit created by cognitive offloading
How AI can weaken confidence in our own thinking
The shocking number of people who follow AI advice even when it’s wrong
Why “doing it the hard way” still matters for growth
The difference between getting outcomes and building capability
What parents need to teach kids before AI becomes their default brain
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“If you’re going for the growth, do it the hard way.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED
University of Pennsylvania research on “cognitive surrender”
Brazilian study on AI use and memory retention
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Encourage kids to use AI as a helper, not a replacement thinker
Ask children to explain ideas in their own words after using AI
Prioritise learning and understanding over speed and convenience
Talk openly about AI mistakes, hallucinations, and misinformation
Create opportunities for kids to solve problems without technology assistance
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