“I CAN’T BE STOPPED”: ASSERTIVENESS IN 3, 7, & 8
Welcome to House of Enneagram, where we cast aside superficial cliches and fluffy self-help to delve into the essence of the Enneagram. Our ensemble of typologically diverse psychonauts bring fresh eyes and a multiplicity of perspectives to the unconscious forces that shape our lives and our world. We pool our talents to explore how the enneagram connects with art, psychology, inner work, media, typology, and more. If you’re ready to question your deepest answers and relentlessly pursue truth with the foremost experts, welcome to our house.Josh, Louis, and Emeka explore the assertive perspective of Enneagram types 3, 7, & 8. What does it mean to move through the world like nothing can stop you—and what’s the cost? We get into the addictive high of momentum, the insatiable desire to expand, and the (not-so-)subtle ways assertive types activate themselves and stay in “go mode.”If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with assertiveness in type, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.comDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTIMESTAMPS0:00 Welcome to HOE3:21 What is assertiveness? (Hornevian Triads); belief in one's ability to mobilize7:22 Assertiveness in the 3 centers, Josh's theory11:55 reverence for "go mode"; healthy self-belief & judgement around limiting perspectives20:08 must be "making progress"; but not necessarily be busier; "Using" others for assertive agenda 40:03 insatiability & scale of assertiveness39:44 Attachment vs Hexad Assertiveness43:12 "I can't be stopped" Assertive go-mode vs Superego & Withdrawn "brakes"47:44 Introverted assertiveness & strategizing53:33 Aggression projected onto assertive types1:00:01 Assertive wins for its own sake; desire to experience greatness1:07:05 Trying to help people unlock their assertiveness; "Don't enroll me in your narrative of powerlessness"1:13:33 "How could this be big?"; Assertive, Compliant, Withdrawn approaches to instinctual gratification
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