House of Enneagram

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Alice (so/sp 9w1 973) talk about the social instinct. The hosts explore their own personal experiences of being social first, contemplate the through-line of so/sp and so/sx, and zoom out to see the social instinct in a larger context of how society is or isn't handling it very well.

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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - What is an instinct?
16:38 - Complex social interactions
23:02 - Narcissism, projection, and performance
40:10 - The grief of unmet needs
45:47 - Social "identity"
48:19 - Paying for instinctual needs
50:45 The Challenge of Self-Regulation
57:29 Creative Metaphors for Self-Reflection
58:22 Engaging with Inner Artistry
01:01:18 - Flattening social interactions
01:16:15 - 'Attention' in social
01:24:36 - Social wounds
01:31:50 - Embracing vulnerability and depth in relationships

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Enter the strange world of SP/SX attachment, with Elisa (SP/SX 3w2 378), Sara (SP/SX 6w7 614), and Kat (SP/SX 9w8 936) in this first edition of Hoes After Dark. Hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854).
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House of Enneagram Network:
Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com⁠
The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com⁠
Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...
Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks
Show Notes 
1:00 When Did It Hit You That You Were Social Last?
3:35 The Not Giving A F**k Of SP/SX vs Hexad
8:06 Are There Clear Ways You’ve Noticed You’re An Attachment Type?
10:04 Navigating Social As A SP/SX Attachment Type
25:53 Can You And Do You Cosplay Social?
30:34 How Do You Notice Your SX Instinct Showing Up?
36:13 Hating On “Empowerment” As Soc-Blinds
39:16 Social Shame As A Blocker Of Eroticism 
42:14 What Gets Projected On You As A SP/SX?
51:48 Being Stigmatized By SX-Blind Women
56:03 Motherhood As A SP/SX
1:01:52 Navigating Social Disconnects With SP/SX
1:07:35 Devouring and Being Devoured
1:12:02 How Do You Decide Whether Someone Is Good or Bad?
1:25:14 Being Comfortable In The Dark Shadows Of Humanity

The shadow series is an attempt at looking at several layers of shadow within one enneagram type - personal shadows a type may constantly confront, and shadows that the collective might have on the type itself. Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) pulls the most expected unconscious tendencies for Type 6 and expands on them to give a comprehensive view of the type's mechanisms.

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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps;00:00 - Examples of type 6
06:17 - Intro to type 6
08:07 - Disclaimer
09:30 - Shadows Within
09:55 - Navigating Authority and External Influences
12:23 - Externalizing Authority
16:48 - Fear and Reactivity
20:34 - Open Attachments
24:47 - Character
25:09 - Self-deprecation, power dynamics
29:44 - Obsessive need for 'truth', going over same territory
32:57 - Language carries daggers, Loses sense of play
35:32 - Collective Shadows
35:43 - Mind
37:04 - 6 on 6 violence, needing discourse, external concepts
40:21 - Reactivity as a bridge, active communication
43:40 - Collective agreement
46:18 - Personhood
46:33 - Real change, sounding the alarm
48:45 - Responsibility for worry/reactivity
50:51 - Unafraid to expand/contract as needed, more dynamic, villain and prophet

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Emeka and Kristen are back to pull apart the destructive edge-seeking nature of sexual, and how ‘sexy’ misses its darker motivations.
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House of Enneagram Network:
Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com⁠
The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com⁠
Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...
Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks
Show Notes 
0:30 The Edge-Seeking Crashout Of Sexual
7:31 SX Charge Is Required To Break Out Of Child-Parental Dynamics 
13:23 We Treat Our Blindspot Like An ATM
14:59 We’re Not Conscious Of All Three Instincts
20:56 The Chemical Objectification Of Sexual
22:53 The Body’s Role In The Energetic Intercourse Of Sexual
25:46 SX Tension Undermines Any Stable Sense Of Sexiness
32:11 SX Risks Transgressing Edges Between Turn Ons And Turn Offs
33:21 The Narcissism And Self-Interest Of SX
36:56 Heath Ledger’s SX Immersion Into The Joker
39:46 The SX Risk Of Being Consumed And Torn Apart
42:49 The Mental Illness And Wounds Arising From Each Blindspot
51:45 Takanakuy As Dionysian SX Festival
57:15 SX Blood Letting Ritual To Exorcise Trauma
1:01:08 Michaela Boehm’s SX Non-Linear Movement
1:05:54 Masculine Feminine Polarity And Tension Within The Self
1:09:09 SX Spill Can Be Performative And Not Vulnerable
1:16:07 The Problem Of Being Stuck In The First Two Instincts
1:19:59 SX-Blinds Obsess Over Relationships Because SX Is Triggered There

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sam (sp/so 7w6 712) use the film 'Spirited Away' to talk about journeys to the underworld, relationships, and insatiable hunger. With two opposing views on the film, the hosts make jokes and relate their ideas they find within the story and characters to personal experiences in an Enneagram context.
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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - Critique of Spirited Away: A Love-Hate Relationship
09:06 - Value and Identity
11:59 - No-Face
14:50 - The Underworld vs Personal Growth
23:30 - Scarcity Mentality and Instincts
28:01 - The Bathhouse as an SP Hell
33:02 - Dreams and the Underworld
37:25 - The Monster Within
40:41 - Discernment in Relationships
45:21 - The Drug of Intensity in Relationships
50:42 - Cultural Expectations of Romantic Relationships

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