House of Enneagram

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Maggie (sp/sx 7w6 794) talk about the garbage can of the Enneagram instincts - Self-Preservation. Why does everyone hate it? Why does everyone have it? Is it really about workouts and supplements?

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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - Self-Preservation = garbage can
05:39 - Unhealthy aspects of SP
12:42 - Scarcity vs. Abundance
21:07 - Lessons from rat studies
35:06 - The cycle of rote behavior
40:57 - Fear and control in SP
45:05 - The illusion of "self-care"
51:29 - Dynamic engagement with life
01:12:35 - Consumerism in modern life
01:15:14 - Kurt Vonnegut's 'Breakfast of Champions'

#enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagraminstincts #personalitytypes #selfpreservation #typology #objectivepsychology

The Social Hexads are here. Luther (SO/SP 5w6), Vinny (SO/SP 7w8), and Micaiah (SO/SX 7w6) are hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7) to unravel the mysteries of social hexad in this edition of Hoes Mostly Dark.
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House of Enneagram Network:
Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com⁠
The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com⁠
Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...
Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews  
https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks
Show Notes 
1:27 Social Hexad Intro
1:59 When Did You Realize You Were Different?
6:42 Has There Been Any Issues Navigating People’s Expectations?
10:08 What’s Your Relationship To Togetherness 
15:15 What Does Mirroring Mean To You?
20:08 What Are You Wanting From Other People?
20:55 Luther’s Twenty Plus Minute Voice Messages 
24:50 How Do You Feel About Having Limited Connection And Loneliness?
29:06 Describe Your Ideal Your Social Fantasy
31:52 How Differently Do You Think You Engage With Different People?
34:55 Do You Keep Your Social Groups Separate?
38:28 Are You Aware Of Needing Others To Regulate?
44:43 Do You Have Anything That Could Be Described As Social Anxiety?
49:27 What’s Your Relationship To Social Judgement?
52:59 What About The Fear Of Ostracization?
54:33 What Don’t You Relate To About The Way Social Is Talked About?
59:11 What Would You Say Being Social First Makes You Great At?
1:03:03 What’s The Worst And Best Parts Of Having A Social Hexad Brother?
1:08:48 What’s Your Social Nightmare?

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sammy (sp/so 9w1 954) go through several letters from past notable figures. Since there are no videos to properly type these people objectively, the hosts play with speculative typing through tone and character.

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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - Why can't we land on a solid type purely through reading a letter?
04:14 - Tchaikovsky
09:23 - Franz Kafka
23:24 - Ernest Hemingway
28:48 - Beethoven
44:23 - Charles Darwin
53:01 - Oscar Wilde
01:03:07 - Emily Dickinson
01:13:08 - Ben Franklin

#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #tchaikovsky #kafka #hemingway #beethoven #charlesdarwin #oscarwilde #emilydickinson #benfranklin

Dive into the cultural rituals and rites of each instinct with Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854), Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963), and Sammy (SP/SO 9w1 954). This week we’re exploring how cultures around the world perform rituals honoring the needs and deities of self-pres, social, and sexual.
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House of Enneagram Network:
Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com⁠
The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com⁠
Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...
Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks
Show Notes 
1:09 Self-pres Rituals Intro
3:32 The Mamoiada Ritual
6:30 We Make Deities Into Our Instincts
7:35 Druids Human Sacrifice
14:51 Mami Wata Deity Of Wealth And Transformation
17:16 Sammy’s Self-pres Rituals
20:56 Temples Of Asclepius
24:47 Social Rituals Intro
26:36 Scarification Practices
29:26 Biblical Ritual Of Scapegoats 
35:19 SO/SX Mardi Gras Indians
39:07 The Value Of Social Ceremonies And Being Witnessed
45:31 SX Rituals In Church and Dionysus 
48:15 Thaipusam Hindu Trance Ecstatic Dance
56:36 Drama And Theater As Cathartic SX Ritual
57:35 Kokou Possession Ritual
1:02:26 The Raw Magic Of Duende
1:08:09 Holy Ghost Praise Breaks
1:09:46 Mami Wata Possession Ritual
1:13:11 SX Is Everywhere
1:15:44 Each Instinct Bears A Cost
Links
Crop sacrifices / fertility rituals / farming - Mamoiada
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsvRNEnzjEI
Pagan ceremonies / Druids (sacrifices)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKLjjxLSbhc 12:29 - 15:00
Mami Wata Divinity of Fertility And Prosperity 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3gjL6Oo3Fk
Temples of Asclepius 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A14ewB4-L5E 7:20
Scapegoats - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fssPmwOhRf0 
Scarification / rites of passage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jn_tlq40Auc
SO/SX? New Orleans / Mardi Gras - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1RiLC0MwV0
Hindu trance / ecstatic dance, playing out god dramas, combination of human and divine - 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_x67MVdCMbc - 2:48
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGFnYOFVxnk
Kokou From Dark Tourist Season 1, Episode 7 ("Africa")
https://www.netflix.com/title/80189791
Flamenco Duende 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzlJMnsDnVw
https://youtu.be/6cWR4iBhGcU?si=iptCPPs8zhNVNEhL&t=737  12:17
Holy Ghost Praise Breaks
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gpxuMkYgbI
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/laoK8wkG3KQ
Mami Wata Possession
https://www.instagram.com/reels/DRLCCRRDFPn/

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Alice (so/sp 9w1 973) talk about the social instinct. The hosts explore their own personal experiences of being social first, contemplate the through-line of so/sp and so/sx, and zoom out to see the social instinct in a larger context of how society is or isn't handling it very well.

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House of Enneagram Network:

Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com

The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com

Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - What is an instinct?
16:38 - Complex social interactions
23:02 - Narcissism, projection, and performance
40:10 - The grief of unmet needs
45:47 - Social "identity"
48:19 - Paying for instinctual needs
50:45 The Challenge of Self-Regulation
57:29 Creative Metaphors for Self-Reflection
58:22 Engaging with Inner Artistry
01:01:18 - Flattening social interactions
01:16:15 - 'Attention' in social
01:24:36 - Social wounds
01:31:50 - Embracing vulnerability and depth in relationships

#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #socialinstinct #enneagraminstincts #typology #psychology #shadowwork