If I Speak

Moya is joined by doctor-turned-novelist William Hunter to talk about what it takes to abandon your career for something new. What are the signs it’s time for a change? What if you quit everything but still feel bad inside? Plus: what to do about bigoted tweets from the past.

Will’s debut novel Sunstruck is out in paperback on 25th June.

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Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/

Music by Matt Huxley.

A special announcement from producer Chal. Ash and Moya are on their holidays but will be back next Tuesday!

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Moya has a big theory about success: we love the idea of it, but hate people going on about it. Did Timothée Chalamet’s naked ambition cost him an Oscar? Plus: what to do about a envious colleague.

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Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/

Music by Matt Huxley.

Moya and Ash react to Louis Theroux’s documentary on the manosphere. The antics of YouTubers like HS and Sneako seem designed to amuse teenage boys and offend the normies – but when does the mask become the face? And who are the women who flock to these influencers? Plus: advice for a man who doesn’t want to dump his emotions on women.

Got a dilemma? Email [email protected]

Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/

Music by Matt Huxley.

Ash has a big theory about why so many aspects of modern life feel like masturbation: private, self-centred, disconnected. They discuss the objects and subjects of sex, and Moya makes a confession. Plus: advice for a special one who’s dating her first communist.

Got a dilemma? Email [email protected]

Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/

Music by Matt Huxley.