In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss noughties fashion faux pas, fake tanning and whether girlbossing is good for one's health...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [email protected] & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls talk to author, podcaster and former chief content officer of goop, Elise Loehnen. Elise has co-written twelve books, five of which have been New York Times bestsellers, and Em and Alex are joined by her to discuss her latest, On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be Good. Why can women rarely recover from their failures? Why is the patriarchy so devastating to boys and men? Elise shares her manifesto, which argues that the seven deadly sins (lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy and pride) have been used by the patriarchy to control women throughout our history. This fascinating theory expands on our episode with Jameela Jamil, back in January 2022, in which the girls spoke about why, as a society, we build women up only to tear them down. Pre-order Elise's book On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be GoodListen to Elise's podcast: Pulling the ThreadFollow Elise on Instagram @eliseloehnenFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [email protected] & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are back with their amazing live audience to dive into some breathtaking embarrassing stories, and share some wisdom around body positivity with summer approaching. Thank you to all of those who came to the show, we're looking forward to doing more in the future! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [email protected] by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode, Em and Al are joined in the studio by Charlie Craggs, a British transgender actress, activist, and author from London. Charlie talks about her recent experience in court, where she was fighting a trans hate crime. She talks about how she was misgendered in court, and how the court handled her case by letting her attacker off, and what message this sends. From this, Charlie is setting up free self defence classes for trans women, to ensure other trans people feel safe in public. The three discuss activism online and the media’s role in the debate around trans rights. NOTES: Self Defence Classes for Trans People Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/free-self-defence-classes-for-trans-peopleCharlie’s book ‘To My Trans Sisters’: https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Trans-Sisters-Charlie-Craggs/dp/1785923439Charlie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/charlie_craggs/?hl=enCharlie’s BBC3 documentary: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p093wyx7Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [email protected] by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some constructive feedback, making friends as an adult and plumbing. Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [email protected] by Daisy Grant and edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.