Not In Front of the Kids

Nathan and Cara are back, and there's plenty to catch up on! After a chaotic few weeks involving a disastrous four-hour train journey, DIY disasters, a swollen dog leg and a bathroom renovation, the pair are ready to get stuck into another episode.

This week, Nathan takes a trip down memory lane with five games he used to play as a child, from terrorising the neighbours and getting chased through the streets to some rather questionable games in the dark. But would either of them let their own children get up to the same things today?

Then it's debate time! Should you wake your children up for school if they've stayed up too late, or let them have an extra bit of sleep and deal with the consequences? Nathan and Cara don't quite see eye to eye, but can they reach an agreement?

In the Courtroom, a woman questions whether she's guilty of making her boyfriend choose between her and his best friend after their private relationship problems keep finding their way back to someone she doesn't trust.

Plus, Nathan and Cara catch up on your messages, revisit last week's parenting confession and discuss why everyone loves a bit of gossip.

Not In Front Of The Kids is hosted by Love Island winners Nathan and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey, who share their experiences of marriage, relationships and the chaos of raising their two children, Freddie and Delilah.

Birthday party politics, teenage relationships and family holiday dramas – Nathan and Cara are getting stuck into another round of honest, funny and sometimes controversial parenting debates!

Should children have to invite their entire class to their birthday party, or is it perfectly acceptable to leave some classmates off the guest list? Nathan and Cara discuss the pressures of organising kids' birthday parties, whether parents are spending too much on them and where to draw the line when it comes to excluding children.

They also talk about the parenting rules every couple should agree on, from screen time and discipline to making sure you're both on the same page. Plus, Nathan's drinking habits come under scrutiny!

In this week's Courtroom, one dad is asking whether he's being unreasonable after refusing to let his 15-year-old daughter bring her boyfriend on a family holiday. She's offered to pay for his place, but is he right to say no – or should he let her bring him along?

There's also a surprise mention from Katie Price, a chat about children's sleep therapy and a call for your funniest Christmas stories and childhood memories.

Join Nathan and Cara for more real-life parenting dilemmas, relationship debates, family stories and laughs on Not In Front Of The Kids.

Nathan and Cara De La Hoyde-Massey first came to fame winning Love Island Series 2 in 2016. Now married and parents to Freddie and Delilah, they're sharing the realities of raising a family, navigating relationships and figuring out parenthood along the way.

Nathan and Cara are back, and this week they're calling out the parenting habits that drive them mad! From pushy parents living through their kids and competitive mums and dads who always have to one-up everyone, to parents who think their children can do no wrong, nothing is off limits.

Plus, Cara and Nathan debate whether it's okay to cancel plans because you simply can't face taking the kids out, and the Courtroom returns with a boyfriend accused of being too brutally honest. Is he guilty or not guilty?

Not In Front Of The Kids is a parenting podcast hosted by Nathan and Cara Massey, who won the second series of ITV's Love Island in 2016. The couple share their experiences of parenthood, discuss relatable family dilemmas and debate the ups and downs of raising children.

Is bribing your kids to behave good parenting or a bad habit? And should your partner always come first, even when it means missing a concert you've been desperate to see?

On this episode of Not In Front Of The Kids, Love Island winners Cara De La Hoyde Massey and Nathan Massey get honest about parenting, relationships and married life.

Cara and Nathan debate whether rewarding children for good behaviour teaches them valuable life lessons or simply encourages them to expect something in return.

They also take to The Courtroom to judge a boyfriend who calls his girlfriend a terrible partner for choosing a concert over his birthday, despite her trying to make alternative plans.

Plus, the couple reveal the five things they love most about each other, from trust and parenting to their questionable sense of humour, and share some brutally honest opinions about celebrity behaviour and life in the public eye.

Expect hilarious relationship stories, relatable parenting dilemmas, honest opinions and plenty of laughs.

Not In Front Of The Kids is the parenting and relationship podcast where Cara and Nathan discuss the real side of raising children, marriage and family life — including the things you probably wouldn't say in front of the kids.

This week Nathan Massey and Cara De La Hoyde Massey turn the studio into a therapy session, with each listing the five things that really annoy them about the other. The rule is that nobody’s allowed to get the hump, though that doesn’t last long.

Cara reveals the noise Nathan makes eating cereal (and oranges), his speed awareness course, the clothes he leaves on the bedroom floor, and the fact that he can’t go five minutes without phoning someone. Nathan hits back about Cara refusing to drive, bad moods that bring the whole house down, and her habit of blaming him for everything, including the airport mix-up that left her stranded at Heathrow without house keys. Things get deeper when Cara tackles Nathan and Fred’s constant clashes and asks when it’s time to pick your battles.

Also, this week: Nathan discovers Lime bikes (Cara has the ick), and the pair debate whether older siblings should be responsible for younger ones, a topic where an eldest child and the baby of the family see things very differently. In the courtroom, a listener has to choose between a friend’s child-free Halloween wedding and taking her daughter trick-or-treating. Cara also explains why she has a personal vendetta against trick-or-treating.

Plus, your comments on taxidermy, the house tour, the 80/20 “would you kick your kids out?” poll, and a podcast bromance.

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