The Curve

Pete has spent 10 years in the property game, helping people build their wealth, including Sophie! In this episode, they team up to unpack the crucial things most buyers quietly ignore: why your life partner is actually your most critical financial asset, the dangerous psychology behind property auctions, and why understanding the difference between a home and an investment property can help you make better financial decisions. If you're buying with a partner, considering your next property move, or just want to know how to spot a red flag before it costs you $40,000, this one is worth your full attention.
Pete’s links:
Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/peterwestproperty)
Website (https://www.westpropertycoaching.co.nz/)
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Producer: Emily Rigby
Editor: Kate Callaghan
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Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.

This week on The Curve Weekly, we are joined by writer, broadcaster, journalist and founder of Sex Talks, Emma Louise-Boynton. We dive into Belle Burton's ‘Strangers’, the memoir everyone has been talking about: a story about a husband who ups and leaves after 21 years of marriage with no warning, or explanation.
Soph and Emma unpack why Strangers at the crux of it is a story about financial abuse, and how important it is to not hand over your financial identity. They also get into the rise of long-term relationship ghosting and why now more than ever we need to be protecting ourselves financially - even if we are in love. They talk about why prenups are actually romantic, and create a list of questions every couple should be asking each other to get on the same page financially. 
Oh, and both hosts admit they're currently failing at practicing what they preach in their own relationships. A very honest conversation about why this stuff is so hard to do in practice, even when you know better.
Emma’s Links
Pleasure: https://geni.us/pleasureelboynton
Sex Talks: https://www.sextalks.co.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmalouiseboynton
Substack: https://emmalouiseboynton.substack.com/about
WTF does that mean? A guide to all the jargony bits:
Prenup An agreement made before marriage on who gets what if it ends.
De facto Legally recognized as a couple after living together for a set period, even if unmarried, with rights similar to marriage.
Trust fund Assets held and managed on someone's behalf, often paid out at a set time or event.
Pension gap The retirement shortfall women face from career breaks.
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Chapters

00:00:00 Coming up in this episode…
00:01:27 Generate x The Curve
00:01:48 Introduction to Emma
00:09:49 In the red or the green?
00:14:40 Lessons from Strangers
00:31:50 Avoiding the finance talk with your partner
00:42:39 Generate x The Curve
00:43:18 Step 1: Know yourself and your financial situation
00:48:30 Step 2: Questions to get on the same page with your partner
00:54:13 It’s never too late to start
01:01:52 Thank you for listening!
01:03:02 Financial disclaimer

Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.
Generate’s Product Disclosure Statement and Financial Advice Provider License can be found here: GenerateKiwiSaver.co.nz/disclosures.
*Morningstar KiwiSaver Survey March Quarter End 2026. The Generate Focused Growth Fund returns have ranked in the top three of NZ Multi Sector Aggressive Category Funds for 10 year returns every quarter since becoming eligible in June 2023. Most recently the fund ranked 2nd out of 10 funds for 10 year returns to 31 March 2026.

This week Sophie's joined by chartered accountant, author and finance creator Abi Foster (filling in for Vic) to unpack the UK's brand-new Buy Now, Pay Later regulations - why they've come in, what they actually mean for your credit score, and how one woman ended up $50k in debt using it. Plus: should you be divesting from the US stock market right now, SpaceX's IPO wobble and Elon losing his trillionaire status, the $110bn Warner Bros/Paramount merger 12 US states are trying to block, and a genuinely lovely bonus story about a Costco cashier who built a $1m retirement pot on minimum wage.
Abi’s Links
⁠The Money Manual Book⁠: https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/46857...
⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/abigailrosefoster/
⁠TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abigailrosefoster
⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmvbS2HZTs72pst13nBEmJw/videos
Substack: https://elent.substack.com/
Submit your money and morals question to The Ethical Hotline: https://form.typeform.com/to/BZHujjGM and if you want to check out any of the questions we've already answered you can find them here! (https://pathfinder.kiwi/pathfinder-x-the-curve/)
Lily’s guide to ethical investing template:
https://pathfinder.kiwi/media/documents/Pathfinder_x_The_Curve_Mini_Ethical_Investment_Policy.pdf
WTF does that mean? A guide to all the jargony bits:
FCA The UK's finance regulator, now policing BNPL.
Section 75 Your provider's on the hook if a purchase goes wrong.
Soft check A background check that doesn't dent your credit score.
Credit score The number lenders use to judge how risky you are.
Earnings season Weeks when public companies report results.
S&P 500 The top 500 US companies.
Magnificent Seven The 7 tech giants dominating the US market.
Divesting Selling investments to cut your exposure.
Emerging markets Fast-growing but riskier economies.
IPO A company's first share sale to the public.
Monopoly One player controls the market, no competition.
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Guest: Abi Foster
Producer & Editor: Emily Rigby
Social & Digital Manager: Lucy Munro
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Chapters

00:00:00 Coming up in this episode…
00:01:12 Pathfinder x The Curve
00:01:42 Abi's back on the pod!
00:03:53 Buy now, pay later: the rules just changed
00:17:43 Should we be divesting from the US?
00:29:53 Pathfinder x The Curve
00:31:05 The $110bn media merger nobody saw coming
00:36:34 Soph's bonus story
00:39:25 The Ethical Hotline
00:45:05 Thank you for listening!
00:46:13 Financial disclaimer

Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.

If you've ever felt behind on money, like everyone else somehow "gets it" and you missed the lesson, this episode is for you. Sophie sits down with finance creator Ciara Anne to break down, step by step, how she went from financially avoidant to having over £200,000 invested, without cutting out the things she enjoys: what compound growth actually means and why it's so hard to grasp at first, what dollar-cost averaging is and how Ciara adapted it into her own "curated" version (holding back a portion each month to invest more when the market dips), what an ETF actually is versus picking individual stocks, why a stocks and shares ISA is tax-free, what "risk appetite" really means, the idea of Coast FIRE and retirement as a financial state rather than an age, and why so many women were never taught any of this in the first place. Ciara is living proof that building wealth doesn't require depriving yourself, just consistency and the right foundations.

Ciara’s links

Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ciara___anne/)

TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@ciara__anne)

Want to know your Coast FIRE number? Ciara breaks it down here: Coast FIRE explained (https://www.instagram.com/p/DX2WR6-qOXH/)

Episodes mentioned in this podcast…

Economist Bronwyn Taylor explains why 'Girl Math' is a toxic trend. (https://youtu.be/VEKpsJlReb8?si=tbit37Bn767tMDUk)

Mia McGrath’s Frugal Chic Rules for Building Wealth. (https://youtu.be/nV74s4FoyUI?si=zVHVGU_9hvgrseM7)

Credits:

Host: Sophie Hallwright

Guest: Ciara McMahon

Producer & Editor: Emily Rigby

Social & Digital Manager: Lucy Munro

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Chapters

00:00:00 Episode Preview
00:01:04 Who is Ciara?
00:02:16 Why women don’t talk about money
00:11:49 Ciara’s financial journey
00:23:04 A conversation with Ciara’s sister
00:32:53 Ciara’s investing strategy
00:43:13 Ciara’s fav ETFs
00:44:34 Jealousy within friendship groups
00:49:52 Thank you for listening!
00:50:19 Financial disclaimer

Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.

Today we tackle one of the most controversial money topics out there: should billionaires pay more tax? With a wealth tax vote coming to California and France debating the same fight, Vic and Soph go head to head - one wants a minimum personal income threshold for the ultra-rich, the other says the real fix is corporate tax and preventing this level of wealth concentration in the first place. We also dig into the gender gap behind who's actually getting taxed (only 14% of billionaires are women), then switch gears to break down Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's reported $20 million wedding - the Madison Square Garden price tag, the donation to NYC, and the prenup drawn up by Taylor's dad. Plus Dua Lipa and Callum Turner's wedding, and why more couples (led by women) are finally normalising prenups.

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Credits:

Hosts: Victoria Harris & Sophie Hallwright

Producer & Editor: Emily Rigby

Editor: Kate Callaghan

Social & Digital Manager: Lucy Munro

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Chapters

00:00:00 Coming up in this episode
00:00:55 Generate x The Curve
00:01:13 Quick catch up
00:04:15 Vote for us in the British Podcast Awards!
00:05:51 Should billionaires be taxed?
00:22:51 Generate x The Curve
00:23:36 Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce's $20M wedding
00:32:24 See you Friday!
00:34:57 Thanks for listening!
00:35:34 Financial disclaimer

Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.

Generate’s Product Disclosure Statement and Financial Advice Provider License can be found here: GenerateKiwiSaver.co.nz/disclosures.

*Morningstar KiwiSaver Survey March Quarter End 2026. The Generate Focused Growth Fund returns have ranked in the top three of NZ Multi Sector Aggressive Category Funds for 10 year returns every quarter since becoming eligible in June 2023. Most recently the fund ranked 2nd out of 10 funds for 10 year returns to 31 March 2026.