Kingdom Sexuality

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In this Q&A episode, the KS Team chats through why a wife may not orgasm from intercourse, how to think about toys in marriage, how to respond when friends think swinging is acceptable, and so much more!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:30 — Verse of the day & sponsor break

01:33 — Listener Q&A begins

02:05 — Orgasm during intercourse

05:11 — Finishing Well course

06:13 — Advice for difficulty orgasming

07:48 — Future episode: unusual listener questions

08:20 — Using toys during sex

14:08 — Sexual language in marriage

15:08 — Why swinging isn’t okay

18:55 — Closing prayer
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Tune into this Q&A episode as the KS Team talks candidly about sex when you are exhausted, building "pounding" stamina, navigating postpartum sex drive changes, and how to have deep conversations if your spouse has a hard time with them.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:08 — Welcome & Community Invitation

01:02 — Today’s Verse: Matthew 6:34

01:32 — Q&A: Intimacy for Tired Parents

06:21 — Out of Sync Course Break

07:32 — Q&A: Stamina and Lasting Longer

10:29 — Q&A: Talking About Sex and Deep Emotions

12:48 — Q&A: Postpartum Desire and Connection

16:45 — Q&A: Rewaiting for Marriage

18:20 — Q&A: Navigating Grooming Preferences Tactfully

19:54 — Closing Prayer
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Ending off the summer with a few Q&A's the KS team tackles YOUR questions! They chat through painful sex, collaborating when one of you wants change in the bedroom and the other doesn't, and what to do when sex doesn't really feel good. You won't want to miss this series!

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Episode 143 - Painful Sex, Vaginismus with Jess Seitz

Episode 190 - Intimacy Without Intercourse

Episode 162 - Meet Me Under The Mistletoe

Episode 112 - Deep Dive Into Anatomy

Episode 203 - Better Sex Through Mindfulness

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Welcome & Fruit of the Spirit

01:37 — Patreon & Sponsor Break

02:20 — Painful Sex After Marriage

05:17 — Making Out When One Partner Isn’t Interested

06:52 — When Sex Doesn’t Feel Good

10:17 — Work and Travel Boundaries

12:00 — Collaborating When Partners Want Different Things

15:13 — Will the Spouses Join the Show?

16:16 — When Both Partners Have Responsive Desire

16:48 — Closing Prayer
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In this special ladies-only Q&A, Tiera and Alana tackle the big, awkward, real-life questions women actually ask about sex, shame, pleasure, and postpartum changes!!

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Losing the Lover in the Mother

Kim & Darlene Unrau episode 292

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His Pleasure

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Ladies’ Q&A intro
01:43 — Welcome back + patron shoutout
03:45 — Opening scripture
04:16 — Pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood questions begin
06:02 — First-time mom fears and feeling unqualified
09:26 — Breastfeeding, feeling touched out, and body changes
13:12 — Confidence after prolapse and sex after pregnancy
18:09 — Creative ways to be intimate postpartum
21:11 — Reconnecting with your body sexually
28:20 — Libido postpartum and keeping your husband feeling loved
37:50 — Finding time for sex when exhausted
42:27 — Sex scheduling with more kids and teenagers
46:32 — Closing thoughts and prayer
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This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!!

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Our Episodes:

Birds & Bees Episode

The Higher Desire Wife

Menstrual Cycle Episode

Thoughts During Sex episode

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Figuring Out What I Like Guide

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Orgasm Course Waitlist

KS Sex Challenges

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Approximate Time Stamps:

0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup

0:59 — Verse of the day

1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions

1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty

4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden

4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful

8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex

9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like

10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture

11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband

14:18 — Shame about having desire at all

16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting

18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill

18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it

20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding

20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle

22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm

23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure?

25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander

26:40 — Closing prayer
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