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- Stuck in Your Career? Stop Asking “What Should I Do Next?”
If you know you don’t want to do this for another 10 years, but you’ve got no clue what you want instead, this episode is for you.
I gave myself three years to work out what I wanted to do next in my career.
Six months later, I was made redundant.
Not quite the plan.
In this episode, I’m taking you back to the moment I realised I’d been building my career on borrowed ground and what happened when the decision I thought I had three years to make was suddenly made for me.
We’re talking about that restless space in between: when you know you’ve outgrown where you are, but you can’t quite see what comes next.
And I’m sharing the question I wish I’d asked myself much sooner:
What skills does my future need?
Because you don’t need to have your whole career change figured out before you start moving. You can start career crafting now.
You’ll hear:
Why being good at your job doesn’t necessarily mean it still fits you
How redundancy changed the way I think about career security
How career crafting and portfolio careers can open up possibilities you might not have considered
Why I started developing the skills my future needed, rather than only the ones my employer wanted
The question to ask yourself when you’re stuck thinking, “What the fuck do I do next?”
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Join Behind the Bold Moves The Sunday newsletter for women figuring out what they actually want next. One question, mindset shift or tool each week to get you thinking differently and making your own Bold Moves. - Jools Raye shares her personal journey from burnout to embracing her true calling, exploring how understanding brain wiring and neuroplasticity can help you make bold life changes. Learn practical strategies to rewire your brain for safety and confidence, and discover how small deliberate actions can lead to transformative life shifts.
Takeaways
-Your brain is wired for survival, not for bold moves
-The flicker of desire is your future calling you
-You can rewire your nervous system through deliberate actions
-Small evidence-building steps can reprogram your brain
-Understanding your brain's mechanics helps overcome fear of change
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Chapters
00:00 The Flicker of Change
01:23 The Weight of Corporate Life
03:48 Recognizing the Life Problem
05:17 The Power of Manifestation
07:36 Understanding the Brain's Mechanics
10:00 Rewiring Your Brain for Bold Moves
12:30 Embracing Your Future Self
13:52 Invitation to Transformation - The Heartbreaking Truth We Never Talk About
Feeling lost in a life you've built? You're not alone. This episode is your wake-up call to find more meaning and authenticity.
🥡 What you'll takeaways :
Recognise when your life no longer fits and find the courage to change.
Move from the zone of excellence to the zone of genius.
Make bold moves with practical steps for transformation.
Align with your true self beyond systemic limitations.
Embrace your "Queen Ager" energy with wisdom and passion.
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Timestamps:00:00 - Outgrowing your life00:25 - Overriding dissonance00:47 - Signs of change01:09 - Power of vulnerability01:26 - Unraveling truth01:57 - Excellence vs. genius02:20 - Systemic misalignment02:49 - Listening to your inner voice03:10 - Steps to transformation03:36 - Embracing sovereignty04:00 - Beyond limitations04:24 - Bold, authentic action04:57 - Unlocking your soul's hunger05:21 - Authenticity over approval06:31 - Tools for bold moves07:00 - Leading your revolution07:30 - Listening deeplyResources & Links:Connect with Jules Ray:Own your truth. Make your move. The time is now. - Why do so many women suddenly feel desperate for more space?
I'm not talking just bigger homes but Mental, Emotional spac and Breathing room.
In this episode, Jools sits down with interior designer and founder of Home Shape Style, Bex, to explore the surprising psychology behind the spaces we live in and why our homes affect our nervous systems more than we realise.
This conversation goes far beyond cushions and paint colours.
Together, they explore:
🦩why women often start changing their homes when they’re changing internally🦩the emotional impact of clutter, overstimulation and “not fitting” your environment anymore
🦩how motherhood changes the way we experience safety and belonging
🦩why your home is never really “finished”
🦩the hidden connection between identity, nervous system regulation and the spaces we live in
🦩how to create more calm, comfort and autonomy in your home without a full renovation
If your life looks fine on paper but something still feels “off,” this episode will hit deeper than you expect because sometimes the craving for more space… isn’t about the house at all.
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Website: JoolsRaye.com
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About Bex
Bex is the founder of Home Shape Style, an interiors
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Instagram: @homeshapedstyle
Website: Home Shape Style - This is one my most listened to episodes because finding your path once you have kiddies is a wild ride!
And then returning to work after having children is one of the biggest transitions many women experience, yet it’s rarely talked about honestly.
In this episode of Mama’s Flight Path, Jools Raye sits down with Jessica Chivers, founder of The Talent Keeper Specialists, to unpack why the workplace still struggles to support parents and what needs to change.
They explore the reality many working mothers face when returning to their careers after maternity leave, from identity shifts and guilt to navigating expectations from employers and colleagues.
Jessica shares practical insights on flexible work, compressed hours and how organisations can create environments where parents can thrive instead of burn out.
If you are navigating motherhood and career, or wondering how to redesign your working life after children, this conversation will resonate deeply.
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About Bold Moves with Jools Raye
I expected my jeans not to fit after having a baby. I didn’t expect my ambition and identity not to fit either! It’s time to Rediscover how Flocking Fabulous YOU are! Hi, I’m Jools, mama of 1 and a Rediscovery coach with 18 years’ experience guiding leaders through personal and professional transitions. I’ve picked up a few powerful Jools tools to as we navigate this Motherhood X Ambition path and prevent burnout, build real confidence and create a life that truly fits you who now. Bitesize episodes every Thursday with special monthly guest drops.
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