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• 261 | Year-End Life Audit for Midlife Women: How to Reflect, Reset, and Step Confidently Into 2026

  In this episode of the Life Coach, BFF Show, Heather Pettey encourages listeners to take a pause between Christmas and New Year's for a personal year-end audit.   Heather guides you through reflecting on 2025's moments of growth, challenges, and joy, emphasizing the importance of honesty and intention.   She suggests journaling with specific prompts to gain clarity, acknowledge blessings, and set meaningful goals for 2026.   This episode aims to help you align your life with your values, embrace spiritual grounding, and enter the new year with renewed purpose and midlife moxie.   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.       00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach, BFF Show 00:12 The Holiday Hustle and Finding Pause 00:49 Reflecting on Your Year with Intention 03:18 The Importance of a Personal Year-End Audit 06:43 Questions for Your Personal Audit 07:33 Setting Boundaries and Learning from Challenges 08:23 Recognizing Positive Influences and Unexpected Blessings 13:11 Themes and Patterns for a Joyful 2026 14:18 Your Year-End Heart Check Homework 15:26 Final Encouragement and Connection  

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• 260 | Seaside, Stuffing, and Soothing Your Stress: Calming Cortisol in a Crazy Holiday Season

  In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey shares her joyful Thanksgiving experience in Seaside, Florida, and reflects on her favorite holiday moments.   She discusses the ongoing debate of stuffing vs. dressing and shares a family tradition of making Turkey nuggets.   Heather also talks about the SEC football drama, her reevaluation of owning boats or vacation homes, and emphasizes lessening holiday stress.   She provides practical advice for holiday preparation, including tips on gift wrapping, planning menus, and managing cortisol levels through breathing exercises, bilateral stimulation sounds, and engaging the vagus nerve. Heather encourages listeners to prioritize simplicity and ease during the holiday season for better mental and physical health.   EMDR Bilateral Sounds   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.                   00:00 Welcome and Thanksgiving Reflections 00:52 Stuffing vs. Dressing Debate 02:18 Family Debates and Decisions 05:20 Holiday Stress Management 05:49 Practical Holiday Tips 08:12 Understanding and Managing Cortisol 10:19 Calming Techniques and Bilateral Stimulation 11:44 The Importance of the Vagus Nerve 16:28 Simplifying the Holidays 18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

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• BONUS Episode Thanksgiving Week

  In this episode, the Heather Pettey expresses gratitude for the listeners and reflects on the blessings the show has brought into her life.   She addresses Cheryl from Lexington's concern about blending families for the first time during Thanksgiving, providing practical, empathetic advice on creating a harmonious holiday environment.   The episode also includes a detailed recipe for a delicious pumpkin bourbon bread pudding and shares intriguing historical Thanksgiving facts. The key message revolves around joy, togetherness, and the importance of setting realistic expectations for the holiday season.   Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding 1 loaf challah or brioche, cubed 2 cups half-and-half 1 cup canned pumpkin 3 large eggs 1 cup brown sugar 1 tablespoon vanilla 2 teaspoons cinnamon 1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice Pinch salt 1/4 cup bourbon (optional, but oh-so-good) 1/2 cup pecans, chopped Mix pumpkin, half-and-half, eggs, sugar, vanilla, spices, salt, and bourbon. Toss in bread cubes and pecans. Let it soak for 30 minutes, then bake at 350°F for 45-55 minutes. Serve warm, with ice cream or whipped cream. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.   00:00 Welcome and Gratitude 01:35 Listener's Thanksgiving Dilemma 02:37 Advice for Blending Families 09:01 Thanksgiving History and Fun Facts 10:02 Delicious Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding Recipe 11:13 Final Thoughts and Thanksgiving Wishes 12:27 Podcast Disclaimer  

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• 258 | Holiday Prep, Self-Care, & Christmas Cards

  In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, hosted by Heather Petty, joined by Dr. Carol Lynn, the conversation centers around preparations for the holidays, with humorous and practical advice on how to manage self-care amidst the festive rush. Topics covered include the importance of scheduling beauty appointments early, avoiding major changes like new hairstyles before holiday photos, and the merits of getting medical procedures done at specific times. The hosts also discuss the rising costs of pet grooming, the challenges and joys of sending Christmas cards, and the significance of vision casting and journaling for personal growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and connection during the busy holiday season.   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.                     00:00 Welcome and Introductions 00:11 Holiday Preparations and Surgery Talk 01:04 Self-Care Tips for the Holidays 03:12 Pet Grooming and Complaints 05:27 Christmas Cards and Corporate Gifts 08:28 Introducing the Midlife Moxie Journal 10:28 Journal Benefits and Personal Stories 15:57 Vision Casting and Feeling Stuck 18:27 Conclusion and Community Invitation 19:38 Disclaimer and Final Notes  

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• 257 | Trends, Forced Smiles, and Vaccinations

  In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn welcome women in midlife to join their uplifting discussions about thriving during this life stage.   They cover a range of topics from simple life systems, midlife health, wellness, and menopause, to fun aspects like travel, fashion, and cooking.   They dive into an engaging discussion about Target's new policy requiring employees to smile and how that compares to experiences at Chick-fil-A.   They also touch on the importance of dermatologist visits, toddler skincare trends, and effective holiday preparation tips. The episode wraps up with updated vaccine recommendations for adults in their fifties, emphasizing the shingles and flu vaccines, and highlights the new 'My Midlife Moxie Journal', specially designed for midlife women, available on Amazon. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.   00:00 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 00:12 Midlife Thriving: Encouragement and Fun 01:33 Delicious Moments: Cinnamon Chip Muffins 02:29 Target's New Smile Policy 05:03 Skincare Talk: From Dermatologist Visits to Toddler Trends 11:38 Holiday Prep: Getting Ready for the Festivities 13:16 Holiday Deadlines: Christmas vs. Thanksgiving 13:27 Giving and Serving During the Holidays 15:27 Organizing and Cleaning for the Holidays 16:45 Christmas Tree Decorating Tips 20:15 Updated Vaccine Recommendations for 2025 23:43 Introducing the My Midlife Moxie Journal  

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