The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast

• What Is CBT? How Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Helps with Anxiety, Depression & More

  Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely used and researched psychological therapies for anxiety, depression, and low mood but what actually happens in CBT sessions, and how does it work?In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent is joined by CBT therapist Sahana to explore what CBT is, how CBT works, and what clients can expect. From breaking unhelpful thought cycles to graded behavioural experiments, you’ll discover how CBT helps people with anxiety, depression, social anxiety, and more.Whether you’re thinking about accessing CBT therapy, supporting someone else, or training as a psychologist, this conversation gives you a clear, compassionate understanding of CBT and why it’s such a practical and empowering approach.Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: What CBT is and why it matters01:08 – First steps: nerves, myths, and accessibility in CBT02:31 – Making therapy accessible: online sessions, adaptations, and barriers04:39 – Thoughts, feelings, behaviours: the CBT cycle explained07:45 – When everyday worries become overwhelming09:58 – What keeps problems going? The role of formulation11:32 – Homework vs “between-session practice” — what clients can expect13:22 – Graded exposure and behavioural experiments16:13 – Case example: how CBT can help after relationship breakdown20:01 – Problem lists, goals, and building awareness23:06 – Balancing validation with change in CBT25:17 – How many CBT sessions do people usually get?27:56 – Collaboration, feedback, and challenging the ‘therapist as expert’ myth30:56 – The role of safety-seeking behaviours vs adaptive coping36:20 – Who CBT might not be the best fit for38:47 – Other approaches and the stages of change39:21 – Closing thoughts and next episode preview: training as a CBT therapistLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more:

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• The Smartphone Solution: How to Mindfully Introduce Phones to Kids (and Ourselves)

  Smartphones are everywhere but how do we know when (and how) to give one to our kids? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Dr Martha Deiros Collado to talk about her new book, The Smartphone Solution. Together we explore how to mindfully introduce smartphones to children, set healthy boundaries, and rethink our own relationship with screens.From managing FOMO and group chats to being role models for digital habits, this episode dives into the real challenges families face. You’ll learn practical tips to reduce overstimulation, create phone-free zones, and help kids notice how screens affect their wellbeing.Whether you’re a parent, teacher, psychologist, or just curious about healthier screen use, this conversation will give you insight, reassurance, and tools to feel more in control.⏱️ Highlights & Timestamps:00:00 – Introducing Dr Martha and The Smartphone Solution02:10 – Fear messaging vs reassurance: starting the phone conversation well03:50 – Why we scroll mindlessly and how it costs us time and presence05:34 – Taking control: parents as role models for digital habits06:31 – Peer pressure, FOMO, and the stress of group chats07:27 – Case study: a 13-year-old overwhelmed by 200+ WhatsApp messages daily09:17 – Alternatives to smartphones: why basic mobile phones still matter11:05 – Helping kids notice how screen use impacts emotions and wellbeing12:57 – When “helpful” parental boundaries can backfire15:11 – Why constant connection becomes meaningless “white noise”17:49 – Teaching kids good social skills before digital ones18:34 – The power of voice notes and video calls for real connection21:16 – Rest, overstimulation, and why we need phone-free zones25:20 – The “Tamagotchi effect” of phones demanding constant attention28:20 – Phones at the dinner table: should we be more offended?31:00 – Phone-free zones, alerts, and reclaiming presence at home35:48 – Tiny tweaks for big impact: practical steps for healthier habits39:15 – Publication details: where to get The Smartphone SolutionLinks:📚 Grab Dr Martha's brand new book The Smartphone Solution here: https://amzn.to/4n1Mc5Z 📲 Follow Dr Martha here: https://www.instagram.com/dr.martha.psychologist/🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now:

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• What Is Shame? A Psychologist Explains Its Hidden Power

  Have you ever had a moment where you felt fundamentally flawed? Like something was wrong with you, not just what you did? That’s the voice of shame. In this solo episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent unpacks what shame really is, how it can quietly shape your mental health, and why naming it is a radical first step toward emotional healing.We explore the psychology of shame, including how it develops in childhood, relationships, culture, trauma, and identity and how it can manifest through perfectionism, people-pleasing, low self-esteem, and burnout. With relatable examples and two fictional case studies (James and Amina), this episode shines a compassionate light on the invisible wounds shame can cause. Whether you're supporting therapy clients or dealing with shame yourself, this episode helps you understand its grip and how to loosen it.📌 Look out for part two coming soon: What to Do About Shame.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Is there something wrong with me?00:50 – What shame is and how it differs from guilt01:48 – Brene Brown’s definition and why shame is often invisible02:20 – Childhood roots: parenting, rejection, trauma, and marginalisation03:46 – A powerful example of body shame and religious upbringing04:51 – How shame hides: people-pleasing, self-criticism, addiction, avoidance05:46 – Case Study: James – heartbreak, masculinity, and silent shame06:38 – Case Study: Amina – failed application and feeling unworthy06:58 – Why shame can fuel anxiety, depression, burnout, and paralysis07:55 – The power of naming shame and exploring whose voice it echoes08:45 – Dr Marianne’s own experiences of shame and overcoming self-doubt09:17 – Next steps: part two on treating shame, membership, and supportLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe &...

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• What Do I do if I am Heartbroken, Lost my Job or Had & Sudden Shocking News?

  When your world turns upside down whether from a breakup, job loss, or sudden life-changing news it can feel impossible to cope. In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent shares essential emotional first aid strategies for managing grief, trauma, and distress after unexpected events.You’ll learn evidence-based techniques to help with overwhelm, anxiety, and shock from grounding and self-soothing to validating big emotions and seeking support. Whether you’re a mental health professional, psychology student, or someone dealing with a difficult time, this episode offers calm, compassionate guidance to help you feel more in control and less alone.Highlights:00:00 – What to do when your world flips upside down01:00 – Why sudden news hits our identity, relationships, and safety02:50 – Common coping strategies that might make things worse04:00 – How to avoid isolation and challenge shame05:00 – Resisting the urge to catastrophise06:00 – The basics of sleep, food, and hydration in a crisis07:30 – Grounding techniques for overwhelm08:30 – Building distress tolerance through breath and presence09:30 – Why moving your body matters more than you think10:40 – Managing sensory overload and reducing stimulation11:30 – How to ask for the support you need12:20 – Finding small wins and regaining control13:30 – Giving yourself permission to grieve14:30 – Safe ways to express sadness and process emotion15:30 – Honouring breakups and supporting children involved16:30 – Mental health crisis support and when to seek help17:30 – How to be the support someone else needs18:30 – Why you won’t feel like this forever19:30 – Tools and resources: The Grief Collective & Tricky Brain KitLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment,...

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• From Police Officer to Trainee Clinical Psychologist at Age 47

  Is it too late to become a clinical psychologist in your 40s or 50s? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Claire, a former police officer who medically retired, studied psychology with the Open University, and secured her first NHS Assistant Psychologist role at age 45. At 47, she was offered a place on the Doctorate in Clinical Psychology (DClinPsy) — on her first application.Claire’s journey offers hope and insight for mature students, career changers, and anyone wondering if clinical psychology is still a realistic goal later in life. From overcoming imposter syndrome to balancing parenting and NHS experience, this conversation is full of practical advice and encouragement.Whether you’re early in your journey or returning to education later in life, this episode will remind you: it’s never too late to become a psychologist.🎧 Highlights:00:00 – Introduction02:02 – Claire’s career in the police and what led to change06:34 – Studying psychology with the Open University09:11 – Challenges of being a mature student13:28 – First Assistant Psychologist post at 4515:40 – Working in acute mental health and CAMHS18:55 – Parenting while studying and working in psychology22:46 – Building confidence and self-belief26:19 – Applying for DClinPsy and the interview process29:02 – Reflections on age, readiness, and encouragement32:17 – Claire’s hopes for the future35:05 – Final thoughts: You’re never too late#CareerChangePsychology #MatureStudentJourney #AspiringPsychologist #DClinPsyApplication #NeverTooLateLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in...

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