She Who Becomes

In this episode of the She Who Becomes Podcast, I break down the fear of being seen — and why it has nothing to do with confidence, consistency, or knowing what to post.
This is about safety.
Because when visibility feels unsafe, your body will resist the very actions required for growth — whether that’s posting online, pitching your work, raising your prices, or stepping into leadership.
I go deeper into how cultural and generational conditioning — particularly for women and women of colour — creates what I call the visibility wound. A subconscious pattern that filters your voice, keeps you small, and activates resistance every time you try to expand.
You’ll understand:
→ Why resistance shows up as procrastination, overthinking, or inconsistency
→ How your “familiar self” is quietly capping your growth
→ Why your nervous system is wired to protect, not expand
→ And how to start rewiring the patterns that are keeping you hidden
I also share practical prompts to help you track your resistance, uncover the root of your patterns, and begin creating safety in being fully seen.
This isn’t about forcing visibility.
It’s about becoming the woman who feels safe holding it.
If you’re ready to go deeper, I also share how to work with me inside my mastermind, through timeline therapy, or in my upcoming behind-the-scenes session where I break down exactly how we generated £70K in Q1.
Timestamps
00:37 — Why Visibility Feels Unsafe
01:50 — The Role of Cultural & Generational Conditioning
05:01 — Resistance Is Protection, Not Failure
08:19 — How to Start Tracking Your Resistance
09:14 — Understanding the Visibility Wound
14:07 — Repetition, Safety & Rewiring Patterns
19:37 — The “Familiar Self” Ceiling
29:07 — Using Resistance as a Growth Map
33:49 — Closing: Your Next Level Requires a New Identity
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In this episode of She Who Becomes, I take you behind the scenes of my journey from living in my overdraft for over a decade to generating £1M+ in online sales.
But this isn’t a strategy story.
It’s a story about identity, self-worth, and the subconscious patterns that quietly cap your income—no matter how hard you work.
I share what “money mindset” really means (beyond surface-level affirmations), and how your internal set point determines what you feel safe receiving — often shaped by childhood, environment, and inherited beliefs.
You’ll hear about the early days of my wedding planning business — undercharging, overgiving, attracting the wrong clients — and the moment I realised the problem wasn’t my pricing.
It was how I saw myself.
Inside this episode, I break down the shifts that changed everything:
→ Investing in high-level mentorship before I felt ready
→ Rebuilding my self-concept and standards
→ Learning to track and respect money
→ Expanding my capacity to hold more (without sabotaging it)
→ Taking bold, decisive action — even when it felt uncomfortable
This is about moving beyond financial glass ceilings and becoming the woman who can actually hold the level of wealth she desires.
If you’re ready to go deeper, DM me “exclusive” for access to my live Q1 £70K revenue breakdown.
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Timestamps
00:43 → From Overdraft to £1M+
01:54 → Childhood Money Conditioning
05:31 → What Money Mindset Really Is
09:24 → Uncovering Your Money Beliefs
14:12 → Undervaluing Yourself
17:53 → The Desperation Energy Trap
21:12 → Mentorship & Brand Gaps
22:55 → Investing Before You’re Ready
24:37 → First £8K Month
27:01 → Self-Trust & Money
33:38 → Expanding Your Capacity to Hold More
36:32 → Why Action Builds Confidence
37:52 → Boundaries, Standards & Pricing
41:42 → Exclusive Live Invite
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I’m back after a short Q1 break, sharing what’s actually working right now — especially if you’re in a slower season or struggling to attract premium clients.
In this episode, I break down how I sold out my biggest London female founder event (170+ attendees, waitlist), made it profitable before doors opened, and generated over £70K in Q1.
But behind the scenes, this was one of my hardest seasons — from personal loss to nearly cancelling the event altogether.
What changed everything wasn’t more strategy — it was a decision.
I walk you through the key shifts that drove results:
→ Subconscious and identity work
→ Messaging and positioning
→ Email and outreach
→ Paid strategy (8–9x return, 70+ ticket sales in January)
If you’re in a low season or questioning your results, this episode will show you what actually moves the needle.
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Timestamps
00:57 → The moment I realised the event was actually going to sell out
03:30 → How we made profit before the doors even opened
09:07 → What was really happening behind the scenes (this nearly broke me)
13:50 → The “dark night” moment where I almost cancelled everything
19:44 → The decision that changed everything (this is the turning point)
23:17 → The identity and energy shift that unlocked momentum
27:00 → The strategy that actually drove sales (not what you think)
33:27 → The January push: outreach, risk, and what finally worked

In this heartfelt and inspiring podcast episode, host Sharn Khaira welcomes Kreena as a guest to share her extraordinary journey of resilience, courage, and motherhood. Kreena opens up about being diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 33, navigating fertility challenges, and overcoming heart failure. She discusses the emotional and societal pressures she faced, particularly as a South Asian woman, and how she found strength by embracing vulnerability and spirituality. Kreena also delves into her path to motherhood through surrogacy, confronting societal stigma, and the importance of acceptance and peace. Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, Kreena offers invaluable insights into finding hope, embracing life's challenges, and turning pain into purpose.
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In this episode, I’m joined by Archna, founder of A Touch of Travel and a former Mastermind client, who shares her powerful journey of scaling from £10K to over £107K whilst she worked with me.
Archna opens up about walking away from a long dentistry career that never truly fulfilled her, how the COVID period unexpectedly sparked a deep self-discovery process, and the courageous — yet emotionally charged — conversations she had with her husband that ultimately gave her permission to choose a completely new path.
We talk candidly about the fear and guilt that come with big life changes, the discomfort of stepping into visibility, and how targeted subconscious mindset work helped her uncover and release deep-rooted childhood money blocks that had kept her playing small for years.
Archna also reveals why finding the right community and strong accountability were game-changers, how she finally broke free from chronic procrastination, and the practical ways she now sets boundaries to grow a thriving business while remaining present and intentional as a mum.
This conversation is packed with honest insights on courage, inner work, and the real steps it takes to rewrite your financial and personal story — all while honouring what matters most.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/a_touchoftravel/
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