Come Curious

This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant.

Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service.

Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop.

Inside the episode:

- Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one- The difference between confidence and entitlement- How power exchange can become deeply transformative- Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no"- The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership- Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability

Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen.

Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility.

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Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? 

In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? 

From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. 

She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. 

Plus, she tackles: 

💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 

🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 

🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs 

✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits 

⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance 

Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all.

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Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it?

In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing yourself in relationships.

Expect candid chats about:
💔 Codependency and self-worth
🍑 Casual seggs, k'nk, and ethical dating
🧠 Nervous systems, attachment and emotional safety
✨ Learning your boundaries through dating

AND it's a Watershed episode meaning our Patreon's get the secret second half where Reed goes in deep on fantastic sx stories… and the disappointing dates.

Raw, reflective, horny and healing all at once — this is Reed fully unfiltered.

Come get curious 💫

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M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself.

From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure.

She explores why “bigger” isn’t always better, how knowing your size can transform seggs, and why orgasms should never feel like a performance.

Plus, this episode is sponsored by The Bad Peach - your one-stop shop for toys, lingerie, b0ndage and all things solo pl3asure. Use code ComeCurious20 for 20% off your order and start building the pleasure toolkit you actually deserve.

Inside the episode:

– How shame impacts m4sturbation and 0rgasms

– Why corn taught Reed the wrong techniques

– Learning your real size preferences (and unlearning corn myths)

– Toys, wands, d*ldos, suction toys & discovering what works for your body

– The importance of fantasy, mood-setting and self-exploration

– Why mutual m4sturbation can completely change partnered seggs

Come get curious 💦

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Is being single really freer? 

Is marriage actually boring?

And does your sex life have to change once you settle down? 

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as people think. 

From pregnancy libido changes and emotional intimacy to loneliness, rejection, freedom and validation, the girls get brutally honest about what their current realities actually look like. 

They also dive into your listener confessions about: 

– Dead bedrooms and relationship ruts 

– Ethical non-monogamy and opening things up 

– Why communication changes everything 

– How chronic pain, stress, kids and life impact intimacy 

– The pressure society places on both single and married people 

Plus, the episode is sponsored by Feeld celebrating their’s new Reflections feature — a tool designed to help you better understand your desires, boundaries, relationship style and sexual authenticity. 

Check it out here: https://feeld.co/reflections

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Because whether you’re single, partnered, married, exploring, confused, horny, lonely or somewhere in-between… there’s no “right” way to build a fulfilling sex life. 

Come get curious 💫

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