Parenting Out Loud

A viral essay from a dad admits he loves his kids but having a second child ruined his life. Is going from one kid to two really the parenting tipping point nobody warns you about?
Meanwhile, there's a Tik Tok debate over the phrase “You get what you get and you don't get upset.” Because wait, aren't we supposed to be validating ALL the feelings?
Amelia has the story of a mum who let her five-year-old walk to a pond alone and she's ended up with a criminal conviction. Have we become so obsessed with protecting our kids that we've forgotten to let them live? And what is all this intensive parenting costing mums?
Plus, the Hollywood toxic mums' group chat has made it all the way to Mexico on holiday. Everyone's invited. Well, not everyone.
Reccos:
Stacey recommends the chicken ick hack from TikTokker Aims that's going to change your schnitzel game.
Monz recommends Go-To Very Glowy Primer, for looking well-rested when you're absolutely not.
Amelia recommends An Argument, an episode of This American Life about a mother, her teenage daughter and the parenting decisions they don't agree on.
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Hosts: Stacey Hicks, Amelia Lester & Monique Bowley
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Cocaine use is rising in suburban Australia, and one story about “cocaine mums” went absolutely bananas this week. Is this mummy wine culture 2.0?
Meanwhile, CDs are back and suddenly a Discman with wired headphones is cool again. But maybe The Great Unplugging isn’t really about nostalgia. Maybe parents are just desperate for a device that doesn’t have an algorithm attached to it.
Plus, the Aussie dad who gave his kids an almighty dressing-down over the pool fence, Kim Kardashian's four nanny system, and Ben Affleck's existential crisis on a podcast.
Reccos:

Stacey recommends 70 Up on SBS On Demand

Amelia recommends this merino wool sauna hat to look cute while sweating

Monique recommends building a Christmas Battery Box with the greatest hits:
AA, AAA, C's, LR44, CR2032, A precision screwdriver set ... and tiny scissors.
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Rent-A-Nana & Can Meghan Rebrand Motherhood?
Where Have All The Rissoles Gone & “Who’s Your Least Favourite Relative?"
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A 20-second clip of a mum carrying a baby, a backpack, and three trays of food had millions of strangers screaming “LEAVE HIM”. Is it the parenting equivalent of the Coldplay viral video?

Also, we regret to inform you there is now a name for husbands disappearing into the toilet for suspiciously long periods: weaponised pooping.
Also, if parenting feels impossibly hard right now, it's not your fault. We unpack the speech about Australian parenthood that had parents crying with relief, and the three changes that could actually make family life easier.
Reccos:
Stacey recommends the playlist; Chessy's denim shirt in The Parent Trap also her own; Girly pop songs that make you want to kick a door down
Amelia recommends Group Chat by Zoë Foster Blake

Monz's thanks you all for the vacuum help AND recommends a Digital Calendar to sort your family's life out.
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'With a 20-second clip, the internet turned on my husband. Here's what really happened.'
Millie Bobby Brown just became a mum again. What she shared about motherhood is beautifully raw.
Georgie Dent just said the quiet thing about being a working mum out loud.
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Hosts: Stacey Hicks, Amelia Lester & Monique Bowley
Video Editor: Matt Perry
Associate Producer: Tessa Kotowicz
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A fun idea for a kids party ends in a five-hour furore and that's not even the weirdest thing that happened this week, because Gabby's Dollhouse - after 14 seasons - suddenly has a sister, and dogs. What is happening?
Meanwhile, Amelia issues an apology for everything we said about Gwyneth Paltrow and conscious uncoupling, because turns out she was onto something.

Monz brings us the school mums' Facebook argument that's gone nuclear. Who killed the school volunteer? And why are mums still expected to keep the cake stalls running?
Plus, Stacey reveals the post-partum crime almost every new mum has secretly committed. Now we've all been outed, dammit.
Reccos:
Stacey recommends the Kodiak insulated water bottle
Amelia recommends the Too Good To Go app for cheap mystery bags of bakery treats.

Monz's needs a reverse recommendation: she's looking for a bagged vacuum that will suck harder than school holidays with two working parents. Drop your reccos in the Spotify comments or DM us on Instagram @parentingoutloud!
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Gwyneth Paltrow was on the perfect holiday when she realised her marriage was over.
'Tell me, why the hell I should volunteer at my kids' school?'
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Hosts: Stacey Hicks, Amelia Lester & Monique Bowley
Video Editor: Matthew Perry
Associate Producer: Tessa Kotowicz
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Playdates are cancelled. Because the French reckon adults just need to get together when it suits them, and let the kids figure it out themselves. Sacre Bleu.
Meanwhile, The Oreogate plot thickens; was the entire thing a marketing ploy? An ad? Stacey has the official update.

Gen Alpha's are making their parents drive three hours for a very specific haircut, Lady Gaga joins the celebrity stealth-baby club, and when a Good Dad of the Internet asks what public toilet he should take his daughters into, 4 million people had thoughts.
Plus, Australian schools are winding back classroom screens and returning to pen and paper. Amelia gives us the history lesson on how screens got there in the first place.

Reccos:
Stacey recommends this Endota hydrating hand mask.
Monz recommends the best party idea she's seen in ages: a Park Crawl: like a pub crawl with no booze and more swings. Hire a bus, hit a few playgrounds, finish with cake.
Amelia recommends CrunchLabs Build Boxes for STEM-loving kids.
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What To Listen To Next:
Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud
Rent-A-Nana & Can Meghan Rebrand Motherhood?
Where Have All The Rissoles Gone & “Who’s Your Least Favourite Relative?"
What's Wrong With A Wine Playground & Is The Oreo Mum Even Real?
Radical Irwin Parenting, Bluey's Glow-Up & The Lindsay Clancy Trial
The Worst-First Theory and Do Babies Belong In Business Class?
The Class Photo Ban & The D*ckhead Dad Rebrand
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CREDITS:
Hosts: Stacey Hicks, Amelia Lester & Monique Bowley
Video Editor: Artemi Kokkaris
Associate Producer: Tessa Kotowicz
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast.
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