What The Nanny Heard

In this episode, Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss what it's really like when childcare professionals become parents and have to choose childcare for their own children.
Does working in childcare make the decision easier because we know exactly what to look for in a great nursery and can quickly spot the red flags? Or does it make it even harder to hand over our precious little ones, knowing no one will care for them quite like we do?

The ladies explore how it feels to watch your own child form attachments with nursery staff, compared with supporting Nanny children through the same experience. Does seeing attachment from the other side give Nannies a greater understanding of parents' emotions and decisions? They also discuss whether childcare providers feel extra pressure when caring for the children of parents who work in the childcare profession.

Millie also speaks candidly about her decision to become a childminder, sharing how she expects it to change both her family life and her career—for better and for worse.

Charlotte’s DMs
I got to work last week and my boss’ friends toddler was there. And it was just assumed that i would look after her. This has happened before but this time they went out and left me with the 2 toddlers. Is this OK?

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie tackle the often-taboo subject of menopause and its impact on the Nannying profession.

As more Nannies continue working through perimenopause, menopause and beyond, they discuss the realities of adapting to the physical and emotional changes while maintaining the high demands of the role. The conversation explores the importance of open, professional communication with employers about changing needs and workplace support.

The ladies share practical advice on balancing professionalism with the challenges menopause can bring, while also considering the role Nannies can play in normalising conversations about women's health with the children in their care. By encouraging openness rather than silence, they highlight the value of education and understanding across generations.

The discussion also shines a light on the wider inequalities faced by Nannies, with menopause serving as another example of the limited workplace protections and recognition available to those working in private households.

Charlotte’s DMs
Ive been asked to go on holiday with my Nanny family or take the time off. If I take the time off, do they have the right to make me pay the hours back?

Podcast Links

Menopause checklist: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

acas: https://www.acas.org.uk/menopause-at-work/supporting-staff-through-the-menopause

Government Overview: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/creating-an-action-plan-guidance-for-employers/overview#supporting-employees-experiencing-menopause

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie debate the pros and cons of nannying in the city versus the countryside.

From the convenience of public transport and vibrant social opportunities to the freedom, space and slower pace of rural life, each setting offers its own unique advantages and challenges. The ladies explore how location can impact a Nanny's work-life balance, social life and even their dating prospects.

They also discuss whether city or country roles are more effective at preventing burnout, if one lifestyle is truly more relaxing than the other, and how a Nanny's autonomy can differ depending on their environment. Do children enjoy greater independence in the countryside, or does city living offer its own freedoms?

The conversation also touches on budgets, expectations and family dynamics, asking whether country roles tend to be more down-to-earth and how this can influence the nannying experience.
Charlotte, Charlie and Millie compare two very different ways of life and consider which setting might be the best fit for both Nannies and the families they support.

Charlotte’s DMs
Have you ever been in a position where you are wanting to reduce the hours you’re currently employed to do? I am really stuck. I want to reduce my hours but I know it'll be a pain in the neck for my employers. I know that they work full time and I know they need me 5 days a week. It's just guilt now that's holding me back. I want to basically reduce my hours to do 3 days a week, maybe 4. I really don't know what to do or how to approach the situation. Please help!

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie reflect on the roles that have shaped their careers, exploring both the highs and the lows of life as a Nanny.

Every position teaches us something. The positive experiences often help us identify what we value most in a role—whether that's travel, proxy parenting, shared care, or a particular family dynamic—while the more challenging moments show us what we'd rather leave behind.

The ladies discuss how different roles can influence our confidence, both positively and negatively, and the lasting impact this can have on our professional development. They also explore how certain jobs can unexpectedly shape our career paths, helping us discover new strengths, interests and ambitions along the way.

Join them as they share personal experiences and insights into the lessons learned from the families and roles that have helped define their Nannying journeys.

Charlotte’s DMs
My boss has told me that they don’t need me on their holiday. They have set me lots of tasks to do deep cleaning the whole house, cleaning the garden etc etc, is this allowed?

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie explore the unique privilege—and responsibility—of being entrusted with a child's secret. When should a nanny keep a child's confidence, and when is it necessary to share information with parents?

Drawing on their own experiences, they discuss how Nannies can navigate these delicate situations, including how to handle conversations with a child when information may need to be disclosed. They also consider how to support parents who may feel hurt or excluded when their child chooses to confide in their Nanny rather than in them.

The conversation also covers safeguarding responsibilities: how to recognise when a concern goes beyond confidentiality, who a Nanny should speak to, and the appropriate steps to take when a child's safety or wellbeing may be at risk.

Charlotte, Charlie and Millie share practical advice and professional insights to help Nannies balance trust, communication and their duty of care.

Charlotte’s DMs
I am a live in Nanny and I wanted to have some friends over to my work house and my boss said no. Should I be allowed friends over?

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