What The Nanny Heard

Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss the key differences between routine and free flow, and why free flow should not be confused with uninvolved care.

They explore how structure can exist without rigidity, and how boundaries, expectations, and consistency still play a crucial role even in a more child-led day. Does personality influence how a routine is set—or whether one exists at all? From highly organised caregivers to more intuitive, go-with-the-flow types.

The ladies discuss what happens when children transition into school, where routines are largely non-negotiable. How does a child who has experienced free flow adapt to timetables, rules, and structured learning? Equally, how does a child raised with a very fixed routine cope with the sudden need for flexibility and independence?

The conversation also looks at the extremes. What happens when a routine is too rigid or on the other hand, a routine is too flexible. Do routines naturally evolve over time, allowing children to grow with them?

Charlotte’s DMs
I care for a 3 year old who has a meltdown at every transition. I do the countdown, the gentle reminders and plenty of notice, nothing seems to work. Everything, everything is a meltdown and he cries every single time.

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie interview Julia, a teacher, tutor, and experienced travel nanny, as she shares her adventures and anecdotes from working around the world.

Julia talks through what to consider when deciding whether a travel role is the right fit, starting with the brief. Does it align with her values, experience, and instincts? If so, the initial interview is absolutely imperative. She explains how she uses this stage to gather key information about the type of trip, expectations, and responsibilities, as well as the importance of thorough pre-trip research. Cultural norms, local customs, and weather conditions all play a vital role in preparing for a successful placement.

She discusses the wide range of travel experiences she’s had, from immersive cultural adventures to living on a beach that could be anywhere in the world. Not all settings are without risk, though, and Julia shares her thoughts on the perils of places like water parks and how to manage them safely.

Julia highlights the essential skills required for travel nannying, including planning inventive activities, forming quick and meaningful bonds with children, and confidently establishing boundaries and discipline in unfamiliar environments.

She also shares her tried-and-tested travel hacks for airports, flights, and keeping children entertained throughout holidays, along with lessons learned from common pitfalls—yes, including the dreaded lost luggage.

Podcast Links:
My travelling Nanny Agency
https://www.mytravellingnanny.co.uk/
Julia’s IG: @missjseal

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Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss the age-old question: who are Nannies really training — the children or the parents? They explore the delicate balance of managing expectations, routines, and boundaries in a role that often extends far beyond childcare.

The ladies discuss the familiar Monday struggle: returning to work after weekend routines have been completely undone. Is it back to square one every time? Do Nannies have the right to complain, or is professionalism about accepting that parents will do as they please during the Nanny’s time off?

Also up for discussion is whether perspective and emotional resilience develop with experience, and if time in the job helps Nannies manage the mental load more effectively.

Charlotte and Millie then share their own distressing stories of being fibbed to by their parents! Reflecting on how those moments linger long after they happen — and why trust is such a crucial, and fragile, part of the Nanny–child relationship.

Charlotte’s DMs

I am in a bit of a tricky situation, please may you help me? My employers are always blaming me for things that aren’t my fault. When things go missing I am accused or at least I am asked with many, many questions and if anything happens to the house or gets broken they always give me an accusing look.

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie follow on from last week’s episode about goodbyes, focusing on the often-overlooked beginning: how nannies can confidently negotiate and navigate the early days of a new job.

Starting with a new family is rarely straightforward. Every household is different, every child is individual, and transitions can be challenging. Children may struggle with change, boundaries will almost certainly be tested, and it’s essential to start as you mean to go on — with clarity, consistency, and compassion.

The episode offers practical advice to help Nannies fully arm themselves for a strong, successful start. It’s about finding the balance between holding firm boundaries and showing empathy, taking baby steps, and understanding that trust takes time.

Charlotte’s DMs
Have you ever noticed that children act so much worse when their parents are at home?

Podcast Links:
1st Day checklist: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library
Emergency contact
Daily Checklist: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/resource-library

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Charlotte, Charlie and Millie discuss the moment a nanny realises it’s time to move on and everything that comes with that decision. They explore what Nannies leave behind — emotionally and practically — and whether this transition feels more sad or exciting.

The conversation covers leaving gifts (yes or no?), staying in touch after a role ends, birthdays and birthday presents, and the complex mix of emotions experienced by both the nanny and the child or children.

The ladies also share thoughtful advice on navigating this potentially tough time, including handling the handover to a new Nanny. Including passing on personal notes, hints and tips that can help instil confidence and reassurance in the children during the change.

Charlotte’s DMs
My family are expecting to have a new baby any day now soon and it’s a little girl. Should I get them a gift? And if so, do you know what I can get that is on the affordable side?

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