Don't Mom Alone Podcast

In this episode, Suzanne Stabile, internationally recognized Enneagram expert and mom of four adult children, shares her personal story and how the Enneagram has shaped her approach to parenting. She explains that the Enneagram isn’t about changing who we are, but about understanding how we see the world and choosing how to act with intention. She reminds us that there’s no one right way to parent; motherhood requires recognizing differences, extending grace, and embracing our own authentic path.
Suzanne dives into the practical applications of the Enneagram in family life, showing how it can transform relationships with your children, your spouse, and other moms. She explains the energy and tendencies of different Enneagram types—from aggressive and dominant types to dependent and withdrawing types—and how understanding these patterns can bring unity instead of conflict. Parenting is never easy, and mistakes are inevitable, but Suzanne emphasizes that grace covers our shortcomings. By using the Enneagram as a tool, we can parent with more awareness, respond with empathy, and honor our own authentic selves while guiding our children with love. Here is some of what we cover: 

Enneagram Types as Animals: Ones are Worker Bees, Twos are Kangaroos, Threes are Eagles, Fours are Butterflies, Fives are Owls, Sixes are Bunny Rabbits, Sevens are Monkeys, Eights are Lions, and Nines are Turtles.

Grace covers the places we fall short

Set appropriate priorities: You can’t do it all.

Be mindful in child-centered families: When the focus is entirely on the children, much can get overlooked, and it often reflects a broader cultural expectation.

Connect with Suzanne Stabile: 

Instagram: Suzanne Stabile (@suzannestabile)

Website: The Enneagram Godmother

Facebook: Suzanne Stabile | Facebook

Links Mentioned: 

The Road Back to You: By Suzanne Stabile

The Journey Toward Wholeness: By Suzanne Stabile

Related Episodes:

How God Personally Pursues and Redeems :: Jenn Jett [Ep 193]

Enneagram and Stress :: Ian Cron Recap [Bonus Episode]

The Enneagram, Marriage and the Gospel :: Beth McCord [Ep 259]

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In part three of my School Choice Series, I sit down with my friend Emily Fenlaw to talk about all things public school. With four children who have experienced everything from traditional public school to the talented and gifted program, an all-girls school, and an arts-focused school, Emily has navigated the many options and transitions that public education can offer.
She also shares candidly about parenting children with ADHD — walking through 504 plans, medication decisions, and the ongoing process of learning how to support executive functioning at home. Through it all she learned to be a student of her child to discover the best path for them. 
My hope with this series is to share a variety of school choice stories so you can hear different experiences and perspectives. As you listen, I encourage you to pray and seek God’s guidance, asking Him to bring to mind exactly what you need to know for your family’s journey. Trust Him to walk hand in hand with you, year by year, as you make decisions and navigate each step of your children’s education. Here is some of what we cover: 

The beauty of building relationships with families from all walks of life

How introverts and extroverts can uniquely flourish in public school environments

You can only make the best decision you can with the information you have

The challenges of public school and navigating relationships with other parents

Connect with Emily Fenlaw: 

Instagram: @EmFenlaw

Get notified when her tshirt business launches

Related Episodes:

School Choice Series: Private to Public School with Misty Persefield:: [Ep 560]

School Choice Series: Homeschool to Private School with Kris Habashy :: [Ep 559]

The School of Dependency on Christ :: Wendy Speake [Ep 240]

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In part two of my School Choice Series, I sit down with Misty Persefield, a mom of three, to talk candidly about navigating school choice from the early years through high school. Misty shares her family’s journey through private and public schools, the fears she faced, and the peace that came from trusting God rather than comparing herself to others. This conversation offers reassurance for moms carrying the weight of making the “right” educational choices and highlights the importance of keeping fear out of the decision-making process.
My hope with this series is to share a variety of school choice stories so you can hear different experiences and perspectives. As you listen, I encourage you to pray and seek God’s guidance, asking Him to bring to mind exactly what you need to know for your family’s journey. Trust Him to walk hand in hand with you, year by year, as you make decisions and navigate each step of your children’s education. Here is some of what we cover: 

Challenges of private school, including finances and high expectations

The importance of knowing yourself, your child, and your family culture

Pivoting from private to public school for high school

Starting kids early vs. late, especially for boys based on birthdays

Preparing kids for college by “taking off the bubble wrap” while they’re still at home

Connect with Misty Persefield: 

Instagram: Misty Persefield (@mistypersefield)

Website: Marketing Agency | Misty Persefield Marketing and Media

Related Episodes:

Shame, Perfectionism and Smiling Depression :: Misty Persefield and Stephanie Coker [Ep 154]

School Choice Series: Homeschool to Private School with Kris Habashy :: [Ep 559]

Confidence in Parenting Decisions :: Laura Wifler [Ep 497]

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In episode one of my School Choice Series, Kris Habashy shares her family’s journey from homeschooling to Christian private education. From navigating dyslexia to the challenges of transitioning middle schoolers, Kris offers a heartfelt, honest look at the joys, struggles, and unexpected growth that come with trusting God in your educational choices.
My hope with this series is to share a variety of school choice stories so you can hear different experiences and perspectives. As you listen, I encourage you to pray and seek God’s guidance, asking Him to bring to mind exactly what you need to know for your family’s journey. Trust Him to walk hand in hand with you, year by year, as you make decisions and navigate each step of your children’s education. Here is some of what we cover: 

Why Kris initially chose to homeschool and how her personality and family dynamics played a role.

The challenges of transitioning kids from homeschooling to private school — especially in middle school.

The importance of nurturing your own growth as a mom while guiding your kids.

Families navigating dyslexia, learning differences, or anxiety around school transitions.

Connect with Kris Habashy: 

Instagram: (I don’t see any SM for her, do you mind asking?) 

Facebook: 

Website: Stress management coaching for life’s major moments

Links Mentioned:  
Living Fearless: By Jamie Winship
Related Episodes:

Expect the Hard, Experience the Good :: Kris Habashy (part 1) Ep 34

Expect the Hard, Experience the Good (Part Two) :: Kris Habashy {Ep 35}

Exchange False Beliefs with True Identity :: Jamie Winship [Ep 433]

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Parenting a spicy child can feel overwhelming, isolating, and exhausting, especially when traditional parenting advice just doesn’t work. In this episode, Mary Van Geffen joins us to talk about what it really means to parent a strong-willed, spirited, intense child without losing yourself or crushing their spirit.
So often, as moms, we unknowingly tie our identity and worth to how our children behave. When our kids are calm, compliant, or successful, we feel like we are doing a good job. When they are loud, explosive, or struggling, we internalize it as failure. Parenting a spicy child brings this tension to the surface and forces us to ask deeper questions about where our identity really comes from. This conversation invites moms to loosen their grip on performance-based parenting and remember that our value is not measured by our child’s behavior, but by who we are and whose we are. 
Here is some of what we cover: 

How to stay connected to your child so you can guide them long-term

A practical calm down recipe for flare-ups and explosive moments

How to set boundaries without crushing your child’s spirit

Why you are not responsible for your child’s happiness

How to support the mild child in a family with a spicy sibling

Connect with Mary Van Geffen: 

Instagram: 🌶️Parenting Education Classes (@maryvangeffen)

Facebook: Mary Van Geffen

Website: Mary Van Geffen

Links Mentioned:  

Parenting a Spicy One: By Mary Van Geffen

The Cost of Control: By Sharon Hodde Miller

Start Here- Quiz — Mary Van Geffen

Related Episodes:

Parenting as a Highly Sensitive Person :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 438]

Body Awareness in Parenting :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 333]

How to Stay Calm with Strong Willed Kids? :: Kirk Martin [Ep 479]

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