What if your dog’s anxiety, fear, or reactivity isn’t something to fix, but something to listen to?
In this powerful and thought-provoking episode I am joined by expert dog trainer, behaviour consultant, and certified trauma professional, Dr. Laura Donaldson, to explore Clinical Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) - also known as tapping - and its potential to support deep emotional healing in both humans and dogs.
Blending science, somatics, and the unseen bond between species, this conversation invites you to consider a different approach to behaviour - one rooted not in control or correction, but in nervous system regulation, safety, and connection.
Together, we explore what’s really happening beneath the surface of common behavioural challenges, and why so many dogs (and their guardians) remain stuck despite doing “everything right.”
You’ll learn how tapping on acupressure points can influence the body’s stress response, how trauma is stored and processed in the nervous system, and why emerging research around memory reconsolidation is shifting the way we understand healing.
Through the lens of surrogate tapping, we explore the how working on your own emotional state can create meaningful shifts in your dog - not through force, but through the deep, often invisible connection you share.
In This Episode, We Cover:
What Clinical EFT (tapping) is and how it works
The science: neurobiology, stress response & memory reconsolidation
How dogs experience trauma and emotional stress
Why some behavioural issues don’t resolve with training alone
Surrogate tapping: can working on yourself help your dog?
The human–dog emotional connection (mirror neurons, resonance & beyond)
Consent, safety, and ethical considerations in healing work with dogs
Moving beyond “fixing” into true co-regulation and relationship
At its heart, this is a conversation about relationship, and about learning to meet your dog not as a problem to solve, but as a sentient being with their own nervous system, their own story, and their own path.
And perhaps, as a mirror, guide, or invitation into your own healing, too.
If you’ve ever felt that your dog is reflecting something back to you, if you’re curious about the connection between your emotional world and theirs, or if you’re searching for a more compassionate, holistic way to support your dog - this episode will open something up in you.
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To learn more and connect with Dr Laura Donaldson:
https://fourpawsfourdirections.com
Enrollment link for Emotional Freedom Techniques: Clinical Tapping for You and Your Dog webinar:
https://laura-s-school-1f3f.thinkific.com/enroll/3725201?price_id=4676486
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(for 50% off the price of webinar tuition)
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Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat any disease, or replace medical guidance. Please speak with your veterinarian.