Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries

• I said 'NO!' How to hold boundaries without losing it

   Your child is begging, whining, or having a meltdown, and all you did was calmly say “no.” Suddenly, you’re second-guessing yourself, snapping, or giving in just to keep the peace. Sound familiar?In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why holding boundaries is so hard, and how to do it in a calm, clear and kind way, even when your child shouts “You’re a bad mum!” in the middle of the supermarket.You’ll learn how to hold firm without losing your cool, while building resilience and trust in your child. ✅ Hold the boundary with warmth (without over-explaining) ✅ Don’t explain on repeat - here’s what to say instead ✅ Stay steady in the storm - even when emotions run highPlus, hear one mum’s Coco Pops supermarket dilemma, a story about mint ice cream and regret, and a powerful coaching example that helped a child sleep better, all through consistent, kind boundaries.🎁 Free guide: www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📞 Book a discovery call: www.myparentingsolutions.com/chat⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The struggle of holding boundaries 00:24 Why boundaries are important 01:57 Real-life parenting dilemma: The supermarket scenario 02:48 ✅ Tool 1: Hold the boundary with warmth 06:10 ✅ Tool 2: Don’t explain on repeat 09:08 ✅ Tool 3: Stay steady in the stormConnect with Camilla for a FREE discovery call www.myparentingsolutions.com/chatGet Camilla’s free guide How to Get Kids to Listen www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• Why Time-Outs Don’t Work – And 3 Powerful Alternatives

  You’re doing everything you can to raise kind, respectful kids—but sometimes they push you to the limit. Maybe they scream at you, throw food, hit a sibling, or completely lose it over something small… and in that moment, you find yourself shouting, “Time out!”We’ve all been there. Time-outs seem like a quick fix—but in this episode, you’ll learn why they rarely work the way we hope, and what actually helps children calm down, feel safe, and make better choices next time.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why time-outs often backfire and disconnect us from our kidsA powerful story from Camilla’s own parenting that changed how she sees difficult behaviourWhat dysregulation really looks like—and why kids need connection, not isolation3 powerful alternatives to time-outs you can start using today💬 Question of the Week: “My child shouts ‘I don’t care!’ when I say I’ll take something away—what do I say instead?”👩‍🏫 Hosted by Camilla McGill Parenting coach and mum of four, Camilla helps parents build calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children—using love, empathy, and healthy boundaries.💬 Ready for more personalised support? Book a free 60-minute discovery call with Camilla and find out how her coaching can help you feel calmer and more confident in your parenting. 👉 https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT🎙️ Subscribe or follow the podcast to get weekly parenting tools and inspiration 📩 Send Camilla a message or ask a question for a future episode: [email protected] you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• Why Rude, Moody or Silent Kids Need Us Most in These Moments

  You’re trying your best to be a kind, calm, emotionally available parent—and yet your child is still shutting down, being rude, or melting down for no apparent reason. It’s frustrating, confusing, and sometimes heartbreaking.This episode will help you decode what’s really going on beneath the surface when your child acts out—and give you simple ways to stay emotionally connected, even when your child says “Nothing” and shuts you out.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why children often show us their feelings instead of telling usA relatable story from Camilla’s own parenting life that will shift the way you see defiant or rude behaviourWhat to do when your child won’t open up, and how to gently help them share what’s going on5 powerful strategies to build connection and create emotional safety💬 Question of the Week: “When I see my 6-year-old son is upset and I ask him what’s the matter, he just says ‘Nothing’ — what am I supposed to do then?”You’ll get practical ideas to handle this kind of emotional shutdown without pressure, shame, or trying to force a conversation.👩‍🏫 Hosted by Camilla McGill Parenting coach and mum of four, Camilla helps parents build calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children—using love, empathy, and healthy boundaries.💬 Ready for more personalised support? Book a free 60-minute discovery call with Camilla and find out how her support can help you decode your child’s behaviour and feel more confident as a parent: 👉 https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT 🎙️ Subscribe or follow the podcast to get weekly parenting tools and inspiration 📩 Send Camilla a message or question for a future episode [email protected] you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• How to Handle Sibling Fights Without Having To Take Sides

  Sibling rivalry driving you up the wall? From constant squabbles to explosive bath-time battles, it’s hard to know when to step in—and how to do it without always picking a side.Parenting coach Camilla McGill shares 4 clear, practical strategies to help you stay calm, avoid taking sides, and guide your children to work things out for themselves. These tools will help you bring more peace to your home while building empathy, cooperation, and lasting sibling connection.The 4 Key Strategies✅ Shift Your Role – Become the calm coach, not the referee✅ Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair – Guide your children forward without needing to know every detail✅ Set the Stage for Success – Prevent predictable squabbles by planning ahead✅ Spotlight the Good Stuff – Catch the kindness and build more connection🔗 Mentioned in This Episode🎓 Sibling Rivalry Resolved – On-Demand Workshop & Manual Includes real-life examples, scripts, and a 16-page downloadable guide to reduce fighting and build sibling harmony.💬 Let’s ConnectBook a free discovery call to talk to Camilla  ⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Handling Sibling Fights: Why this matters so much01:25 Question of the Week: “My daughter is always mean to her little brother…”01:55 Strategy 1: Shift from Referee to Coach04:18  Strategy 2: Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair07:15  Strategy 3: Set the Stage for Success09:38  Strategy 4: Spotlight the Good Stuff11:20 Revisit the Listener Question12:37 Final Thoughts + Recap13:15 Additional Resources & ClosingWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• 3 Biggest Mistakes we can make as parents and how to avoid them

  Why do the simplest moments with kids — like putting on a coat — sometimes explode into shouting, tears, and slammed doors? Why do even the most loving parents find themselves saying things they swore they'd never say?In this powerful conversation, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares the three biggest mistakes parents unknowingly make — and, more importantly, how small shifts can completely transform the connection with a child.Listeners will hear a real-life "messy moment" that every parent will recognise and walk away with practical tools to: ✨ Stay calm under pressure ✨ Guide instead of control ✨ Focus on building long-term resilience — not just short-term obedienceIf anyone has ever walked away from an argument with their child thinking, "Why did it go that way?" — this episode offers the insight and reassurance they need.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries00:04 Why we make mistakes00:51 Introducing the Question of the Week: Handling Frustration02:12 Mistake #1: Controlling Instead of Guiding06:54 Mistake #2: Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Calmly10:37 Mistake #3: Focusing on Short-Term Obedience13:56 Reply to Question of the Week: "How can I get my child to put their coat on?"14:45 Summary and RecapWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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