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You're Not Underpaid, You're Afraid w/ Nidhi Tewari | Ep 456
21/10/2026 | 34 mins.Most creatives think their pricing problem is a pricing problem. Nidhi Tewari, LCSW and author of Working Well, says it starts much earlier, in the messages you absorbed about whether this career was ever going to pay. She and Chris trace how old rejection turns into shame, and how shame quietly shows up in the way you pitch, negotiate, and discount. From there it gets practical: the three traps in a sales conversation, fixers, avoiders, and connectors, what an explorer does instead, and the four domains of attunement she calls FRSC. Chris pushes back hard on the word relational, and the disagreement is the best part. If you keep saying yes to a lower fee, this one's for you.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:24) - Where Limiting Beliefs Start
(03:00) - Social Expectations and Career Limiting Beliefs
(03:57) - Proving Yourself to Your Parents
(04:48) - Why a No Hurts So Much
(08:43) - Rejection and Shame Are Cousins
(10:57) - Avoidance Is the Real Blocker
(15:27) - Relational Selling vs. Transactional Selling
(16:01) - Connection Gaps in Sales Calls
(18:37) - Fixers, Avoiders, and Connectors
(20:34) - Maintaining Your Fee and Boundaries
(22:00) - What a Relational Approach Really Means
(26:21) - Be an Explorer Instead
(27:19) - Shifting From Friendly to Business
(29:00) - Attunement Through Tone and Body Language
(31:00) - The Four Domains of Attunement
(33:00) - What to Say When They Hesitate
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14/10/2026 | 23 mins.At twenty-eight, Dr. John Demartini took 300 best-selling books on positive thinking, underlined every positive word, compiled 2,000 index cards, then chanted them 108 times a day for two years while monitoring seven areas of his life four times a day. At the end he ran the numbers. It came out zero. In the second half of his conversation with Chris, he makes the case that negativity is a signal to read, not a defect to delete: hedonic adaptation, moral licensing, why insomnia tracks both resentment and infatuation, and the fifteen unrealistic expectations that produce almost all of it. There is also a 500-page list of questions he watched a prince and princess work through over dinner at the Ritz. If you have been trying to think your way to a one-sided life, this one takes the illusion off you.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:51) - Why the Mind Goes Negative
(01:16) - Told He Would Never Read
(02:32) - The Father of Positive Thinking Confesses
(05:04) - 300 Books and 2,000 Index Cards
(06:19) - Two Years of Monitoring, Result Zero
(06:45) - Hedonic Adaptation and Moral Licensing
(07:35) - What Negativity Is Actually For
(09:42) - The 15 Reasons We Go Negative
(11:39) - Half Full, Half Empty, or Both at Once
(13:06) - The Ritz, 1991, and 500 Pages of Questions
(15:14) - Quality of Life, Quality of Questions
(18:12) - 9,378 Pages of Journals
(19:52) - Passion Means to Suffer
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesYour Betrayal Works for You w/ Dr. John Demartini | Ep 454
07/10/2026 | 43 mins.A woman still resents the friend who broke her trust years ago. The story she tells about it is that people tear you down when you shine too bright. Chris Do hands the room to Dr. John Demartini, who runs his method on her live and in front of everyone: narrow the story to one specific act, find where she has done the same thing herself, then account for what that act actually gave her across career, money, family, friendships, health, and identity. Twelve minutes later she is not forgiving as a favor, she is thanking the friend, and she means it. Dr. Demartini has spent fifty-two years on these questions. If someone owes you an apology you are still waiting on, start here.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:41) - What the Demartini Method Is
(02:06) - Quality of Life, Quality of Questions
(05:31) - The Fear of Shining Too Bright
(06:46) - The Friend Who Told the Husband
(10:11) - Whatever You Judge in Others, You Have Done
(12:18) - Amygdala, Hippocampus, and Stored Shame
(16:33) - Producer Break and What Is Coming Next
(17:23) - Finding the Benefits in Seven Areas
(24:33) - Who Filled the Roles That Went Missing
(27:05) - The Moment He Asked Point Blank
(28:21) - You Never Attract a Betrayer Without a Loyal
(30:01) - Thank You, Deborah
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesGoing Viral Won't Build Your Brand w/ Chris Do | Ep 453
30/09/2026 | 4 mins.There's a version of Hawk Tuah Girl in every algorithm feed: one clip, one accident, one viral moment that turns into an identity overnight. Chris Do says that's not a strategy, it's luck, and luck runs out. What actually holds up over years comes from solving the same problem for the same person long enough that your name becomes the answer.
Chris explains his own 90-day blueprint for finding that thread: a month to experiment, a month to narrow in, and a month to commit fully. He ties it to Seth Godin's "The Dip," the flat, unrewarding stretch where most people quit right before the payoff kicks in, and makes the case for why staying past that point is the whole game.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:22) - The Hawk Tuah Girl Story
(01:09) - Lean Into Your Gift
(01:52) - The 90-Day Content Framework
(02:36) - Seth Godin's The Dip
(03:24) - Pushing Through the Dip
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesThe Truth Behind Scroll-Stopping Thumbnails w/ Brittney Carlini | Ep 452
23/09/2026 | 28 mins.Brittney Carlini taught herself Photoshop to make thumbnails for her husband's YouTube channel because they couldn't afford to hire anyone. Now she builds tension into every frame she designs, a bar of soap forged from steel, a jet-powered go-kart racing a closing railroad crossing, the eye of a man about to swallow a pill. Chris compares the work to movie poster marketing, the cracked egg on the Alien poster, the shark in Jaws, neither of which appears in the actual film. The two land on where exaggeration turns into a lie, and whether AI tools now generating thumbnails in seconds will ever learn that difference.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:36) - Brittney’s Path to Thumbnail Design
(01:56) - Learning Thumbnails Through Reps
(03:13) - The Steel Soap Story
(06:15) - Chris Do's Thumbnail Concept Test
(08:58) - Finding the Moment of Tension
(10:24) - The Thumbnail Style Spectrum
(13:03) - Clickbait vs. Movie Poster Marketing
(16:53) - The Movie Poster Analogy: Alien and Jaws
(19:45) - AI and the Future of Thumbnail Design
(24:52) - Advice for New Thumbnail Designers
(26:23) - Where to Find Brittney Carlini
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The Futur Podcast is a show that explores the interesting overlap between design, marketing, and business. Our host (and CEO of The Futur), Chris Do, hold candid conversations with inspirational people from the worlds of design, technology, marketing, business, philosophy and personal development. These conversations go deep. With the aim of understanding who these incredible people are, what drives them to do what they do, and what can we--the listener--learn from it all. Visit thefutur.com/podcast for show notes and additional information from each episode.
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