Negotiation is the art of persuasion and influence. All of us do it every day, yet there aren’t obvious ways to learn to do it effectively. Stan Christensen has...
In this episode, Stan interviews Scott Brown, co-founder of the Harvard Negotiation Project, about the complex art of negotiating with children. The conversation delves into practical strategies for negotiating with kids of all ages, from toddlers to teenagers to adult children. Scott shares personal anecdotes and professional insights, drawing from his extensive career in conflict resolution and parenting. Topics include managing your own emotions, setting clear rules, handling power struggles, sibling rivalry, and the evolving dynamics as children grow older. Whether you're a parent looking to improve your negotiating skills or just curious about the intersection of negotiation and parenting, this discussion offers valuable lessons and heartfelt advice.
Get Scott's book here: https://www.amazon.com/Negotiate-Kids-Even-Think-Shouldnt/dp/0670031828
00:00 Introduction to Negotiation with Scott Brown
00:21 Scott Brown's Career and Background
01:00 International Conflict Resolution Experiences
05:17 Negotiating with Children: An Overview
18:54 The Importance of Emotional Management in Parenting
23:36 Balancing Discipline and Punishment
29:04 Consistency in Parenting Rules
30:25 The Power of Apologizing
31:01 Effective Listening Strategies
32:55 Warm and Expressive Parenting
36:21 Changing Gender Roles in Parenting
38:41 Negotiating with Teenagers
40:19 Managing Screen Time and Social Media
42:02 Transitioning to Adult Child Relationships
47:57 Handling Power Struggles with Young Kids
49:59 Dealing with Sibling Rivalry
54:48 Parenting as a Negotiation
55:55 The Importance of Parent-Child Relationships
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Tien Tzuo, CEO of Zuora: A Negotiation Journey From Tech Founder to Public Company CEO.
In this episode, Stan talks with Tien Tzuo, the CEO of Zuora, to discover the power of negotiations in both tech startups and public companies. Tien shares his journey from being an early employee at Salesforce to founding and growing Zuora into a public company. The discussion covers a wide range of topics including negotiating with employees, investors, and within organizational structures. Tien highlights the importance of understanding the other party's needs, internal team alignment, handling conflict, and maintaining a larger vision. He also discusses the transition from running a private company to a public one, and his current experience with Zuora. Tien's insights are invaluable for entrepreneurs, managers, and anyone looking to improve their negotiation skills. Tune in to learn about the nuances of negotiations and leadership from a seasoned Silicon Valley executive.
00:00Â Introduction to Negotiation Types
00:27Â Guest Introduction: Teen, CEO of Zuora
01:04Â Early Career and Sales Experience
03:14Â Lessons from Salesforce and Starting Zuora
05:51Â Scaling a Company: From Startup to Public
11:03Â Navigating Organizational Change
17:22Â Conflict Resolution and Team Dynamics
22:21Â Hiring, Firing, and Employee Negotiations
26:44Â Transitioning to a Public Company
27:07Â Understanding the Investor's Perspective
28:44Â Simplifying the Message for Public Investors
29:56Â Transitioning from Public to Private
31:19Â Raising Capital: Stories and Strategies
37:21Â The Importance of Internal Negotiations
48:15Â Lessons from Personal Negotiations
49:06Â Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Reed Galen: Lesson's From Trump's Election Win
In this episode Stan talks with political expert Reed Galen, who has held senior roles in notable Republican campaigns and is a co-founder of the Lincoln Project. Galen is also podcast host for The Home Front. We explore Trump’s unique approach to negotiation, the Democratic Party's challenges in reaching voters, and what both parties can learn from past campaigns. Reed shares his analysis of Trump’s recent victory over Kamala Harris, the importance of proactive messaging, and how Democrats can better align with cultural values. This episode offers a comprehensive understanding of political strategy, negotiation, and the current state of American politics.
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00:00 Trump's Early Realizations and Motivations
00:31 Introducing Reed Galen: Political Expert
01:23 Analyzing the 2024 Election: Trump vs. Harris
03:38 The Republican Communication Strategy
06:30 Democratic Party's Cultural Disconnect
09:36 Internal Democratic Politics and Candidate Selection
29:39 Trump's Dominance and Negotiation Style
33:51 Reflecting on Washington DC and Political Dynamics
34:49 The Republican Senate's Stance on Trump
36:16 Trump's Authoritarian Tactics and Internal Conflicts
38:01 Democratic Strategies and Challenges
40:21 The Need for Democratic Leadership and Proactive Messaging
45:24 Economic and Cultural Impacts of Trump's Policies
49:32 Bridging the Political Divide and Community Engagement
53:54 The Role of Social Media in Political Discourse
58:08 Conclusion and Future Directions
Host Stan Christensen has spent his career working as a professional negotiator in a variety of arenas. He has also taught a popular course on negotiation at Stanford University for over twenty years.
#Negotiation #ReedGalen #StanChristensen
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Michael Stoppelman: Managing at a Hyper-Growth Startup
In this episode, we delve into the professional journey of Michael Stoppelman, who transitioned from Google to Yelp and then to angel investing. Learn about his experiences starting at Google pre-IPO, growing Yelp's engineering team from 6 to 500, and managing complex engineering and product management dynamics. Michael shares his insights on negotiation in hiring, team management, and balancing constraints in startups. He gives valuable advice for entrepreneurs and engineers on building teams, handling conflicts, and navigating career transitions.
00:00 Introduction to Michael Stoppelman
01:24 Early Days at Google
07:29 Transition to Yelp
10:00 Building and Managing Engineering Teams
14:08 Handling Conflicts and Negotiations
21:56 Compensation and Titles
28:16 Angel Investing Insights
33:15 Advice for Aspiring Engineers
35:17 Conclusion
Host Stan Christensen has spent his career working as a professional negotiator in a variety of arenas. He has also taught a popular course on negotiation at Stanford University for over twenty years.
#Negotiation #Stan Christensen
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Andrea Kendall-Taylor: How Putin Has Weaponized Risk
In this episode, we delve into Russia's strategies in weaponizing risk to negotiate with the West over Ukraine. Featuring Andrea Kendall-Taylor, Senior Fellow at the Center for New American Security and a former CIA intelligence officer, the discussion covers the historical context of Russia's aggressive tactics from post-Soviet Union conflicts to recent invasions. We analyze the West's responses, the current state of the Ukraine war, and strategies to bring Putin to the negotiation table. Additionally, we explore the concerning rise of authoritarianism globally and within the United States, highlighting parallels with democratic backsliding. Andrea's insights from her recent book, 'The Origins of Elected Strongmen,' sheds light on how these trends threaten global democracy. Tune in for an in-depth understanding of these complex geopolitical dynamics.
Check out Andrea's Book: https://amzn.to/3VB6EPR
00:00Â Introduction
01:34Â Historical Context: Post-Soviet Russia
05:08Â Russia's Aggression: From Georgia to Crimea
10:48Â The 2022 Invasion: Missteps and Responses
17:43Â Global Implications: The Axis of Upheaval
27:18Â Negotiation Strategies and Authoritarianism
37:28Â Personalism in Politics: U.S. and Beyond
51:25Â Conclusion: Reflections and Future Outlook
Negotiation is the art of persuasion and influence. All of us do it every day, yet there aren’t obvious ways to learn to do it effectively. Stan Christensen has spent his career working as a professional negotiator in a variety of arenas. He has also taught a popular course on negotiation at Stanford University for over twenty years. On this podcast, he interviews the experts, people who have accumulated negotiation stories worth telling.
Listening to this podcast will give you an edge, and the confidence you need to be prepared for even the most challenging negotiations.