Think you know ADHD? Think again.In this solo episode, I’m breaking down 10 surprising truths about ADHD that most people (even professionals!) get wrong. From misunderstood symptoms to powerful treatment outcomes, we’re going deep—but keeping it real, relatable, and research-backed.You’ll learn:Why ADHD is one of the most treatable mental health conditionsThe truth about calling ADHD a “superpower”How support systems make all the differenceWhat messed-up sleep has to do with your symptoms Why rejection hits SO hard (and what to do about it)Why “just get organized” is the worst advice everAnd yes, the A-list celebrities who have ADHD tooWhether you’re diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or ADHD-curious, this episode is packed with the insight, validation, and clarity you’ve been craving.Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTokCozy Earth
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310 ADHD & Friendships, Part 2: The ADHD Friendship Mistakes No One Talks About
Making and keeping friends as an adult with ADHD can be really hard. We tend to move fast—bonding quickly, oversharing early, and sometimes getting burned. In this episode, I’m sharing two powerful (and practical!) skills that can help you build friendships that feel safer, steadier, and more fulfilling: going slow and listening better.If you’ve ever felt like friendship is either all in or all out, this episode is your gentle reminder that connection doesn’t have to be chaotic. You can take your time. You can build trust. You can listen—and be heard.💡 What We Cover:Why people with ADHD often “speedrun” friendshipsA mindset shift to help you slow down and stay groundedA gut check to use before oversharingSimple tools to help you stay present while listeningHow going slow can actually deepen your relationshipsWatch this episode on YouTubeWant help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTokAG 1 by Athletic Greens
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309 ADHD & Friendship, Part 1: Red Flags, Green Flags, and How to Make Real Connections
Friendship as an adult is hard—and when you have ADHD, it can feel almost impossible. The impulsivity, the overthinking, the struggle to set boundaries or trust your gut... it’s a lot. But you can build strong, supportive friendships—and it starts with knowing what to look for (and what to avoid).In Part 1 of this two-part series, we’re breaking down:Why friendships can be uniquely challenging for ADHDersHow to recognize red flags before you waste time on the wrong peopleWhat green flags to look for in a healthy, balanced friendshipHow to make new friends as an adult (without it feeling totally overwhelming)Why it’s important to go slow and avoid the overshare/overinvest spiralYou’ll walk away with a better understanding of what makes relationships feel safe and energizing—and how to stop settling for less than you deserve.💛 Don’t miss Part 2 next week, where we’ll dive into how to actually GO OUT AND FIND FRIENDS!Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok
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308 Raising Kids While Being a Hot (ADHD) Mess
If you’re parenting with ADHD, you already know—it’s a lot. The meltdowns (sometimes yours), the forgotten school forms, the overstimulation, the guilt spiral after snapping at your kid… and then the vow to do better next time.In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to be a good enough parent, even when ADHD makes it hard. You’ll learn the 5 essential building blocks every ADHD parent needs (hint: perfection is not one of them), and how to model one of the most powerful relationship skills there is: repair.Because here’s the thing: ADHD brains mess up sometimes. We say the wrong thing, lose our cool, or zone out when our kid really needs us. That doesn’t make you a bad parent. What matters most is what you do next—and this episode will show you how to turn those moments into meaningful connection.We’ll also talk about:The heritability of ADHD (and what that means for your family)Why understanding your own ADHD is key to raising resilient kidsHow to ditch the guilt and embrace accountabilityWhat “good enough” parenting actually looks likeThe 5 R’s that help ADHD parents build trust, connection, and confidenceYou don’t need to be perfect—you just need to show up, own your mistakes, and keep trying. And guess what? That’s exactly what your kid needs to see.Want more support on your parenting journey? Join the FOCUSED coaching membership—doors are open! 👉 Grab my free guide: 10 Things I Wish My Doctor Told Me When I Was Diagnosed with ADHD 👉 Come say hi on Instagram: @i.have.adhd.podcastWatch this episode on YouTubeWant help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTokAG 1 by Athletic Greens
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307 SOS: What to Do When Life (or You) Get in the Way of Getting Sh*t Done
Following through is hard enough when everything goes right—but what about when life happens? When motivation was there, the plan was solid, and then… BAM. A curveball knocks you off track. If you have ADHD, you know how hard it is to re-engage after a disruption. So how do you recover without spiraling into guilt and frustration?In this episode, I’m sharing practical strategies for getting back on track when life throws you off course—plus, what to do when you are the reason you didn’t follow through. We’ll also dig into fascinating research on why working out is literally harder for ADHDers (yep, science backs us up!) and answer a listener’s question about emotional regulation. And don’t miss it—I’m also giving you an amazing resource that will make follow-through so much easier.🎧 Press play now and let’s figure out how to make follow-through work for your ADHD brain, not against it!Watch this episode on YouTubeWant help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTokAG 1 by Athletic Greens
The I Have ADHD Podcast is a clear, concise, and FUN podcast for adults with ADHD. Listen to learn about how ADHD impacts every area of your life from the boardroom to the bedroom...and how you can begin to overcome your symptoms by accepting who you are, flaws and all. Host Kristen Carder is a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of of people with ADHD worldwide. Kristen's extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. ****OBVIOUSLY the content in this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for medical advice. Kristen Carder is not a medical professional.
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