The Positive Habits Podcast

In this emotional and deeply honest episode of The Positive Habits Podcast, Kat talks with good friend Holly Meyers to talk life after divorce, rebuilding yourself, pushing through fear, and the power of community.

After ending a 15-year relationship and navigating the reality of starting over at nearly 40, Holly shares how stepping outside her comfort zone completely transformed her life -from joining Women Who PLNGE to sharing her story publicly online.

Together, Kat and Holly explore:

Why vulnerability feels so uncomfortable
The fear of starting again after a long-term relationship
How community and connection can pull us through dark times
Why routines and “anchors” matter during difficult seasons
The pressure society puts on relationships and milestones
Learning to rediscover yourself after heartbreak
The healing power of cold water, shared challenge, and human connection
Why growth only happens outside your comfort zone

This episode is a reminder that life can change in an instant.

If you’re feeling stuck, lonely, overwhelmed, or afraid to make a change, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

Sometimes the smallest step outside your comfort zone can completely change your life.

ABOUT THE GUEST

Holly Meyers, Instagram: @agirlstartingover

ABOUT THE HOST

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed.

The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship, and career.

She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself.
She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/katthorne 
https://www.instagram.com/the_morning_gamechanger

Follow Kat Thorne:
Instagram & LinkedIn: @katthorne

In this emotional and deeply honest episode of The Positive Habits Podcast, Kat talks with good friend Holly Meyers to talk life after divorce, rebuilding yourself, pushing through fear, and the power of community.

After ending a 15-year relationship and navigating the reality of starting over at nearly 40, Holly shares how stepping outside her comfort zone completely transformed her life -from joining Women Who PLNGE to sharing her story publicly online.

Together, Kat and Holly explore:

Why vulnerability feels so uncomfortable
The fear of starting again after a long-term relationship
How community and connection can pull us through dark times
Why routines and “anchors” matter during difficult seasons
The pressure society puts on relationships and milestones
Learning to rediscover yourself after heartbreak
The healing power of cold water, shared challenge, and human connection
Why growth only happens outside your comfort zone

This episode is a reminder that life can change in an instant.

If you’re feeling stuck, lonely, overwhelmed, or afraid to make a change, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

Sometimes the smallest step outside your comfort zone can completely change your life.

ABOUT THE GUEST

Holly Meyers, Instagram: @agirlstartingover

ABOUT THE HOST

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed.

The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship, and career.

She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself.
She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/katthorne 
https://www.instagram.com/the_morning_gamechanger

Follow Kat Thorne:
Instagram & LinkedIn: @katthorne

In this honest and reflective solo episode, Kat Thorne talks about fear, doubt, anxiety and the invisible beliefs that stop so many of us from building the life we truly want.
From relationships and career changes to confidence, identity and starting something new - Kat shares why fear often feels so convincing, and why pushing through it can completely change your life.

This episode explores:

Why many of us are living according to other people’s expectations
The hidden limiting beliefs that shape our decisions
The power of asking: “What’s the best that could happen?”
Why growth often begins in uncomfortable moments
How courage is built through small actions
What the Women Who PLNGE community has taught Kat about bravery, connection and transformation
Why life is made up of chapters and you’re allowed to change

If you’ve been holding yourself back, questioning your next step, or feeling trapped between fear and possibility - this episode is your reminder that you only get one life.

And maybe the better question isn’t:
“What’s the worst that could happen?”

Maybe it’s:
“What’s the best that could happen?”

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If you’re going through a difficult time right now, this episode is for you.

In this honest and grounding solo episode, Kat shares a powerful realisation from her own recent challenges: when life feels overwhelming, it’s about coming back to the basics.

We often search for big solutions to complex problems. But the truth? The foundations of being human - sleep, movement, fuel, and mindset - are what help us navigate the hardest moments.

This episode is your reminder that you don’t need to fix everything today. You just need to take control of what you can control.

When life feels out of control, focus on what you can control: your habits, energy, and time
We often turn to short-term coping mechanisms (like alcohol), but they can make things harder long-term
The “101 of being human” is what keeps you grounded during tough times
You don’t need to solve the whole problem - just stabilise yourself first
Small, consistent habits create structure, clarity, and resilience

ABOUT THE HOST

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed.

The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship, and career.

She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself.
She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/katthorne 
https://www.instagram.com/the_morning_gamechanger

In this episode of The Positive Habits Podcast, Kat sits down with James, the face behind Portsmouth Food Guide, to talk about far more than great places to eat.

James shares his passion for Portsmouth, why protecting local high streets and pub culture matters so deeply to him, and how food, hospitality and community are all connected.

The conversation explores the challenges facing independent businesses, the power of customer experience, and why helping people discover local gems can have a much bigger ripple effect than we realise.
Kat and James also talk honestly about what it takes to juggle purpose-driven work, family life, a growing platform, and personal wellbeing. From consistency and time management to learning how to say no, this episode is a real and refreshing conversation about building something meaningful while trying to stay grounded.

If you care about community, connection, local business, and the habits that help us manage modern life, you’ll love this one.

Highlights

Why James believes Portsmouth deserves a brighter future
The changing habits on high streets and hospitality
Why pubs still matter as places of connection and community
How local food culture can help revitalise a city
The role of consistency, passion and boundaries when building something from scratch
Why enjoying the journey matters just as much as achieving the goal

Local businesses need more than customers - they need champions.

James’ mission goes beyond food reviews. He wants to keep Portsmouth’s high streets alive, support independent businesses, and encourage people to explore more of what their city has to offer.

Experience matters just as much as the product.
Whether it’s a coffee shop, a pub or a restaurant, people remember how they were made to feel. Great service, warmth and personality create loyalty.

Community spaces still matter deeply.
Pubs, cafés and local venues can be places of real connection, especially in a time when loneliness and isolation are rising.

ABOUT THE GUEST

James is a Portsmouth-based community worker who works for a local charity called Enable Ability and also Founder of the Portsmouth FoodGuide, a combination of food, tourism and social impact; championing independent businesses whilst creating inclusive opportunities for young people with additional needs through a project called the Portsmouth Teenage Project. With more than 18,000 engaged followers on multiple social media platforms and ambitious plans for electric vehicle food tours tied in with the city’s newly-developed cruise industry, he connects local produce from Hampshire and the Isle of Wight to a global market of visitors. James is driven by a belief that Portsmouth has the ability to thrive when everyone has a seat at a table talking about the city’s rich history and when the city acts as the epicentre for delivering local produce in historic settings.
www.portsmouthfoodguide.co.uk

ABOUT THE HOST

Kat is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/katthorne