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An Avoidant Needs THIS To Resolve Conflict and Reconnect Immediately!
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In this insightful episode, we explore the unique needs of dismissive avoidants during and after conflict, revealing key strategies to foster reconnection and harmony.
Discover how to transform conflicts from divisive moments into opportunities for deeper understanding and closeness, using tools like direct communication, positive reinforcement, and acts of service.
Learn the art of "re-bonding" to restore trust and safety after disputes, and uncover why harmonious communication is essential for avoidants to open up.
Whether you’re navigating these dynamics yourself or in a relationship with an avoidant, this episode offers practical advice to create stronger, more secure connections.
Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Shut Down During Conflict
00:00:18 – Key Needs of Avoidants After a Conflict
00:01:12 – The Role of Harmonious Communication
00:02:45 – Positive vs. Negative Conflict Dynamics
00:05:08 – Direct and Literal Communication Needs
00:06:00 – Rebonding: Acknowledgment and Appreciation
00:07:30 – Using Positive Reinforcement in Relationships
00:08:50 – Building Connection Through Lighthearted Activities
00:10:22 – Acts of Service as a Sign of Peace
00:11:45 – Validation and Encouraging Effort
00:13:50 – Healthy Communication Tools for Conflict Resolution
00:15:00 – Final Thoughts: Creating Deeper Connections
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11:55
THESE Are the Top Avoidant Triggers That Make Them Run Away
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In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike DiZio explore the inner world of dismissive avoidants, uncovering the core wounds and triggers that cause them to retreat in relationships. From the need for personal space and independence to fears of vulnerability and conflict, the duo breaks down common challenges dismissive avoidants face and provides actionable advice for fostering healthier connections.
Through personal experiences and professional insights, this episode sheds light on how dismissive avoidants perceive intimacy, handle communication, and navigate criticism. Whether you’re a dismissive avoidant yourself or looking to better understand a loved one, this episode offers invaluable tools for empathy, understanding, and building secure, lasting relationships.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:17 - Things That Cause Dismissive Avoidants to Run
04:33 - When Your Need For Space Was Disrespected
13:29 - Excessive Need for Communication / Clinginess
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32:49 - Setting Boundaries and Self-Regulation
22:08 - Assumptions on How They're Feeling
30:00 - Feeling Controlled By a Partner
41:15 - Too Much Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Closeness
51:37 - Conflict and Criticism
1:03:54 - Conclusion
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1:12:32
THESE 4 Triggers Cause Fearful Avoidants to Run from Relationships
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Why do fearful avoidants sometimes pull away from relationships when things seem to be going well?
In this episode, we uncover the four core triggers that cause fearful avoidants to run and explore the psychology behind their reactions. Whether you're navigating these dynamics yourself or supporting a loved one, you'll learn actionable strategies to address these challenges, communicate effectively, and create healthier connections.
Join us to understand how to rewire painful patterns, balance emotional safety with vulnerability, and transform relationships through mindful tools rooted in neuroplasticity. Listen, reflect, and take a step closer to secure attachment and fulfilling connections.
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17:43
5 Things That Cause A Fearful Avoidant to Suddenly LEAVE A Relationship
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Are you struggling to understand why a fearful avoidant partner may suddenly leave? Discover the key triggers and learn how to communicate effectively to build a stronger, lasting bond.
In today’s video, Thais Gibson dives into the complexities of the fearful avoidant attachment style and explores the five triggers that cause them to leave relationships abruptly. She explains the internal struggles these individuals face, such as miscommunication, fear of abandonment, and difficulty setting boundaries, while offering actionable strategies for healing. Watch now to gain invaluable insights into the mind of a fearful avoidant and learn how to foster healthier, more secure relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 - Intro
02:18 - 1. Abandonment: activating and deactivating
15:43 - Hurting and Offending Others
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19:00 - 2. Being criticized
23:25 - Making Amends
29:32 - 3. Feeling Incapable, Dumb, or Foolish
32:49 - You Must Communicate Your Needs to Receive Them
42:34 - 4. If They Feel Like They’re Being Attacked
47:15 - 5. Being Taken Advantage of
57:28 - Conclusion
This episode is packed with tools to empower you in rebuilding your sense of self and creating a healthier approach to love and connection. Don’t miss the free trial mentioned in the episode for additional resources to support your healing journey!
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1:06:08
The Relationship History of the Dismissive Avoidant...
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Have you ever wondered why dismissive avoidants often struggle with long-term commitment? Learn about their relationship history, common challenges, and how to foster deeper, more meaningful connections.
In today’s episode, Thais Gibson delves into the relationship history of the dismissive avoidant attachment style, highlighting patterns shaped by childhood experiences and emotional neglect. Learn why dismissive avoidants struggle with vulnerability and long-term commitment and discover actionable steps to bridge these gaps for healthier connections. Listen now to uncover insights into attachment theory, emotional healing, and building fulfilling relationships.
Timestamps
00:00:00 – Exploring Relationship Patterns
00:01:10 – How Childhood Shapes Relationship Expectations
00:02:03 – Emotional Neglect and Repression of Feelings
00:03:37 – Understanding Emotions as Feedback
00:05:10 – Impact of Independence vs. Interdependence
00:07:17 – Misconceptions About Compromise in Relationships
00:09:03 – Patterns of Short-Term Relationships
00:10:27 – The Six Stages of Relationship Development
00:12:15 – The 6-Month and 2-Year Breakup Patterns
00:14:30 – Importance of Vulnerability and Communication
00:16:30 – Vetting Partners and Personal Growth
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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!