38. Sibling Rivalry: How to Stop Being the Referee and Start Building Peace at Home
If you're exhausted from breaking up fights, tired of being the family referee, and wondering if your boys will ever actually like each other - this episode is your lifeline. You're not failing as a mom. Your kids aren't broken. This is normal, and it gets better.
In todays episode you'll walk away knowing exactly how to respond with wisdom instead of weariness, create more connection in your home, and stop parenting from panic so you can start parenting from peace. Most importantly, you'll have hope that this phase won't last forever.
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37. How to Stop Fighting With Your Teenage Son: 3 Steps to End Daily Arguments
If you're tired of the guilt, confusion, and that aching feeling that something is breaking between you and your son after every argument, this episode is for you. Those explosive moments aren't really about the chores or curfew - there's so much more happening underneath.
Today we're breaking the exhausting cycle of daily arguments with your teenage son. I'm sharing my simple 3-step framework that works even when your teen isn't calm - because we can't count on them to stay levelheaded, but we can control ourselves.
Learn why anger is just the tip of the iceberg and discover what's really driving those heated exchanges. I'll teach you exactly how to pause the panic, recognize your choices, and respond instead of react - keeping your connection intact while still being the parent.
Key Takeaways:
Why anger is a secondary emotion and what's really underneath
The 3-step framework to break the argument cycle
How to stay in your thinking brain when tensions rise
Why connection and control rarely coexist
Resources Mentioned:
Join our Private Facebook Group HERE - Real Moms, Real Talk, Powerful Tools
Download the FREE Bridge Method HERE - Recover & Reconnect After Arguments
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Instagram: @heidiallsopcoaching
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36. Help! My Teenage Son Doesn't Talk to Me Anymore: A Mom's Guide to Reconnection
If you're lying awake wondering where you went wrong or feeling like you're failing because your son barely speaks to you anymore, this episode will be your lifeline. You're not alone, you're not failing, and most importantly - this phase doesn't last forever when you know how to navigate it.
This episode introduces the three-step roadmap to move from feeling isolated and rejected by your teenage son to building a strong, connected relationship that lasts into adulthood. We'll break down why that cuddly boy suddenly went quiet, how to stop taking his distance personally, and practical ways to reconnect without trying to "fix" him.
This Episode Help You:
Stop the spiral of self-blame when your son pulls away
Get specific strategies for one-word-answer conversations
Learn to be his guide instead of trying to be his hero
Create simple daily connection points that actually work with moody teenagers
Download Your FREE "8 Tips to Connect" HERE
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35. What My 79-Year-Old Dad Learned from His Mom That Every Mother Raising Boys Needs to Know
As a mom raising boys, you're constantly wondering if you're doing enough, doing it right, or if your influence will last. In today's heartwarming Father's Day tribute, Heidi sits down with her dad, Larry Rigby, to explore the timeless wisdom passed down through generations.
This conversation spans three generations of parenting wisdom, from the Greatest Generation to today's digital challenges. You'll gain perspective on the long game of parenting and understand that your steady presence and example are shaping the future for generations to come.
If You Are:
Overwhelmed by parenting advice? Learn to focus on the few things that make lasting impact
Struggling with a difficult teenager? Discover the 80/20 rule that will change your perspective
Worried about raising good men? Understand the key attributes that define real manhood
Need practical strategies? Get the "Eugene technique," "start over" method, and other tested approaches
Feeling discouraged? Receive encouragement that you're already halfway there just by being a mother
Connect With Us
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Private Facebook Group: Raising Boys Building Men
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Grab This FREE Download: 8 Tips to Connect Today
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34. When Your Son Struggles Socially: Two Powerful Shifts Every Mom Needs to Know
If you've ever watched your son sit home alone on Friday nights, wondered why he doesn't have friends, or felt that pit in your stomach when he seems lonely and disconnected - this episode is for YOU. You're not alone in this worry.
Learn how to create genuine safety at home (not just asking 50 questions)
Discover why your own social story might be driving your panic
Get practical tools to support your son without trying to "fix" everything
Transform from anxious rescuer to confident anchor
Ready to dive deeper? Join our private Facebook community HERE where moms just like you share real struggles and celebrate wins together.
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About Raising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys
Raising Boys, Building Men: The Go-To Parenting Podcast for Moms Raising Sons from Middle School to Manhood
Are you a mom caught in the whirlwind of raising sons? Do you find yourself:
• Wishing the arguments would just... stop?
• Frustrated by the constant battle with screens, schoolwork, and indifference?
• Longing for those simpler days when you could just enjoy your boy?
• Searching for a parenting approach that actually works?
Look no further! ”Raising Boys, Building Men” is your lifeline in ups and downs of boy-mom life.
In each episode, you’ll discover:
• Practical, same-day solutions to your most pressing parenting challenges
• Confidence boosters to become the mom your teenager needs
• Strategies to nurture good men while nurturing yourself and your relationships
My mission? To help you raise a resilient, happy son, take care of yourself, and have a blast doing it!
Ready to trade worry for fun? Conflict for connection? Short-term fixes for lifelong bonds? You’re in the right place, my friend.
Hey there! I’m Heidi – mom to 5 incredible sons, wife, social worker, and certified life coach. With three decades of boy-raising under my belt, I’ve tried every parenting trick in the book. But it wasn’t until I discovered that effective parenting doesn’t have to be complicated or miserable that everything changed. Now, I’m here to share those game-changing insights with you.
If you’re ready to:
• Become the mom you’ve always dreamed of being
• Raise sons who’ll thrive in this world
• Actually enjoy this wild ride of parenting
Then this podcast is your new secret weapon.
So, pop in those earbuds, and let’s transform your parenting journey together. It’s time to raise boys, build men, and have an absolute blast along the way!
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