School Behaviour Secrets with Simon Currigan and Emma Shackleton

What happens when two teachers respond completely differently to the same pupil's behaviour - and both believe they're doing the right thing?

One teacher follows the school's behaviour policy and issues a warning. Another offers additional support because they believe the pupil is struggling. So who's right? And how can school leaders create consistency without taking away teachers' professional judgement?

In this week's episode of School Behaviour Secrets, you'll learn why consistency doesn't necessarily mean treating every child identically, and how schools can distinguish between purposeful adaptations and staff simply doing their own thing.

You'll discover:

The important differences between fairness, sameness and consistency.

When different responses to the same behaviour can both be appropriate.

What school leaders should standardise across classrooms, while allowing for individual pupil needs.

A practical staff meeting activity to help teachers develop a shared approach to behaviour.

Whether you're a headteacher, SENCO or classroom teacher, this episode will help you think more carefully about what consistent behaviour management should actually look like in your school.

Useful Links

Download our free SEND Handbook to help you support pupils with SEND.

Download other free behaviour resources for use in school from our free resources library.

Have you ever taught a pupil who seems perfectly capable of completing their work, but spends half the lesson finding ways to avoid getting started?

It's easy to interpret this behaviour as laziness, defiance or a lack of motivation. But sometimes, avoidance is a way of escaping discomfort or stress caused by underlying needs. And if we misunderstand what's driving that behaviour, our attempts to motivate the pupil might actually make things worse.

In this episode, you'll discover:

Why avoiding a difficult task can bring temporary relief, making avoidance more likely in the future.

How to distinguish between manageable discomfort, which helps children grow, and overwhelming distress.

How the PAIN Framework can help you identify hidden stressors behind apparently unmotivated behaviour.

Practical ways to reduce unnecessary barriers, build confidence and help reluctant pupils engage without lowering expectations.

You'll also hear why not all avoidance is emotionally driven, and why understanding the difference matters when choosing how to respond.

Useful resource: Download our free SEND Behaviour Handbook to help identify the underlying needs contributing to behaviour in your classroom.

Useful Links

Download our free SEND Handbook to help you support pupils with SEND.

After a difficult behaviour incident, how do you rebuild your relationship with a pupil who's sworn at you, become aggressive or stormed out of your classroom? And whose responsibility is it to make the first move?

In this episode of School Behaviour Secrets, you'll discover why repairing adult-pupil relationships isn't just important for the child - it's also in your own professional interests. You'll learn why pupils who've experienced trauma, or who have certain SEND needs, may find it particularly difficult to reconnect after a confrontation, and why waiting for them to initiate that repair can make things worse.

You'll also discover four practical ways to rebuild your relationship with a pupil, including what to say the next time you see them, how to reconnect without a formal restorative conversation and how to maintain clear boundaries without damaging trust.

Plus: Why a pupil ignoring your attempts to reconnect doesn't necessarily mean relationship repair has failed.

Important links:

Useful Links

Download our free SEND Handbook to help you support pupils with SEND.

What do the latest behaviour, SEND and attendance statistics actually tell us about what’s happening in schools?
In this episode, you’ll explore five recent figures that raise important questions about suspensions, SEND support, attendance and the pressures facing school staff. You’ll hear why headline data can hide what’s really happening underneath, why pupils on SEN Support may need closer attention and why behaviour data is most useful when it leads us to better questions rather than quick conclusions.
You’ll learn:
• Why primary suspension rates are moving differently to the national picture
 • What the suspension figures for pupils on SEN Support and with EHCPs might be telling us
 • Why attendance data for autistic pupils needs careful interpretation
 • How wider pressures on staff and families affect behaviour in school
 • Three questions school leaders can use to look beneath their own headline data
Important links:
Get our FREE SEND Behaviour Handbook: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/send-handbook
Download other FREE behaviour resources for use in school: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/resources.php

Does your class work well independently, but the moment you put them into groups, the noise goes up, chairs start scraping and everything begins to unravel?
Group work places more demands on pupils than we sometimes realise - from moving around the room and managing resources to remembering instructions, negotiating with other pupils and switching attention.
In this episode of School Behaviour Secrets, you’ll learn five simple ways to make those transitions smoother and help pupils settle more quickly into group work.
You’ll discover:
• How to pretutor expectations before pupils start moving
 • Why separating the transition from the task can make group work easier to manage
 • How to make vague instructions like “settle down” more concrete
 • Why practising routines when the stakes are low saves time later
 • The often-forgotten routine that helps you bring the whole class back together
If group activities regularly turn a settled lesson into chaos, this episode will help you build routines that keep pupils focused on the learning.
Important links:
Get your copy of the Classroom Management Scoresheet: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/classroom-management-scoresheet
Download other FREE behaviour resources for use in school: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/resources