The We Do Not Care Club Podcast with Melani Sanders

It’s the WDNC Podcast episode All About Vaginas…every which way our coochies work (and don’t work) during perimenopause and beyond. Melani shares some hilarious va-jay-jay nicknames from WDNC Sisters and checks out her own she-shed. She holds a WDNC Chapter Meeting with the “Fix This Coochie!” Chapter, where members Stacey, Rebecca and Oneka offer up some vulva-related real talk about sex and desire. Then Erica Chidi, host of YouTube’s Bodied with Erica, joins Melani in a no-holds-barred conversation about all things vagina, from periods to pregnancy to fibroids to sex with others and yourself, all the way into old age. Journalist Tamsen Fadal and Melani visit pelvic floor expert Isa Herrera in her NYC studio, where Isa explains everything you’ve ever wanted to know about pelvic floor muscles, kegels, and mind-blowing orgasms. This is the coochie conversation you’ve been waiting for!
Featuring:
WDNC Members
Stacey
mom, grandma, school counselor, nonprofit leader
Rebecca
entrepreneur, wife, mom, connector
IG @rebeccapcurrie FB Rebecca Patchen Currie
Oneka
pediatrician, wife, mom, breastfeeding advocate
IG @myharmonyhealth
Special Guest
Erica Chidi
Founder, BODIED; YouTube: @bodiedwitherica
Adventure
Isa Herrera, Pelvic Floor Therapist
Isa’s site: https://www.isaherrera.com
FREE Vagina Type™ Quiz + Pelvic Health Guides:
https://www.isaherrera.com/resources
V-Tone Vaginal Weights: https://rootganic.com/weights
Rootganic Women's Wellness Supplements: https://rootganic.com
Isa’s book: Ending Female Pain, A Woman's Manual, 2nd Edition: https://link.amazon/B07fMo4Tm
Tamsen Fadal
Tamsen’s site: tamsenfadal.com
Host of The Tamsen Show Podcast
NYT Bestselling Author, How To Menopause

For so many of us midlife feels like a time of endings and loss: losing focus, losing brain power, losing elasticity in our skin and our mindsets. But this season also presents an incredible opportunity to start over, whether you want to or not. Our special guest Ricki Lake has had to start over many times in her career and her personal life - including her house burning down - but somehow has managed to find the silver lining. Our WDNC Chapter Meeting features Jersey girls Tori, Tyff and Kimmi, who have found joy and humor in starting new relationships and new creative endeavors - while their hormones are shifting along with their priorities. These conversations encourage you to ask yourself: when and how would you like to create a fresh start in your own life?
Featuring:
WDNC Members
Tori
Author, Nookietown; Founder, Pithmonger Leather Goods
IG @pithmonger_leather_goods, vcchickering.com
Tyff
Founder, Adcolor; Substack: "Finding My Nerve"
substack.com/@diverstar
Kimmi
Author; Founder, Build Up Boys
IG @build_up_boys
Special Guest
Ricki Lake
Actress, Director/Producer, Documentarian
IG @rickilake
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Do you look in the mirror and wonder, “Who is that??” It’s the new old you, and she’s here to stay. On this episode, Melani explores self-image in midlife by sharing her own self-care routines; talking with members of the WDNC’s “The ‘New’ Old You” Chapter about looking good while feeling not-so-fine; and sitting down with Jones Road Beauty founder Bobbi Brown at her hotel, The George Montclair. Then Bobbi gives Melani a walk-through (and some can’t-miss makeup tips) at her flagship store. New is good, old is fine - it’s all about you.
Featuring:
WDNC Members
Shilondra
Corporate partnerships director, wife, mom & grandma
Kelly
Mom of 2, registered nurse
Sunshine
Momager, life adventurer
Special Guest
Bobbi Brown IG: @justbobbidotcom
Jones Road Beauty
Buy Bobbi’s book, Still Bobbi: A Masterclass in Resilience and Reinvention
Adventures
Bobbi’s Hotel: The George Montclair
Bobbi’s flagship Jones Road Beauty Store: 111 Grove St, Montclair, NJ 07042
Do you have any midlife questions?
Email us at podcast@wedonotcareclub.com

We’ve all heard it: hot flashes…sleepless nights…joint pain…brain fog. It’s just a normal part of aging…maybe you should take a bath? Oh, hell no! None of the above are normal; if you’re in midlife, chances are it’s menopause. In this premiere episode, Melani shares her own story; faces off with the “expert” who told her everything was just fine; joins members of the WDNC’s “This Ain’t ‘Normal’” Chapter to talk bodies, booty, and relationships; and has menopause expert Dr. Jila Senemar help her make sense of issues from diagnosis to treatment to speaking up for ourselves. The new “normal” starts now.
Featuring:
WDNC Members
Stacey
Rebecca IG @the_service_belle, theservicebelle.com
Oneka IG @myharmonyhealth
Special Guest
Dr. Jila Senemar IG @drjilasenemar

Welcome to The We Do Not Care Club Podcast, hosted by New York Times bestselling author and founder Melani Sanders. What started as one woman’s hilarious declaration that she’d had enough has become a global movement centered around sisterhood, laughter, and giving women permission to JUST BE.
From perimenopause and menopause to marriage, motherhood, sex, relationships, changing bodies, mental health, and the everyday chaos of midlife, nothing is off-limits.
You don’t have to look like us, live like us, or think like us to belong beside us. The club was the invitation. The sisterhood was the answer.
Welcome to the We Do Not Care Club. Follow now and join the sisterhood! Join us for the first episode on Wednesday October 21. New episodes every Wednesday.