Today's episode features Julia Rocque as a special guest, discussing the Pyramid of Influence. The Arbinger Institute, known for "Leadership and Self-Deception," authored this concept. The pyramid consists of six levels:Get out of the box or improve your way of being.Build relationships with others who have influence.Build the relationship with your teenager.Listen and learn.Teach and communicate.Correct when things go wrong.The three principles of this pyramid are:Spend more time at the foundation.The solution to one level is always at least one level lower.Effectiveness at every level depends on the lowest level, your way of being.Julia emphasizes the importance of starting with self-improvement (level 1) and shares her personal journey in discovering this foundational change. She advises parents to focus on their well-being, self-care, and personal growth.We discuss the significance of building relationships with people who influence your teen, including their friends' families. They recommend inviting your teen's friends over to your house and being supportive of their connections. By creating a welcoming environment, you can better understand your teenager's world and establish trust.Julia's Instagram Julia's FacebookCLICK HERE for you FREE Guide Connection Before Correction 100 Ideas GuideTake the free Parent Trap quiz If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen. By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions. This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection. This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.TAKE THE QUIZ

3 types of Parent Traps you may be falling into:The Controlling Parent Trap: Ever found yourself trying to control every aspect of your teen's life, from their thoughts to their actions? It comes from a place of love, but it's a trap. We'll show you how to break free.The Doormat Parent Trap: On the flip side, some of us become total doormats, letting our teens walk all over us because we want them to like us. It's time to regain your boundaries and self-respect.The Lost and Confused Parent Trap: Have you ever felt completely lost and confused as a parent, unsure of what to do or how to do it right? We've got the answers to help you find your way.Now, you might be wondering, "Why should I take this quiz? I already know which trap I'm in." Well, here's the deal – this quiz doesn't just pinpoint your primary trap; it breaks it all down and tells you where to start making changes. It's your roadmap to becoming a better parent.Plus, when you take the Parent Trap quiz, you get an invitation to a free Masterclass with me, where I'll dive deeper into these traps and help you get unstuck. All because I care about you and your journey as a parent.So, don't wait! Take the quiz and discover your parenting strengths and areas for improvement. Let's get you on the path to becoming the best parent you can be.And remember, if this podcast has been helpful for you, it can be for your friends too. Share it with other parents who could use some support on this amazing, challenging journey of parenting. You've got one job today – go take the Parent Trap quiz. I'll see you soon!Take the free Parent Trap quizTAKE THE QUIZTake the free Parent Trap quiz If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen. By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions. This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection. This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.TAKE THE QUIZ

Powerful PointsTeens need support from a community of adults. You can have an impact on more teens than simply your own teen.If you want to have an impact on a teens life, simply be the best adult you can be. We both remember the impact that other adults had on our lives.Let us know if you would like us to do a Mini-Series. Shoot us a DM @drive_your_thoughts_coaching @benpughcoachingTake the free Parent Trap quiz If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen. By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions. This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection. This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.TAKE THE QUIZ

You'll Have to Listen To This EpisodeThis was an awesome interview with Carrie Marshall. We had an amazing conversation. As always, I don't really do show notes for my interviews because they're not scripted. We just talk and go. Powerful PointsYour story is worth sharing. You have a story to share. Anyone can write a book. Understand what you want to tell the world and why.Want To Connect with Carrie? Links Below!Driveyourthoughts.comInstagram PodcastTake the free Parent Trap quiz If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen. By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions. This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection. This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.TAKE THE QUIZ

You'll Have to Listen To This EpisodeThis was an awesome interview with Natalie Dianne. We had an amazing conversation. Powerful PointsIt's not your job to change your spouse, your teen, or anyone else. You can only change yourself. The only person who can know if divorce is right for you is YOU!Tap in to your internal wisdom, do the inner work, and make the best decision for you and your family. Take the free Parent Trap quiz If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen. By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions. This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection. This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.TAKE THE QUIZ