IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

• The Parenting Update You Didn’t Know You Needed — Until Now

  "Send Ben a text"Your teen’s attitude, your frustration, and the same old fights aren’t the real problem — your programming is. In this episode, Ben and Cortni break down why parents get stuck repeating the same patterns even when they’re trying to “do better,” and how a surprising back injury (and some AI wisdom) revealed the deeper truth about how to change.You’ll learn why your old emotional patterns keep pulling you back, how to spot the warning signs of a parenting “flare-up,” and the one update that instantly improves how you show up with your teen. This episode is equal parts hilarious (yes, including topless back-pain photos sent to AI), relatable, and transformational.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why your old programming keeps sabotaging your relationshipHow to spot the flare-up signs before things blow upThe surprising lesson Ben learned from an SI-joint meltdownHow to stop reinforcing parenting habits that don’t workWhat your teen’s “porcupine mode” is really inviting you to doA simple way to start reprogramming your parenting todayWhether your teen is crabby, distant, or prickly — or you just want more peace at home — this episode will help you shift your patterns and strengthen your connection.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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• The Gratitude Shift That Can Save Your Thanksgiving

  "Send Ben a text"The Gratitude Shift That Can Save Your ThanksgivingThanksgiving is amazing… until it’s not. Family drama. Stress. That one uncle. The comments you wish you didn’t hear. But what if ONE mindset shift could help you enjoy the day instead of surviving it?In this quick Thanksgiving special, Ben and Cortni talk about the real secret to gratitude — not the cheesy, forced kind, but the kind that changes your emotions fast.Inside, you’ll learn:Why gratitude is a choice (not a feeling)How to get unstuck when family triggers youThe mindset mistake most parents make at holidaysA simple way to shift your focus in under 10 secondsHow to stop absorbing everyone else’s energyWhat to do when Grandma says something wildWhether you’re listening on Thanksgiving Day or just trying not to lose your cool this weekend, this episode is your reset button.You’re not your thoughts. You’re the thinker of your thoughts — and that’s where your power is.Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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• How to Be the Parent Your Teen Actually Learns From

  "Send Ben a text"Identity is your hidden superpower as a parent.In this episode, Ben shares a powerful story from the football field about getting out of the victim mindset, redefining his identity, and modeling the exact behavior he wanted to see in his players — and how the same principle can transform your parenting.You'll learn why your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent… just one who leads with connection, clarity, and consistency.If you’ve been feeling stuck or unsure how to help your teen, this episode will help you redefine who YOU want to be so you can show up as the parent your teen actually learns from.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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• How to Motivate Your Teen Without Pushing Them

  "Send Ben a text"Ever tried to push your teen to change… only to have them push right back? You’re not alone.In this episode, Ben breaks down why trying to force your teen to change almost always backfires—and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to stop pushing, start leading, and model the kind of growth you actually want to see in your teen.Ben shares real-life examples (including a story about a stubborn horse) to help you see how pressure creates resistance, and how leadership creates inspiration.If your teen doesn’t want coaching—or doesn’t think they need to change—this episode will show you how you can be the catalyst for transformation in your home.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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• When Your Teen “Stops Caring”… Why That’s Actually a Win

  "Send Ben a text"When your teen suddenly “stops caring” — about school, sports, church, or even family — it can feel like everything’s falling apart. Maybe they used to try hard, follow rules, and keep you happy. Now, they’re unmotivated, moody, or even defiant.Most parents panic at this point. But what if your teen’s “not caring” isn’t a breakdown… it’s actually a breakthrough?In this episode, Ben and Cortni unpack why your teen pulling back might mean they’re finally learning to think for themselves — and why that’s a good thing. You’ll hear real stories from coaching teens and parents who went through this same shift, plus practical ways to stay calm, confident, and connected while your teen figures out who they are.We’ll talk about:Why it’s healthy for your teen to stop pretending to care just to please youWhat “programming” really means — and how to update yours as a parentThe difference between control and connectionHow to give your teen autonomy without losing influenceWhat to do when your teen questions their faith, motivation, or directionAnd why your relationship will always matter more than being “right”When your teen stops caring, it’s not the end of your influence — it’s the start of theirs. Learn how to support that growth with love, confidence, and perspective.🎧 Tune in now and discover why letting go might be the best way to help your teen grow up.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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