In this episode, I sit down with Brenda from Omagh, County Tyrone in Ireland for a deeply honest and moving conversation about her personal journey through perimenopause — and how it nearly cost her her identity, her confidence, and her career.
Brenda shares how years of experience in banking and mental health and wellbeing coaching couldn't prepare her for the silent unraveling that came with perimenopause. From brain fog so severe she couldn't remember how to order a checkbook, to panic attacks, self-doubt, and a devastating mistake at work, Brenda opens up about hitting rock bottom — and how she found her way back.
We explore the powerful role of coaching, community, and self-reflection in navigating menopause, and how Brenda turned her lived experience into a mission to support other women who feel lost. We also talk about the importance of consistency in building community spaces, the value of grassroots connection, and why it's never too late to reinvent yourself.
And yes — there's a classic brain fog moment mid-episode that will make you smile, laugh, and nod along in recognition.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
01:19 Brenda's Background and What Lights Her Up
04:03 A Journey Into Coaching — From Freddie Mercury to Postnatal Support
08:11 When Perimenopause Hit — and Nobody Had Answers
10:05 Brain Fog, Self-Doubt, and Fearing the Worst
12:08 Going on HRT, Antidepressants, and Leaving the Bank
13:17 Founding It's A Duck — Helping Women Recognise Their Symptoms
13:37 Joining the Menopause Coach Diploma
15:10 The Aha Moment — Turning the Lens on Herself
19:54 Working With Practice Clients and Seeing Real Transformation
23:01 What's Next — One-to-Ones, Group Coaching, and Corporate Talks
25:17 Who Brenda Works With — The Woman Who Feels Lost
28:34 Advice for Anyone Considering the Menopause Coach Diploma
30:55 The Power of Looking in the Mirror — and Truly Seeing Yourself
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Meet your host Lauren Chiren
Lauren Chiren is a leading voice in menopause awareness and workplace inclusion, dedicated to ensuring no one navigates menopause alone.
As the Founder and CEO of Women of a Certain Stage, she works with organisations worldwide to create menopause-savvy and supportive environments.
With a background in psychology, sports therapy, and nutrition, and an extensive suite of coaching certifications, Lauren is on a mission to train 20,000 Menopause Coaches and Champions, equipping them with the tools to support individuals and workplaces through this transformative life stage.
Join her as she breaks the silence, challenges the stigma, and empowers people to thrive at midlife and beyond.
About Women of a Certain Stage
We are committed to transforming the menopause experience — both for individuals and the organisations that support them.
Our mission is to empower people through education, advocacy, and expert-led training, ensuring menopause is no longer a barrier to confidence, health, or career success.
Join us and our global network of professionals dedicated to breaking the stigma, improving workplace culture, and ensuring no one navigates menopause alone.
Find out more here: https://www.womenofacertainstage.com/
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