The Giant Red Flags You Are Being Used & He Just Wants You For Sex | Stephen Speaks (Fan Fav)
There are dozens of reasons why dating nowadays is so hard for men and women. While lack of communication seems to be a significant factor, being able to read the people you date is also part of the equation.
Is he asking you out just because he’s interested in sex?
He booked reservations at a high-end restaurant you’ve been wanting to go to, does this mean he’s serious about you?
You’re having a great time together, what will he think if you decide to sleep with him on the first date?
Being able to spot red flags is great, but it helps very little without you being brave enough to address it, ask questions and assess his behavior also.
Stephan Speaks, one of YouTube’s favorite relationship experts has a straightforward approach and way of helping women (and men) understand and see the challenges everyone is facing. Dating is complicated and there’s a lot of unhelpful advice being shared with both sexes.
This episode is going to help you spot the red flags if he’s only in it for the sex, learn how to better interpret his actions, determine if he’s toxic or just not the guy for you, and figure out how to solve the dating problems keeping you single.
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"Be Un-Fc*king-Deniable" You're 44 Minutes Away From Becoming Dangerously Confident!
In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities.
Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations.
April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike.
Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity.
If you’re ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you.
SHOWNOTES
Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma
How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists
Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause
Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships
Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor
Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss
Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it
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The Real Reason You Snap Under Pressure And How to Train Your Brain to Stay in Control | Louisa Nicola PT 2 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Today, we're embracing the power of brain health to make you confident, clear and focused with the neurophysiologist and human performance/billionaire brain coach, Dr. Louisa Nicola. She is a powerhouse in revealing ways to better care for your brain and boost your performance.
Get ready for a deep dive into brain health, its crucial role in our journey to becoming our own heroes, and the importance it holds in maintaining our 'badassery'. Don't miss this two-part episode where we talk about
*Why stress management is the key to your brain health and aging
*How to safeguard your brain after 30
*Why exercise is one of the most powerful tools for optimizing your brain
Ladies, we have to start having more conversations about brain health. Women are more likely to develop diseases of the brain such as dementia and Alzheimer’s. Though there may be no cure, there are things we can do starting now to start lowering those risks and start caring for our older, more badass selves.
Original air date: 7-13-2023
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The Real Reason You Snap Under Pressure And How to Train Your Brain to Stay in Control | Louisa Nicola PT 1 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Today, we're embracing the power of brain health to make you confident, clear and focused with the neurophysiologist and human performance/billionaire brain coach, Dr. Louisa Nicola. She is a powerhouse in revealing ways to better care for your brain and boost your performance.
Get ready for a deep dive into brain health, its crucial role in our journey to becoming our own heroes, and the importance it holds in maintaining our 'badassery'. Don't miss this two-part episode where we talk about
*Why stress management is the key to your brain health and aging
*How to safeguard your brain after 30
*Why exercise is one of the most powerful tools for optimizing your brain
Ladies, we have to start having more conversations about brain health. Women are more likely to develop diseases of the brain such as dementia and Alzheimer’s. Though there may be no cure, there are things we can do starting now to start lowering those risks and start caring for our older, more badass selves.
Original air date: 7-12-2023
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Website: https://www.neuroathletics.com.au/
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Tired of Feeling Manipulated? How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work - Without Guilt! | Live w/ Terri Cole (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Hey ladies! Welcome to Women of Impact, I’m your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today I have an important question for you. Are you ready to seriously tackle the issue of setting boundaries? Are you ready to tap into your inner power and finally take control? If that's a yes, then you're in the right place because today, we're diving deep into this topic with none other than the Boundary Boss herself, my dear friend, Terri Cole.
For those of you who've listened to my previous episodes with Terri, you know that she's like the wise big sister handing out reality checks left and right. Our shared mission is to empower you to set boundaries without feeling guilty and to stop accepting less than you deserve from anyone.
In today's special Q&A episode which we recorded live on YouTube, we're addressing those feelings of manipulation, dismissiveness, and belittlement. If these feelings resonate with you, it's a clear sign that you need to establish some solid boundaries.
I always find these live Q&A sessions with experts like Terri incredibly energizing. They fuel my commitment to show up for you and help you build your confidence, one episode at a time.
To further support you on this journey, I've created a FREE course that will help you build the kind of confidence that says, 'These are my boundaries, respect them or step aside!' You can access this course at 4stepworkshop.com. Let's build your confidence together!
And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421
Now, let's dive into the episode.
Original air date: 11-2-2023
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Ladies! If you’re done playing small, done people-pleasing, and done waiting for permission - you’ve found the right place! Setting boundaries, commanding respect & building unshakable confidence are highly contagious side effects of subscribing and becoming a part of this community!!
Hey hey, I’m Lisa Bilyeu and I went from spending a decade losing myself as the “Good Greek housewife" to co-founder of the billion-dollar company Quest Nutrition, best-selling author of Radical Confidence, and president of Impact Theory Studios. All because I finally said…. “I want more!”
Every week, I sit down with the world’s boldest minds- neuroscientists, FBI profilers, psychologists, dating coaches, and relationship therapists (to name a few!) to bring you the tools, truths, and tactics to stop being “nice”… and start being un-fck-withable in every area of your life. No fluff. No filters. Just the raw, tactical confidence-building skills you actually need.
So my homie, smash that follow button to become part of the movement and connect with millions of women who have decided they want more! Join the convo and let's start building our confidence, one badass guest at a time!
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