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Be a Happier Parent

Alex Trippier
Be a Happier Parent
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  • Ep 7: Psychological Growth in Parenthood with Lisa Marchiano
    "Be a Happier Parent" is now on Substack! alextrippier.substack.com In this conversation, Alexindadland and Lisa Marchiano explore the intricate relationship between Jungian psychology and motherhood. They discuss the importance of meaning in life, the process of individuation, and the psychological development that occurs throughout one's life. The conversation delves into the challenges of parenting, the significance of fairy tales and archetypes, and the emotional complexities that arise in the journey of motherhood. They also touch on themes of loss, sacrifice, and the shadow aspects of parenting, emphasizing the need for resilience and the role of transcendence in the parenting experience. Takeaways Jung's ideas provide a framework for understanding psychological development. Individuation is a lifelong process of becoming who we are meant to be. Meaning is essential for psychological well-being. Motherhood can bring both fulfillment and loss. Fairy tales reflect universal psychological truths. The shadow represents aspects of ourselves we deny or reject. Parenting can project our own unresolved issues onto our children. Rage and anger are natural emotions that need to be expressed. Dads play a crucial role in teaching resilience to children. Transcendence can be found in the experience of parenting. Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Transition to Adulthood 02:48 New Chapter 03:52 Understanding Jung and Individuation 08:44 The Role of Meaning in Midlife 12:16 The Importance of Myth and Fairy Tales 19:07 The Descent into the Well: A Feminine Journey 26:23 Sacrifice and Loss in Parenthood 34:49 The Neurobiological Basis of Caregiving 35:38 Understanding the Shadow Self 37:28 Projection of Shadow onto Children 38:14 The Complexity of Anger in Parenting 40:49 The Role of Fathers in Child Development 43:25 Navigating Gender Expectations in Parenting 46:14 The Importance of Balance in Parenting Styles 49:40 Individuation and the Role of Challenges 53:22 Transcendence Through Parenting Keywords Jung, individuation, motherhood, parenting, meaning, shadow, fairy tales, emotional expression, archetypes, psychological development   Sound Bites "The unlived life of the parent." "Kids need to learn resilience." "Don't let that become your god."  
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  • Ep 6: The Impossible Age of Masculinity with Ruth Whippman
    Summary In this conversation, Ruth and Alexindadland explore the complexities of parenting boys in a modern context, discussing the language used around gender, the emotional development of boys, and the societal pressures that shape parenting decisions. They delve into the challenges of raising boys amidst discussions of toxic masculinity, the impact of screen time, and the ethical dilemmas parents face. The conversation highlights the need for understanding and compassion in parenting, as well as the importance of addressing emotional health in boys. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity in Children 04:37 The Language of Gender in Parenting 06:23 The Emotional Landscape of Boys 09:25 The Impact of Parenting Styles 12:02 Coping with Tantrums and Meltdowns 15:15 The Ethical Dilemmas of Modern Parenting 17:57 The Pressure of Parenting Expectations 20:59 Anger and Disassociation in Parenting 27:09 Emotional Presence in Parenting 28:31 Navigating Screen Time and Guilt 31:17 The Complexity of Screen Time for Boys 34:38 Finding Balance with Video Games 37:40 Conversations About Consent and Pornography 44:08 Navigating Modern Relationships and Consent 49:22 Perpetual Arguments in Parenting Takeaways The language we use around boys and girls can shape their identities. Parenting boys comes with unique societal pressures and expectations. Boys often receive less emotional support than girls, impacting their development. Ethical dilemmas in parenting arise from societal expectations and personal beliefs. Anger is often the only acceptable emotion for boys, complicating their emotional development. Modern motherhood is fraught with guilt and high expectations. Screen time can displace real-world social interactions for boys. Boys are navigating a complex landscape of consent and masculinity today. Communication and understanding are key in relationships, both with children and partners. Parenting is a journey filled with uncertainty and requires adaptability. Keywords parenting, boys, emotional development, gender dynamics, motherhood, screen time, consent, masculinity, ethical dilemmas, societal pressures  
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  • Ep 5: Redefining Fatherhood with Alex Lloyd Hunter
    Full video of this episode is available on Youtube @Alexindadland You can follow the podcast on Instagram and TikTok @beahappierparent Join The Dad Shift Campaign: dadshift.org.uk Summary In this conversation, Alex Lloyd Hunter discusses the evolving role of fathers in modern society, emphasizing the need for better paternity leave policies in the UK. He highlights the challenges faced by new fathers, the impact of societal expectations on parenting, and the importance of emotional connection in fatherhood. The discussion also touches on the political landscape surrounding parental leave reform and personal experiences of fatherhood, illustrating the need for systemic change to support fathers and promote gender equality in parenting.   Takeaways Paternity leave in the UK is inadequate, with only two weeks offered. Many fathers feel unprepared to return to work after such a short leave. Cultural expectations often define men primarily by their jobs, not their roles as fathers. The current paternity leave system contributes to gender inequality in the workplace. Longer and better-paid paternity leave leads to more involved fathers. Societal pressures discourage men from taking paternity leave. The emotional bond between fathers and children is crucial for family dynamics. Political advocacy is necessary to reform paternity leave policies. Personal stories highlight the diverse experiences of fatherhood. A supportive environment is essential for fathers to engage fully in parenting. Chapters 00:00 The Dad Shift: A Call for Change 07:38 Cultural Barriers to Paternity Leave 13:26 The Flaws in the Current Paternity Leave System 19:33 Public Support and Future Goals 29:05 Launching Support Programs for Parental Leave 33:37 Experiences of the Dadshift Team 41:11 Creating Equal Parenting Opportunities 47:10 Navigating Domestic Conflicts: The Messy Debate Keywords fatherhood, paternity leave, gender equality, parenting, family dynamics, societal expectations, emotional connection, political advocacy, parental leave reform, modern masculinity  
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  • Ep 4: The Metamorphosis of Parenthood with Lucy Jones
    Follow @beahappierparent on instagram and tiktok. @alexindadland on youtube. summary In this conversation, Lucy and Alex explore the multifaceted experience of motherhood, touching on emotional transitions, societal expectations, and the challenges of parenting. They discuss maternal ambivalence, the realities of childbirth, and the often unspoken struggles surrounding breastfeeding and mental health. The dialogue also highlights the evolving role of fathers and the need for a more inclusive understanding of parenting dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they aim to shed light on the complexities of becoming a parent in today's society. Chapters 00:00The Emotional Landscape of Childbirth 04:35Understanding Maternal Ambivalence 06:53The Impact of Societal Expectations 09:44The Reality of Birth Experiences 12:36Navigating Breastfeeding Challenges 15:31The Role of Fathers in Early Parenthood 18:21The Complexity of 'Natural' Motherhood 21:01The Psychological Effects of Maternal Experiences 24:16The Need for Better Support Systems 26:59Revisiting Trauma and Healing 29:46The Importance of Open Conversations 34:52Navigating Parenthood: Insights for Expecting Fathers 37:59The Role of Fathers in Caregiving 41:44Challenging Traditional Family Structures 46:09Redefining Motherhood: Breaking Free from Norms 52:50Personal Struggles in Parenting: A Shared Experience 56:53Balancing Science and Art in Education   Takeaways Motherhood is an emotional journey filled with unexpected challenges. Maternal ambivalence encompasses a spectrum of feelings, both positive and negative. Cultural expectations often create unrealistic standards for mothers. The experience of childbirth can be brutal and is often not adequately prepared for. Breastfeeding challenges are common, yet not openly discussed enough. Mental health plays a crucial role in the parenting experience. Fathers are increasingly recognized as essential caregivers in the parenting dynamic. Societal norms around parenting need to evolve to support both mothers and fathers. Understanding the science behind parenting can help alleviate some pressures. It's important to redefine what success looks like in parenting. Sound Bites "I had no idea what was coming." "It's a societal failing." "It's a conspiracy of silence."  
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  • Ep 3: Understanding our Partners with Dr Emma Svanberg
    I'm joined by Clinical Psychologist Dr Emma Svanberg dremmasvanberg.com and Parent Infant Psychotherapist Benedicta Bywater benedictabywater.com  Summary This conversation delves into the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of shared values between partners, the navigation of differing parenting styles, and the emotional dynamics that arise in family life. The speakers discuss the significance of understanding individual backgrounds and experiences, referred to as 'maps', and how these influence parenting decisions. They explore the role of societal expectations, gender dynamics, and the impact of trauma on parenting. The discussion highlights the necessity of open communication, emotional awareness, and the acceptance of discord as a natural part of family life. Takeaways Sharing parenting values is crucial for effective co-parenting. Understanding individual parenting maps can help navigate differences. The 'troll' analogy helps externalize conflicts in parenting. Mundane aspects of parenting often lead to unspoken tensions. Gender roles significantly impact parenting dynamics. Emotional awareness is key for both parents. Defensiveness can hinder effective communication in parenting. Societal expectations create additional pressures on parents. Understanding trauma can help parents navigate their children's experiences. Discord in family life is normal and can be healthy. Chapters 00:00 Parenting Disruptors: Challenging Norms 03:28 The Importance of Shared Parenting Values 06:09 Navigating Parenting Differences 08:28 Understanding Individual Maps in Parenting 11:09 The Role of Gender in Parenting Dynamics 14:01 Externalizing Conflicts: The Troll Analogy 16:52 Emotional Underpinnings of Parenting Conflicts 19:02 The Need for Deeper Conversations 21:39 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting 28:38 Understanding Emotional Toolkit in Parenting 32:57 Navigating Gender Expectations in Parenting 37:40 The Illusion of Balance in Parenting 43:17 Awareness of Trauma in Parenting 53:49 Finding Meaning in Parenting 56:18 Exploring Parenting for Humans 57:10 Supporting the Podcast and Community Engagement Keywords parenting, shared values, co-parenting, emotional awareness, gender roles, trauma, family dynamics, communication, parenting strategies, societal expectations  
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Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting is going to be like and what it actually is? Why when we have children do we think it’s going to bring us closer together but often it really pushes us apart? What are the jobs of mums and dads now? What’s a dad when we’re no longer just providers? What’s a mum when they often are? What am I supposed to teach or model for my children when I’ve no idea what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have loads of conviction about these things and I have absolutely none? In this podcast I interview top authors, therapists, coaches and try and find out how the trials of parenting can help us become better humans.
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