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Be a Happier Parent

Alex Trippier
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  • Ep 4: The Metamorphosis of Parenthood with Lucy Jones
    Follow @beahappierparent on instagram and tiktok. @alexindadland on youtube. summary In this conversation, Lucy and Alex explore the multifaceted experience of motherhood, touching on emotional transitions, societal expectations, and the challenges of parenting. They discuss maternal ambivalence, the realities of childbirth, and the often unspoken struggles surrounding breastfeeding and mental health. The dialogue also highlights the evolving role of fathers and the need for a more inclusive understanding of parenting dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they aim to shed light on the complexities of becoming a parent in today's society. Chapters 00:00The Emotional Landscape of Childbirth 04:35Understanding Maternal Ambivalence 06:53The Impact of Societal Expectations 09:44The Reality of Birth Experiences 12:36Navigating Breastfeeding Challenges 15:31The Role of Fathers in Early Parenthood 18:21The Complexity of 'Natural' Motherhood 21:01The Psychological Effects of Maternal Experiences 24:16The Need for Better Support Systems 26:59Revisiting Trauma and Healing 29:46The Importance of Open Conversations 34:52Navigating Parenthood: Insights for Expecting Fathers 37:59The Role of Fathers in Caregiving 41:44Challenging Traditional Family Structures 46:09Redefining Motherhood: Breaking Free from Norms 52:50Personal Struggles in Parenting: A Shared Experience 56:53Balancing Science and Art in Education   Takeaways Motherhood is an emotional journey filled with unexpected challenges. Maternal ambivalence encompasses a spectrum of feelings, both positive and negative. Cultural expectations often create unrealistic standards for mothers. The experience of childbirth can be brutal and is often not adequately prepared for. Breastfeeding challenges are common, yet not openly discussed enough. Mental health plays a crucial role in the parenting experience. Fathers are increasingly recognized as essential caregivers in the parenting dynamic. Societal norms around parenting need to evolve to support both mothers and fathers. Understanding the science behind parenting can help alleviate some pressures. It's important to redefine what success looks like in parenting. Sound Bites "I had no idea what was coming." "It's a societal failing." "It's a conspiracy of silence."  
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  • Ep 3: Understanding our Partners with Dr Emma Svanberg
    I'm joined by Clinical Psychologist Dr Emma Svanberg dremmasvanberg.com and Parent Infant Psychotherapist Benedicta Bywater benedictabywater.com  Summary This conversation delves into the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of shared values between partners, the navigation of differing parenting styles, and the emotional dynamics that arise in family life. The speakers discuss the significance of understanding individual backgrounds and experiences, referred to as 'maps', and how these influence parenting decisions. They explore the role of societal expectations, gender dynamics, and the impact of trauma on parenting. The discussion highlights the necessity of open communication, emotional awareness, and the acceptance of discord as a natural part of family life. Takeaways Sharing parenting values is crucial for effective co-parenting. Understanding individual parenting maps can help navigate differences. The 'troll' analogy helps externalize conflicts in parenting. Mundane aspects of parenting often lead to unspoken tensions. Gender roles significantly impact parenting dynamics. Emotional awareness is key for both parents. Defensiveness can hinder effective communication in parenting. Societal expectations create additional pressures on parents. Understanding trauma can help parents navigate their children's experiences. Discord in family life is normal and can be healthy. Chapters 00:00 Parenting Disruptors: Challenging Norms 03:28 The Importance of Shared Parenting Values 06:09 Navigating Parenting Differences 08:28 Understanding Individual Maps in Parenting 11:09 The Role of Gender in Parenting Dynamics 14:01 Externalizing Conflicts: The Troll Analogy 16:52 Emotional Underpinnings of Parenting Conflicts 19:02 The Need for Deeper Conversations 21:39 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting 28:38 Understanding Emotional Toolkit in Parenting 32:57 Navigating Gender Expectations in Parenting 37:40 The Illusion of Balance in Parenting 43:17 Awareness of Trauma in Parenting 53:49 Finding Meaning in Parenting 56:18 Exploring Parenting for Humans 57:10 Supporting the Podcast and Community Engagement Keywords parenting, shared values, co-parenting, emotional awareness, gender roles, trauma, family dynamics, communication, parenting strategies, societal expectations  
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  • Ep 2: The Myths of Motherhood with Nancy Reddy
    Summary In this conversation, Alex Trippier and Nancy Reddy explore the evolving ideals of parenting, particularly focusing on attachment theory and its critiques. Reddy discusses the dubious science behind attachment theory, the historical context of motherhood, and the pressures placed on mothers today. They delve into the roles of fathers, the economic implications of motherhood, and the importance of community in parenting. Reddy emphasizes the need for a more nuanced understanding of caregiving, highlighting the significance of relationships and the ability to repair mistakes in parenting. The conversation also touches on the challenges of navigating parenting advice in the digital age and the lessons learned from raising multiple children. Takeaways Parenting ideals are constantly evolving. Attachment theory has dubious scientific backing. Motherhood is often viewed as a selfless act. Expectations of mothers have increased significantly over time. Fathers play a crucial role in caregiving. Economic factors influence the perception of motherhood. Community support is essential for effective parenting. Repairing mistakes in parenting is more important than perfection. Navigating parenting advice can be overwhelming in the digital age. Each child is unique and requires individualized attention.  Chapters 00:00 The Good Mother Myth: An Introduction 04:10 Cultural Origins of Motherhood Ideals 06:55 The Science Behind Attachment Theory 09:05 Bowlby's Research and Its Implications 11:47 The Role of Fathers in Caregiving 14:53 Economic Pressures on Motherhood 17:43 Feminism and Evolving Expectations 19:04 Winnicott's Influence on Motherhood 21:53 The Importance of Imperfection in Parenting 33:09 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting 33:39 Navigating the Noise of Parenting Advice 35:07 The Role of Community in Parenting 35:59 Understanding Individuality in Children 39:02 The Importance of Self-Reflection for Parents 41:27 Building Supportive Communities 43:47 The Value of Diverse Relationships 45:01 Researching Parenting: What We Should Ask 45:13 Lessons from the Second Child Experience 48:38 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Parenting 53:55 Exploring Themes of Motherhood Keywords parenting, attachment theory, motherhood, fatherhood, economic implications, community care, parenting advice, modern motherhood, parenting expectations, parenting studies  
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  • Ep 1: Finding Fairness with Eve Rodsky
    Summary In this conversation, Eve Rodsky discusses her book 'Fair Play' and the movement it has sparked, focusing on the division of labor in households and the impact on relationships and parenting. She shares personal anecdotes and insights on the challenges women face in balancing career and family, the importance of accountability in relationships, and the need for men to engage in household management. The discussion also touches on societal expectations, the decline in birth rates, and the concept of 'unicorn space'—the idea that individuals should pursue their passions outside of their roles as parents and partners. Takeaways Fair Play is a movement that changes the cultural conversation about household labor. Women often feel alone in their struggles to balance career and family. The decline in birth rates may be linked to awareness of household labor burdens. Men benefit from understanding the invisible labor women perform. Accountability in relationships fosters trust and reduces resentment. CPE (Conception, Planning, Execution) is crucial for effective household management. Fair Play encourages ownership of tasks to improve efficiency. Navigating societal expectations can help reduce guilt and shame. Unicorn space allows individuals to pursue personal interests and passions. Economic power dynamics are important in dual-income households. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fair Play and Gender Division of Labor 05:31 The Impact of Fair Play on Birth Rates 09:29 Understanding the Fair Play System for Men 10:06 ask men to do 13:36 Invisible Labor and the CPE Framework 17:24 The Importance of Accountability and Trust 22:16 Unicorn Space: Finding Personal Fulfillment 26:51 Mental Health and Emotional Well-being 39:35 The Burden of Expectations in Parenting 42:43 Understanding Guilt and Shame in Parenting 46:18 The Economic Value of Staying in the Workforce 49:46 Navigating Childcare and Work Decisions 51:17 The Importance of Sharing Personal Stories with Kids 55:05 Introduction to Fair Play Life Keywords Fair Play, parenting, gender equality, household management, relationships, accountability, birth rates, work-life balance, societal expectations, unicorn space  
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Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting is going to be like and what it actually is? Why when we have children do we think it’s going to bring us closer together but often it really pushes us apart? What are the jobs of mums and dads now? What’s a dad when we’re no longer just providers? What’s a mum when they often are? What am I supposed to teach or model for my children when I’ve no idea what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have loads of conviction about these things and I have absolutely none? In this podcast I interview top authors, therapists, coaches and try and find out how the trials of parenting can help us become better humans.
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