The Latch Revolution

Season One may be over… but we’re only just getting started.

We’re taking a short summer break before returning in August with a special four-part mini-series unlike anything we’ve released before.

Together we’ll work through feeding case studies, taking you behind the scenes of our clinical reasoning. Rather than simply discussing symptoms or diagnoses, we’ll explore how experienced lactation consultants begin to ask better questions.

What are the clues?

What is the baby’s body telling us?

Why is this feeding challenge happening?

And perhaps most importantly… what are we missing when we focus on treating the symptom instead of understanding the cause?

If you’ve enjoyed the conversations throughout Season One, this series will take you one step further inside the decision-making process we use every day with the families we support.

If you’re a midwife, lactation consultant, speech pathologist, health visitor, doctor, paediatric clinician or anyone supporting breastfeeding families, we think you’re going to enjoy this one.

We’ll see you in August.

Until then…

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Years ago, Katie stopped attending births for friends. The boundaries felt clear. But one simple conversation sparked an uncomfortable realisation: Why was she still providing lactation support for them?

In this honest and surprisingly personal episode, Katie and Joh explore the complicated space where friendship, professional expertise and breastfeeding support collide.

Episode Summary

As lactation consultants, midwives and birth professionals, many of us become the unofficial breastfeeding hotline for friends, family members and colleagues.

But what happens when those relationships become blurred?

In this episode, Katie and Joh unpack the emotional realities of supporting friends through breastfeeding challenges. They discuss the pressure of feeling responsible for outcomes, the difficulty of setting boundaries, and the unexpected emotions that can arise when friends seek support elsewhere or make different feeding decisions than we hoped.

Together they explore how their thinking has changed over the years, why some professional boundaries are easier to recognise than others, and how friendship can quietly become entangled with clinical responsibility.

Along the way they share personal stories, professional reflections and a few moments of humour that many birth professionals will recognise immediately.

In This Episode We Cover

Why supporting friends often feels very different from supporting clients

The emotional responsibility many professionals carry

Why friendship and clinical care can become blurred

The challenge of giving unsolicited advice

Managing expectations when support is offered informally

What happens when friends seek support from someone else

Why helping someone and being responsible for their outcome are not the same thing

Feelings of disappointment, guilt and professional self-doubt

The importance of clear boundaries in protecting relationships

How both Katie and Joh have changed their approach over time

Why there is no single right answer when it comes to supporting friends



Want More From Katie and Joh?

Check out our courses for professionals:

Decoding the Suck: Gentle support for babies with sucking difficulties

Breastfeeding & Lactation: The Fundamentals

Pregnant or a new mum? Find more support from Katie:

The Feeding Couch – Breastfeeding SOS – for new mums

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We’d Love To Hear From You

Have you ever supported a friend, colleague or family member through breastfeeding?

How did you navigate the boundaries?

Did it strengthen the relationship or make things more complicated?

Send us a message on Instagram or email us hello@thelatchrevolution.com We’d genuinely love to hear your story.



Medical Disclaimer

Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for personalised medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should always seek the guidance of their own healthcare provider, midwife, or lactation consultant with any questions they may have regarding their own situation or that of their clients. Katie James and Johanna Sargeant do not accept responsibility for any decisions made based on this content.

Keywords

lactation consultant boundaries, breastfeeding support, supporting friends, IBCLC, midwife boundaries, doula boundaries, professional boundaries in healthcare, friendship and professional relationships, breastfeeding professionals, lactation consultant burnout, postpartum support, reflective practice, client relationships, birth professional boundaries, breastfeeding counselling, maternal health professionals

When breastfeeding is causing significant pain or nipple trauma, should a mother keep feeding through it?

Or are there times when a temporary change in the feeding plan may actually protect breastfeeding long term?

In this episode, Katie and Joh explore one of the most challenging clinical decisions faced by lactation consultants, midwives and breastfeeding supporters.

Episode Summary

Breastfeeding professionals are often taught how to support mothers to continue breastfeeding. Sometimes harder is knowing when continuing exactly as things are may be contributing to ongoing pain, tissue damage, stress, and feeding difficulties.

In this episode, Katie and Joh discuss how they approach severe nipple pain and trauma in clinical practice. They explore the factors that influence decision-making, including wound healing, maternal wellbeing, feeding goals, pumping, nipple shields, and the importance of individualised care.

The conversation highlights the reality that many breastfeeding situations sit firmly in the grey zone. Rather than rigid rules, the discussion focuses on clinical reasoning, transparency, and working collaboratively with mothers to develop plans that feel achievable and supportive.

As always, this is an honest conversation between two experienced clinicians navigating the complexity of real-world breastfeeding support.

In This Episode We Cover

Why severe nipple trauma is rarely a simple clinical decision

When continuing to breastfeed may be helping or hindering healing

The role of maternal wellbeing in feeding decisions

How pumping may fit into a temporary feeding plan

When nipple shields might be useful

Supporting wound healing while protecting milk supply

Why breastfeeding support must remain individualised

Clinical reasoning versus rigid protocols

The importance of collaborative decision-making

Helping mothers feel seen, heard and supported

The emotional impact of ongoing feeding pain

Balancing short-term challenges with long-term breastfeeding goals

Want More From Katie and Joh?

Check out our courses for professionals:

Decoding the Suck: Gentle support for babies with sucking difficulties

Breastfeeding & Lactation: The Fundamentals

Pregnant or a new mum? Find more support from Katie:

The Feeding Couch® – Breastfeeding SOS – for new mums

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Johanna: @milkandmotherhood

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Medical Disclaimer

The content of this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for personalised medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should always seek the guidance of their own healthcare provider, midwife, or lactation consultant with any questions they may have regarding their own situation or that of their clients. Katie James and Johanna Sargeant do not accept responsibility for any decisions made based on this content.

Keywords

nipple trauma, nipple pain, breastfeeding pain, breastfeeding support, lactation consultant, IBCLC, breastfeeding complications, wound healing, pumping and breastfeeding, nipple shields, breastfeeding management, breastfeeding challenges, breastfeeding education, lactation support, midwife education, doula education, breastfeeding professional development, maternal wellbeing, clinical lactation skills, breastfeeding counselling

Bottle Preference vs “Nipple Confusion” | Flow, Breast Refusal & Paced Feeding

Last episode, we unpacked bottle refusal in breastfed babies.

This week, we’re tackling the other side of the feeding conversation:
what happens when babies begin preferring the bottle over the breast — or what many people still call “nipple confusion.”

Except… babies usually aren’t confused by nipples at all.

In this episode, lactation consultants Katie James and Johanna Sargeant explore what’s actually happening when babies begin refusing the breast after bottles are introduced — and why flow, sucking mechanics, oral function and feeding dynamics matter far more than most people realise.

We discuss:

• bottle preference vs “nipple confusion”
• flow preference in breastfed babies
• why some babies begin refusing the breast
• how milk flow changes sucking behaviour
• fast flow vs slow flow feeding dynamics
• paced bottle feeding that genuinely mimics breastfeeding
• how to bottle feed without sabotaging breastfeeding
• bottle feeding positions and latch mechanics
• non-nutritive sucking and letdowns
• oral function signs that often get missed
• late-onset low milk supply linked to feeding mechanics
• teat shape, bottle flow and feeding behaviour
• mixed feeding and combination feeding support
• breastfeeding politics and fear-based messaging
• how to support families without shame or black-and-white advice

This episode is for:
midwives, lactation consultants, IBCLCs, speech pathologists, maternal child health nurses, doulas, infant feeding professionals, and parents trying to navigate breastfeeding and bottles without panic, guilt or confusing advice.

One of the biggest themes in this episode is nuance.

Because bottles are not poison.
Teats are not poison.
And one bottle does not automatically ruin breastfeeding.

But feeding mechanics matter.

And the way we support families around bottle feeding matters too.

Mentioned in this episode:
• paced bottle feeding
• flow preference
• breast refusal
• oral function assessment
• bottle feeding mechanics
• late-onset low milk supply
• mixed feeding support
• responsive feeding approaches

Listen to the previous episode:
Why Babies Refuse Bottles - And What Gets Missed

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Courses & Education:

Katie James & Johanna Sargeant - Decoding the Suck training for professionals

The Latch Revolution - Exercises for parents to support their infants suck challenges

The Feeding Couch — breastfeeding education for parents:

Breastfeeding & Lactation: The Fundamentals — professional education for birth workers

Disclaimer:
This podcast is for education and information only and should not replace individual medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please seek support from your own healthcare provider, IBCLC, midwife or medical professional for individual concerns.

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Bottle refusal isn’t always behavioural.

And if you’ve tried every bottle on the market without success… there may be something else going on.

In this episode, Katie and Johanna, IBCLC's, unpack bottle and teat refusal in breastfed babies — looking at both the behavioural side as well as the physiological side that often gets missed.

They walk through the practical strategies many parents are already trying: changing positions, changing the caregiver, adjusting milk temperature, experimenting with teat flow and creating low-pressure experiences around bottles.

But they also explore why some babies still struggle despite all of that.

The conversation dives into oral function, tongue movement, high palates, gag reflexes, bottle teat design, and why some babies physically struggle to coordinate sucking on certain bottle shapes.

Katie and Johanna also discuss how stress and pressure around bottle feeding can quickly escalate into bottle aversion — and why play, curiosity and responsiveness matter far more than forcing feeds.

Importantly, we talk about the situations where bottles simply aren’t working before a return to work, many babies compensate by 'reverse cycle feeding' — breastfeeding much more frequently overnight.

This episode is packed with practical ideas, nuanced clinical discussion, and reassurance for both mums, new parents and professionals.

Why breastfed babies may suddenly refuse bottles

Behavioural strategies that genuinely help

Why teat shape matters more than marketing suggests

Bottle flow rates and matching milk flow

The role of milk taste

Why some babies become distressed around bottles

High palates, tongue tie and oral sensitivity

The connection between bottle refusal and sucking function

Why play and curiosity reduce bottle aversion

Open cups vs straw cups vs bottles

Reverse cycling and feeding when mums return to work

Why observation matters more than rigid rules

Mentioned In This Episode

Decoding the Suck — Professional Training

NEW Parent Sucking Support Packages



Susan Howard IBCLC - Reel with O Ball and bottle teat



The Feeding Couch® — Breastfeeding Support for Parents

Breastfeeding and Lactation: the fundamentals - Professional Training



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Medical Disclaimer

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Keywords

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