Who We Are & What We Need

What do stress spirals, people-pleasing, and your go-to meltdown mode have in common? They all make perfect sense — once you know your Enneagram type. In this lively conversation, Catherine Quiring and Jackie Contessa dive into the wild world of the Enneagram, showing how this ancient tool can help you make sense of your quirks, calm your inner chaos, and finally get out of your own way.Jackie spills on how the Enneagram cracked open her self-awareness, and then breaks down how things like anxiety, anger, and shame show up for different types (spoiler: no one’s off the hook). They get real about why people-pleasing is exhausting, how your family role might still be running the show, and how coaching can help untangle the mess.If you're ready to laugh, learn, and maybe cry a tiny bit (in a good way), this episode is your permission slip to grow with curiosity, not judgment — and to reconnect with who you were before all the “shoulds” showed up.Resources:Enneagram 101Connect with Jackie: Instagram - WebsiteConnect with Catherine: Website - Substack - YouTube⁠Hi, I’m Catherine. I’m grateful to share this time and space with you.I’m a counselor living on the Emerald Coast of Florida, on the unceded land of the Muscogee. I am a creative, mystic, and neurodiverse adventurer. I love writing, creating, and connecting.I love helping folx Befriend Your Inner Critic, Become Your Own Best Friend, and reclaim your untamed soul.Thank you for being here in this sacred space we get to co-create, as we come home to ourselves and enjoy the fruit of that self-belonging. I love hearing from you and walking alongside you on your journey.My free gift to you: ⁠3 steps to trust yourself⁠.With a full heart,Catherine

In this engaging conversation, Catherine Quiring and Joanne Kim explore the Enneagram, its relevance in therapy, and its application in understanding personal relationships and popular culture, particularly through the lens of Catherine’s favorite show Ted Lasso. They discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, the role of instincts in the Enneagram, and how these concepts can help individuals navigate their personal growth and relationships.Enneagram 101Connect with Joanne: Website - Instagram - FacebookConnect with Catherine: Website - Substack - YouTubeHi, I’m Catherine. I’m grateful to share this time and space with you.I’m a counselor living on the Emerald Coast of Florida, on the unceded land of the Muscogee. I am a creative, mystic, and neurodiverse adventurer. I love writing, creating, and connecting.I love helping folx Befriend Your Inner Critic, Become Your Own Best Friend, and reclaim your untamed soul.Thank you for being here in this sacred space we get to co-create, as we come home to ourselves and enjoy the fruit of that self-belonging. I love hearing from you and walking alongside you on your journey.My free gift to you: ⁠3 steps to trust yourself⁠.With a full heart,Catherine

In this special edition of "Who We Are and What We Need," Catherine Quiring delves into the profound impact of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy on her personal journey. Through heartfelt poetry and memoir excerpts, Catherine shares how IFS has been a catalyst for healing and self-discovery, offering a relational approach that transforms inner dialogue and fosters genuine connection with oneself. Join Catherine as she explores the nuances of this life-changing therapy and invites listeners to embark on their own path to self-awareness and healing. Tune in to discover the power of coming home to yourself.Befriend Yourself Program1:1 IFS CounselingComing Home: The Journey Back to MyselfI AM: Poems for Expansion and RenewalHi, I’m Catherine. I’m grateful to share this time and space with you.I’m a counselor living on the Emerald Coast of Florida, on the unceded land of the Muscogee. I am a creative, mystic, and neurodiverse adventurer. I love writing, creating, and connecting.I love helping folx Befriend Your Inner Critic, Become Your Own Best Friend, and reclaim your untamed soul.Thank you for being here in this sacred space we get to co-create, as we come home to ourselves and enjoy the fruit of that self-belonging. I love hearing from you and walking alongside you on your journey.My free gift to you: 3 steps to trust yourself.With a full heart,Catherine

In this conversation, Catherine Quiring speaks with Dorcas Chang-Tozun about her work in social innovation, the importance of empathy, and the various ways sensitive individuals can engage in justice work. They discuss the unique challenges faced by highly sensitive people in activism and the need for compassion in a divided world. Dorcas emphasizes the significance of relational activism and the power of small, meaningful interactions in fostering understanding and connection. The conversation concludes with a focus on finding joy and community amidst challenges.Resources:Guides, Books, and PlaylistConnect with Nancy: Website - Books - InstagramConnect with Catherine: ⁠Website⁠ - ⁠Substack⁠ - ⁠InstagramEdited by Catherine QuiringShow Notes by AI and Catherine QuiringLogo by Catherine Quiring (including graphic by @andrewpixel)

Catherine Quiring explores the concept of emotional medicine, emphasizing the importance of care, love, and compassion in today's world. She discusses various forms of healing, including breath, dance, rest, curiosity, and grief, as essential tools for navigating life's challenges. Catherine reflects on personal experiences and insights, highlighting the significance of boundaries, voice, and belonging in the healing process. Ultimately, she connects these themes to a broader understanding of our existence, emphasizing our connection to the cosmos and the transformative power of life.