One of the first mistakes the ego makes is to confuse approval with love. From early childhood, we learn to feel good when weβre praised and uncomfortable when weβre not. Without noticing, we start organising our lives around being approved of rather than being true to ourselves.
Thatβs how we end up:
Β· People-pleasing instead of setting boundariesΒ· Staying small instead of taking risksΒ· Needing others to respond a certain way before we can feel okay
I call this the demon of approval.
And you canβt be free of it until you can clearly see it.
Tonight Iβm running a free live session on this β how to see the pattern clearly, feel what comes up when you stop feeding it, and begin acting from something deeper than the need for approval
If this resonates, youβre very welcome to join - register here: ESCAPE THE DEMON
It starts at 7pm UK time and I will start with a short meditation to show how approval keeps the βme mindβ hooked. There will also be plenty of time for questions.
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