Coast FIRE is when you've front-loaded enough investments to simply coast to retirement without any further contributions. But with this stock market downturn as of late, is the idea of Coast FIRE dead? We'll share how our portfolio is holding up and discuss what to do to keep our Coast FIRE dreams alive.
Second, we’re back with our Net Worth Win segment. This month, we’re featuring Michelle Onaka from Intentional Money Life. Michelle has grown her net worth to $900k by 37 years old. We’ll learn how she did it and how this helps her family travel more.
Last, my son Calvin will be reading the month's review and I’ll quiz him with some money questions. We're talking about recessions, investing, and going on our first cruise!
EPISODE RESOURCES:
Sponsors + Partners + Deals
Michelle Onaka (website): https://Intentionalmoneylife.com
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Intro01:30 - Coast FIRE Amid Market Turmoil02:46 - Revisiting 2021 Coast FIRE Numbers04:17 - Impact of Market Downturn on Retirement Outlook05:03 - 6 Ways We're Keeping Coast FIRE Alive11:46 - Interview: Michelle Onaka’s $900K Net Worth Journey13:19 - Motivation Behind Michelle’s Wealth Building15:55 - From Low Income to Six Figures18:16 - Smart Saving and Investing Habits20:18 - What’s in Michelle’s $1M+ Asset Portfolio22:37 - Liabilities and Mortgage Strategy23:58 - Teaching Kids About Generational Wealth25:51 - Why Their Kids’ Accounts Are in Their Names27:36 - The Future: More Travel, Less Work29:30 - How to Connect with Michelle Onaka33:31 - Calvin’s 3-Question Money Quiz37:17 - Social Shout-Out & Book Giveaway38:10 - Final Thoughts
MKM RESOURCES:
MKM Coaching: Want 1-on-1 support with your family finance journey? Book a time with me today.
Make My Kid a Millionaire Course: Want to build generational wealth and happiness for your kid? Learn more about my course!
Coast FIRE Calculator: A free calculator to help you find out when you can slow down or stop investing for retirement.
Mortgage Payoff Calculator: A free calculator to help you see how fast you can become mortgage free.
YouTube: Subscribe for free to watch videos of these episodes and interviews.
RECOMMENDED RESOURCES (SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES):
Monarch Money - Best Budget App for Families & Couples
Empower - Free Portfolio Tracker
Crew - HYSA Banking Built for Families - Get an Extra 0.5% APY with my partner link
Ethos - Affordable Term Life Insurance
Trust & Will - Convenient Estate Planning
HOW WE MAKE MONEY + DISCLAIMER:
This show may contain affiliate links or links from our advertisers where we earn a commission, direct payment or products.
Opinions are the creators alone.
Information shared on this podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice.
Marriage Kids and Money (www.marriagekidsandmoney.com) is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.
CREDITS:
Podcast Artwork: Liz Theresa
Editor: Johnny Sohl
Podcast Support: Nev Maraj
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Paid Parental Leave and It's Life-Long Benefits | Isabelle Hau
Paid parental leave can have lifelong benefits for families — but why is the U.S. so far behind?
Isabelle Hau, author of Love to Learn and Executive Director at Stanford's Accelerator for Learning, joins the show to break down how paid leave improves the lives of parents, children, and workplaces.
Also, Stacey Blackshear from Virginia shares how she and her husband achieved Coast Fire with $500k by 40 years old — and how it's helping them create more time and freedom for their growing family!
EPISODE RESOURCES
Isabelle Hau (Website): https://www.isabellehau.com/
Stacy Blackshear (Website): https://www.rewirebehavior.com
CHAPTERS
0:00 - Open2:30 - What is Paid Parental Leave and Why It Matters3:40 - Benefits for Children and Parents7:00 - The U.S. Paid Leave Problem: 80% Without Access8:00 - Why Other Countries Get It Right (and We Don't)9:00 - Companies Leading the Way on Paid Leave10:30 - Paid Leave’s Impact on Retention and Productivity11:30 - Ideal Time Off: 12 Weeks to 6 Months13:00 - The Rising Importance of Paternity Leave14:30 - Advice for Workers and Employers16:50 - Isabelle Hau's New Book and Final Thoughts17:30 - Stacey Blackshear - Coast Fire19:00 - Financial Lessons from Divorce and New Beginnings21:00 - Investing Smartly and Building Wealth25:00 - Slowing Down Work to Focus on Family28:00 - Teaching Good Money Habits to Kids32:30 - Stacey’s Advice for Financial Freedom34:15 - How to Connect with Stacey
MKM RESOURCES:
MKM Coaching: Want 1-on-1 support with your family finance journey? Book a time with me today.
Coast FIRE Calculator: A free calculator to help you find out when you can slow down or stop investing for retirement.
Mortgage Payoff Calculator: A free calculator to help you see how fast you can become mortgage free.
YouTube: Subscribe for free to watch videos of these episodes and interviews.
RECOMMENDED RESOURCES (SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES):
Monarch Money - Best Budget App for Families & Couples
Empower - Free Portfolio Tracker
Crew - HYSA Banking Built for Families - Get an Extra 0.5% APY with my partner link
Ethos - Affordable Term Life Insurance
Trust & Will - Convenient Estate Planning
HOW WE MAKE MONEY + DISCLAIMER:
This show may contain affiliate links or links from our advertisers where we earn a commission, direct payment or products.
Opinions are the creators alone.
Information shared on this podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice.
Marriage Kids and Money (www.marriagekidsandmoney.com) is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.
CREDITS:
Podcast Artwork: Liz Theresa
Editor: Johnny Sohl
Podcast Support: Nev Maraj
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Preparing for a Recession: Our Family’s 5 Step Financial Plan
A recession may be headed our way. How can we prepare? I'm walking through our family's 5 step financial plan to prepare for a recession.
Second, we’re back with our Mortgage Free Family segment! This month we’re featuring Sandra Park from Texas. She’s going to share how she paid off her mortgage in his 40s and how it allowed her more cash flow and the ability to help her son pay for college.
Last, we're sharing the Good Word once again. My son Calvin and I are sharing the latest World Happiness Report, how the United States ranks, and how service to others matters.
EPISODE RESOURCES:
Sponsors + Partners + Deals
Sandra Park: https://engineerherpath.com
Good Word Story - CNBC: https://www.cnbc.com/2025/03/19/world-happiness-report-2025-finland-is-the-happiest-country.html
CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro
01:50 – Step 1: Shore Up Your Emergency Fund
04:35 – Step 2: Continue Investing According to Your Plan
05:50 – Step 3: Reduce Expenses, Not Your Happiness
11:30 – Step 4: Earn More Without Burning Out
13:55 – Step 5: Be Generous Where It's Needed
16:40 – Mortgage-Free Family: Interview with Sandra Park
17:45 – Sandra's Mortgage-Free Journey
20:00 – Budgeting, Downsizing, and Mindset Shifts
29:00 – Post-Mortgage Life and Financial Freedom
32:50 – Generational Wealth and Lessons for the Next Generation
38:00 – Good News Segment with Calvin Hill
46:35 – Shoutout of the Month
MKM RESOURCES:
MKM Coaching: Want 1-on-1 support with your family finance journey? Book a time with me today.
Make My Kid a Millionaire Course: Want to build generational wealth and happiness for your kid? Learn more about my course!
Coast FIRE Calculator: A free calculator to help you find out when you can slow down or stop investing for retirement.
Mortgage Payoff Calculator: A free calculator to help you see how fast you can become mortgage free.
YouTube: Subscribe for free to watch videos of these episodes and interviews.
RECOMMENDED RESOURCES (SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES):
Monarch Money - Best Budget App for Families & Couples
Empower - Free Portfolio Tracker
Crew - HYSA Banking Built for Families - Get an Extra 0.5% APY with my partner link
Ethos - Affordable Term Life Insurance
Trust & Will - Convenient Estate Planning
HOW WE MAKE MONEY + DISCLAIMER:
This show may contain affiliate links or links from our advertisers where we earn a commission, direct payment or products.
Opinions are the creators alone.
Information shared on this podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice.
Marriage Kids and Money (www.marriagekidsandmoney.com) is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.
CREDITS:
Podcast Artwork: Liz Theresa
Editor: Johnny Sohl
Podcast Support: Nev Maraj
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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53:10
True Wealth Is More Than Money | Dr. Daniel Crosby
Andy Hill sits down with Dr. Daniel Crosby—renowned psychologist, behavioral finance expert, and author of Soul of Wealth—to explore the true meaning of wealth beyond money.
Dr. Crosby breaks down why financial success alone won’t bring happiness and how our beliefs, relationships, and personal growth play a crucial role in our well-being. He shares fascinating insights on why some of the wealthiest people still feel unfulfilled, the psychological traps we fall into when chasing money, and practical ways to balance financial goals with a meaningful life.
If you’re striving for financial success but don’t want to lose sight of what truly matters, this conversation is a must-listen.
Listen now to redefine your wealth and purpose!
#Wealth #DrDanielCrosby #MoneyMindset #FinancialWellness
RESOURCES:
Sponsors + Partners + Deals
The Soul of Wealth (book): https://amzn.to/3FcQh6K (affiliate)
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Introduction to the Episode
01:02 – Why Do We Believe Money Will Make Us Happy?
03:01 – How Money Can Buy Happiness (But Only to a Point)
07:07 – Dr. Daniel Crosby’s Personal Struggle with Money vs. Meaning
08:40 – The Five Pillars of Happiness and Where Money Fits In
11:49 – How to Find Balance Between Wealth and Purpose
12:14 – The Three B’s of Meaning: Believing, Belonging, and Becoming
17:41 – Teaching Kids About Wealth and Meaning
20:58 – The Reality of Generational Wealth
24:19 – One Actionable Step to Prioritize Meaning Alongside Wealth
25:08 – Where to Find Dr. Daniel Crosby and Soul of Wealth
GUEST BIO - Dr. Daniel Crosby:
Dr. Daniel Crosby is a psychologist and behavioral finance expert who helps organizations understand the intersection of mind and markets. Dr. Crosby's first book, Personal Benchmark: Integrating Behavioral Finance and Investment Management, was a New York Times bestseller.
His second book, The Laws of Wealth, was named the best investment book of 2017 by the Axiom Business Book Awards and has been translated into 14 languages. His third book, The Behavioral Investor, was Axiom's best investment book of 2019 and is a comprehensive look at the neurology, physiology and psychology of sound financial decision-making.
His latest book, The Soul of Wealth, is an exploration of money and meaning. When he's not decoding market psychology, Daniel is a father of 3, a fanatical follower of the St. Louis Cardinals, an explorer of the American South, and an amateur hot sauce chef.
MKM RESOURCES:
MKM Coaching: Want 1-on-1 support with your family finance journey? Book a time with me today.
Make My Kid a Millionaire Course: Want to build generational wealth and happiness for your kid? Learn more about my course!
Coast FIRE Calculator: A free calculator to help you find out when you can slow down or stop investing for retirement.
Mortgage Payoff Calculator: A free calculator to help you see how fast you can become mortgage free.
YouTube: Subscribe for free to watch videos of these episodes and interviews.
RECOMMENDED RESOURCES (SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES):
Monarch Money - Best Budget App for Families & Couples
Empower - Free Portfolio Tracker
Crew - HYSA Banking Built for Families - Get an Extra 0.5% APY with my partner link
Ethos - Affordable Term Life Insurance
Trust & Will - Convenient Estate Planning
HOW WE MAKE MONEY + DISCLAIMER:
This show may contain affiliate links or links from our advertisers where we earn a commission, direct payment or products.
Opinions are the creators alone.
Information shared on this podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice.
Marriage Kids and Money (www.marriagekidsandmoney.com) is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.
CREDITS:
Podcast Artwork: Liz Theresa
Editor: Johnny Sohl
Podcast Support: Nev Maraj
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Retirement Is Now Easier - Bye 4% Rule, Hello 5% Rule | Bill Bengen
Can you really retire comfortably with a 5% withdrawal rate? Financial researcher and author Bill Bengen—the creator of the legendary 4% rule—joins us to share why his latest research shows that 5% is the new 4%. In this interview, Bill explains how his thinking has evolved, what today’s retirees should know, and how you can plan smarter for a fulfilling, financially free retirement.
RESOURCES:
Sponsors + Partners + Deals
A Richer Retirement (book): https://amzn.to/4iWzaVJ (affiliate)
CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro – Bill Bengen
01:53 – What is the 4% rule?
04:01 – The rise of the 4% rule
05:17 – Evolving to the 5% rule
06:59 – Over-saving and regret
08:45 – Advice for young savers
10:31 – Thoughts on the 8% rule
12:34 – Portfolio allocation in retirement
13:55 – Downsides of 3% withdrawal rate
14:28 – Bill's personal withdrawal strategy
15:55 – Natural increase in withdrawal rate
17:38 – How to take your foot off the gas
19:16 – Long-term investing advice
20:35 – New book details
22:22 – Andy’s 3 takeaways from the conversation
26:52 – Credits and closing quote
MKM RESOURCES:
MKM Coaching: Want 1-on-1 support with your family finance journey? Book a time with me today.
Make My Kid a Millionaire Course: Want to build generational wealth and happiness for your kid? Learn more about my course!
Coast FIRE Calculator: A free calculator to help you find out when you can slow down or stop investing for retirement.
Mortgage Payoff Calculator: A free calculator to help you see how fast you can become mortgage free.
YouTube: Subscribe for free to watch videos of these episodes and interviews.
RECOMMENDED RESOURCES (SPONSORS AND AFFILIATES):
Monarch Money - Best Budget App for Families & Couples
Empower - Free Portfolio Tracker
Crew - HYSA Banking Built for Families - Get an Extra 0.5% APY with my partner link
Ethos - Affordable Term Life Insurance
Trust & Will - Convenient Estate Planning
HOW WE MAKE MONEY + DISCLAIMER:
This show may contain affiliate links or links from our advertisers where we earn a commission, direct payment or products.
Opinions are the creators alone.
Information shared on this podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice.
Marriage Kids and Money (www.marriagekidsandmoney.com) is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.
CREDITS:
Podcast Artwork: Kayli Groves
Editor: Johnny Sohl
Podcast Support: Nev Maraj
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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