230: The Village Part 2: Fitting In + Finding Your People
Welcome to Part Two of our village series, where I’m diving even deeper into what it really takes to find your people. This episode is all about busting the myth that you need a perfect group to fit into—because guess what? You’re not a jigsaw puzzle piece. We talk about why we’re so quick to judge, how our personal values (and parenting ideals) shape who we connect with, and how to balance being picky with being open. I also share a bit about my own friendships—the ones that have lasted, the ones that faded, and what I’ve learned along the way. If you’re navigating motherhood without a ride-or-die, or just trying to figure out how to make real friends in this messy season, this one’s for you.Timestamps:(00:02:28) Embracing Vulnerability for Building Adult Friendships(00:04:20) Navigating Social Awkwardness Without Alcohol(00:08:03) Embracing Vulnerability for Connection and BelongingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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229: Bite Size Nugget - Red Light + Cortisol
Hey friends! I’m back with another bite-sized nugget and today I’m answering your follow-up questions from the hormone episodes - because the DMs came flooding in. We’re talking red light therapy (yes, I explain the difference between that $300 panel and the chicken heat lamp vibe), what I eat before coffee (spoiler: it's not a croissant), and how to approach probiotics without throwing your gut totally out of whack. This one’s quick, personal, and packed with the nerdy stuff I love. Let’s keep it simple, keep it honest, and keep it rocking. You asked - I answered. Tune in!Timestamps:(00:02:11) Strategic Morning Nutrition for Cortisol Management(00:04:19) Balancing Cortisol Levels Through Nutrient-Dense Foods(00:05:22) Microbiome Health Through Fermented FoodsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherape
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228: The Village Part 1
Welcome to Part One of “The Village” series, where I’m diving deep into one of the most common (and desperate) parenting cries I hear: Where the hell is the village?! Spoiler alert—it doesn’t just show up. In this episode, I’m unpacking how we got here, what’s changed from just a couple generations ago, and why parenting today feels so damn isolating (especially during those brutal 0–6 years). We’re talking about the crushing mental load, the rise of “toxic” label culture, the myth of fitting in, and how dopamine is messing with our ability to form real connection. But this isn’t a rant—it’s a gentle push to get out of our own way, embrace micro-connections, and start building the community we’re all craving. Let’s talk real village-building—no leprechaun glitter required.Timestamps:(00:03:48) "Moms' Frustration in Modern Parenting Roles"(00:06:23) Modern Parenting Challenges in Childhood Activities(00:18:01) Navigating Toxic and Dysfunctional Family Relationships(00:22:08) Healing Family Dynamics Through Addressing Trauma(00:25:47) Healing Through Compassionate Family Communication(00:28:04) "Influences of Teenage Years on Parenting"(00:37:15) Supportive Connections in Motherhood(00:43:05) Embracing Imperfections and Finding ConnectionJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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227: Downtime (Bite Size Nugget)
Let’s talk about mental health-and not just ours, but our kids’. With everything moving at lightning speed these days, our littles are feeling the pressure too. And while structured environments like daycare and preschool might be necessary (and even great in moderation!), too much of it can start to wear on their nervous systems.In this episode, I’m getting into why unstructured, independent play isn’t just “nice”-it’s necessary. Kids need time to decompress, to get bored, to create from scratch using simple, open-ended materials. This is how their brains reset. This is how they process the world.With my background in child development and psychology, I’ve seen firsthand how giving kids more space and fewer adult-led activities can support their mental health in big ways. We don’t need to throw out structure completely-but we do need to balance it with freedom. Because kids deserve to just be, not constantly perform.Timestamps:(00:00:00) Promoting Mental Well-being Through Kids' Downtime(00:00:56) The Importance of Unstructured Play for KidsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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226: Mouth Breathing, Bedwetting & Behavior: The Hidden Connection with Dr. Kassi Klein.
In this eye-opening episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I’m joined by pediatric airway dentist Dr. Kassi Klein to talk about something that’s affecting way more kids than you might think: airway health. From mouth breathing and bedwetting to sleep struggles and ADHD-like behavior, Dr. Kassi helps us connect the dots between jaw development, oral habits, and the behavioral and developmental challenges we often chalk up to “just being a kid.”Whether your child snores, grinds their teeth, struggles to sleep, or seems to have constant meltdowns - you need to hear this. We’re diving into the overlooked signs of airway issues, the long-term impact of underdeveloped jaws, and what parents can actually do to help.Timestamps:(00:03:20) Early Recognition for Children's Sleep Breathing Problems(00:05:17) Signs of Pediatric Airway Obstruction in Children(00:13:54) Maxillary Width and Nasal Breathing Efficiency(00:15:24) Optimal Tongue Placement for Nasal Breathing(00:19:45) Improving Oral Health Through Myofunctional Therapy(00:20:39) Tongue Function Impact on Picky Eating(00:22:32) Optimizing Airway Function for Improved SleepIG: @Dr. Kassi Kleinhttps://www.airwayhealthsolutions.comhttps://vivos.comhttps://www.toothpillow.comJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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