The formidable Dominatrix, Eva Oh joins Sahar on this week's episode of Doing Sex. London based Dominatrix Eva Oh uses kink as a method of connection, healing and empowerment. Speaking to Sahar about her clients’ desires, she explains that sessions are often ritualistic, psychologically rich and carefully orchestrated.
When Sahar opens up about her struggles with intimacy, Eva Oh encourages her (and others) to explore solo pleasure as a way to dismantle shame and build one’s own version of sexuality.
Sahar’s background as a journalist and her curious questions as to which services Eva Oh offers and how she herself experiences pleasure lead to an open discussion about the ethics of bondage, humiliation and more extreme requests such as medical play and anesthetics.
Doing Sex: https://www.instagram.com/doing____sex/?hl=en
Sahar Zand: https://www.instagram.com/saharzand5/?hl=en
Eva Oh: https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me/
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Ep 5 - How to give the perfect bl@w j@b from a Lebanese-Brazilian sexologist
Mahmoud Baydoun — a queer Lebanese-Brazilian sexologist — talks to Sahar and, with refreshing honesty, pulls back the curtain on the reality of his online sex empire.
Mahmoud has built a booming online business by sharing bold tips for better sex and cheeky tricks for handling penises. Whether it’s naughty Instagram and TikTok posts that flirt with platform guidelines or ebooks and online courses that have sold over 250,000 copies, Mahmoud has millions of followers — and he knows exactly how to capture their attention and keep it. On top of that, he has starred in not one, but two of Brazil’s biggest reality TV shows.
Behind all the buzz and bravado is someone thoughtful — not a fan of social media at all — but also a total sex nerd. He holds a Master’s in Psychology, is pursuing a PhD in Human Sexuality, and has a deep passion for academia and the human psyche.
Doing Sex: https://www.instagram.com/doing____sex/?hl=en
Sahar Zand: https://www.instagram.com/saharzand5/?hl=en
Mahmoud Baydoun: https://www.instagram.com/mahmoudbaydoun_/
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Ep4 - How I Found Pleasure After Female Genital Mutilation - with Fatou Badjie Part 2
This is part two of a two-part series with Fatou Badjie, an activist and FGM survivor. In this episode, Fatou discusses the broader impacts of FGM, including challenges related to pregnancy, childbirth, and understanding her own pleasure.
Content warning: This episode contains themes that some listeners may find distressing.
Below are links to FGM support clinics:
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/
https://www.sundialcentre.org/
Doing Sex: https://www.instagram.com/doing____sex/?hl=en
Sahar Zand: https://www.instagram.com/saharzand5/?hl=en
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Ep3 - How I Found Pleasure After Female Genital Mutilation - with Fatou Badjie Part 1
Pleasure and pain are rarely spoken about together, but for Fatou Badjie they are deeply connected. In this episode, Sahar talks with Fatou, a UK-based Gambian activist who went from the pain of undergoing FGM as a child to reclaiming her body and embracing the joy of sex and pleasure.
In part one of two episodes, Fatou explains the types of FGM, the beliefs that sustain it, and her own experience in the Gambia in the 1990s.
Today she works with Care for Women and Girls in Birmingham and the Sundial Centre for Education in Oxford.
A warning, this episode contains themes that some may find distressing.
Below are links to FGM support clinics:
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/
https://www.sundialcentre.org/
Doing Sex: https://www.instagram.com/doing____sex/?hl=en
Sahar Zand: https://www.instagram.com/saharzand5/?hl=en
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Ep2 - Decriminalising brothels - with Catherine De Noire
In Episode 2 Sahar talks to Catherine De Noire, a PhD student in Organisational Psychology as well as the manager of one of Europe’s largest legal brothels.
Sahar and Catherine speak about Catherine’s mission to fight misinformation and stigma about sex workers, the reason she decided to study Organisational Psychology as a way to provide support and learning for sex workers as well as the day to day life of sex workers in the brothel.
Catherine advocates for legalisation of sex work, a better support system for sex workers and a narrative change which results in less moral panic around the profession. She strongly believes that a reform of laws and policies led and shaped by people within the industry would increase sex workers’ safety and result in a more open dialogue.
Doing Sex: https://www.instagram.com/doing____sex/
Sahar Zand: https://www.instagram.com/saharzand5/
Catherine De Noire: https://www.instagram.com/catherine_de_noire/?hl=en
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Hosted by award-winning journalist Sahar Zand (@saharzand5) and produced by Vespucci (@vespuccigroup), Doing Sex peels back the layers of what we think we know about intimacy and identity.
Part confessional, part investigative, part therapy, and entirely honest, Sahar will be turning the lens inward — exploring desire, shame, and silence through her own story and those of others daring to talk about how we “do sex.”
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