There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage.Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired.And, that’s OK.That’s normal and human.Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first.Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need.Then, think about other ways you can think in the future.Heal first, fix later.Learn more in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. Want to join our Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership program? It’s just $200 per month to create a loving, intimate marriage and change the whole trajectory of your family’s future. We’re looking for 500 men willing to do that this year. Open now! CLICK HERE to join us! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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How To Be A Truly Powerful Husband And Father
There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father.One is a destructive force.This force is a “my way or the highway” energy.It intimidates to get its way.And, it is more powerful than doing nothing.And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage.The other force available to you is the TRANSFORMATIONAL force.This power allows you to stop what needs to be stopped…But in order to build what you want to build…A loving relationship with your wife and children.It is MORE POWERFUL than the destructive force, because it INCLUDES, DEFEATS and TRANSFORMS the destructive force.Learn how to access this TRUE power of transformation in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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The Beauty Of Boundaries In Marriage And Parenting
In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft.When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do.This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently.And, it leads to people distancing from us.When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak.And, our wives and kids kind of like that…But they don’t respect us or feel safe with us.And we don’t feel safe or respect ourselves.Thankfully, there is a “just right” place to be a parent and a husband.One where we have the love AND respect of others…And we love and respect ourselves.Learn about this in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmxd3VzEvgoAnd to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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How To Stop Stressing Out As A Husband And Father - Inner Child Journey Part 4
You want to be the best husband.You want to be the best father.You want to be the best at your job.That pressure can help you perform…But it also leads to a feeling of pressure, stress…And even rejection and not feeling good enough.Unfortunately, those aren’t the best feelings to build a family foundation on.Instead, you can view your family as a garden.A garden that God is in charge of, and that you have a part in.A garden that if you make a mistake, God can heal it.Now you can rest, play, grow and create. And work. But you don’t have to work to earn rest or earn your place in the garden.You belong.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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How Your Past Affects Your Present - Inner Child Journey Part 3
I used to think that the way to heal was three simple steps.Step 1 –Identify your old, negative, unattractive patterns.Step 2 – Create new positive attractive patterns.Step 3 - Practice the new patterns until you can’t get them wrongAnd, that sequence does work.However, it misses some important things.Mainly, it misses acknowledging why the old patterns were there in the first place.It doesn’t give compassion to the younger you’s and the current you that are acting the way you are because you’re scared or sad.And, because of that, you don’t really heal and keep acting out the same old patterns.Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming better husbands and fathers, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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