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The Real Reason Neurodivergent Talent Burns Out at Work with Dr. Bonnee Price-Linden
13/10/2026 | 39 mins.In this episode of @thehrldpodcast, Nick Day talks with Dr. Bonnee Price-Linden, Founder and CEO of Burch Price and Associates, Neuropsychologist with 30+ years connecting talent management and organizational design, about why rethinking how work is structured comes before rethinking people. Discover how to rebuild systems that enable people to thrive, not just survive.
Bonnee brings a rare combination of clinical neuropsychology, decades of work with neurodivergent children moving into college and employment, and hands-on consulting with corporations into the conversation on workplace design. Together, Nick and Bonnee explore why culture fit quietly filters out some of the most talented people in the room, and why the real gap sits between how prepared employers believe they are and how supported neurodivergent employees actually feel.
This conversation unpacks what it truly means to build a workplace that doesn't require masking to survive it. Nick and Bonnee discuss why so many neurodivergent employees mask their true selves to get hired and keep their jobs, how that masking quietly drains people until they burn out or quit, and why the word accommodation can do more harm than good by labeling difference as disability. They explore why psychological safety cannot be manufactured with motivational speakers or ergonomic fixes alone, why the education system sets neurodivergent children up to struggle the moment support disappears, and how a handful of practical changes to interviews and team meetings can remove friction before it ever becomes a performance issue.
They also explore why Bonnee pushes back on calling neurodivergence a superpower, arguing it reduces whole people down to a single marketable trait instead of recognizing genuine strengths alongside genuine weaknesses. The discussion highlights why recruiting practices built around culture fit and comfort can quietly cost companies their most innovative thinkers, why team meetings built on inference and unspoken cues create unnecessary masking, and how businesses that fail to adapt risk falling behind in a market that increasingly rewards creativity and reinvention.
In a world where the gap between employer confidence and employee experience keeps widening, this episode examines why redesigning workplace systems, not fixing individuals, may be the most important investment HR and L&D leaders can make in 2026.
A must-listen for HR leaders, L&D professionals, and anyone ready to stop asking what's wrong with a person and start asking what's wrong with the system built around them.
Enjoyed this? Check out our sister podcast @thepayrollpodcast for more great content!
This episode is sponsored by Deel
Managing a global team is complex, Deel makes it simpler with payroll, HR, IT, and compliance all in one place. That's why over 35,000 businesses trust Deel to hire, pay, and manage their teams worldwide.
See how Deel works at https://www.deel.com/nickday
Guest and Host:
Connect with Dr. Bonnee Price-Linden: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bonnee-price-linden-178572189/
Website: https://www.burchprice.com
Nick Day's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickday/
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Are Neurodivergent Employees Failing, or Is Work Failing Them?
(01:59) What Human Resources Gets Wrong About Human Diversity
(05:46) Years of Clinical Work Behind the Case for Redesign
(07:47) Masking: Why Culture Fit Hides Your Best Talent
(10:50) The Real Gap Starts in School, Not the Office
(16:00) Nick's Own ADHD Story and the UK Segregation Problem
(18:35) Why Innovation Forces Companies to Change
(22:41) Put a Neurodivergent Person on Every Hiring Panel
(25:24) Why "Accommodation" Is the Wrong Word
(30:20) First Steps Employers Can Take This Week
(32:06) Why Bonnee Rejects the "Superpower" Label
(39:21) Career Advice, Leadership, and Where to Find BonneeLeadership Transition | HR Leaders on Ambition, Motherhood, and Courage with Stanislava Susla
30/09/2026 | 1h 5 mins.How many women are waiting for the right moment to pursue an ambition they already know they're capable of?
This episode is sponsored by Deel.
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HR leadership often demands compromise. In this episode of @thehrldpodcast Nick Day sits down with Stanislava Susla, CEO of XperienceHR, who stepped into the role while four months pregnant and refused to choose between ambition, motherhood, and building a global payroll technology company. From her NGO work supporting Ukrainian refugees to scaling a mission-driven business, Stanislava brings a rare, deeply personal perspective on what it really takes to lead, grow, and show up fully without false choices.
Together, Nick and Stanislava unpack why so many parents, mothers especially, wait for the "right time" to chase their goals, and why that wait is so often driven by fear rather than a genuine lack of readiness.
This conversation unpacks how Stanislava normalized working through pregnancy and early motherhood, and why focus and efficiency often sharpen rather than suffer under real constraints. Nick and Stanislava also discuss the difference between fear and wisdom in decision-making, and why quality time, not quantity of time, forms the real foundation of confident parenting.
They also explore how psychological safety and honest feedback shape company culture, and why manipulation has no place in modern leadership. The discussion highlights the importance of boundaries between work and family life, and what separates healthy leadership from unhealthy leadership in both business and the wider world.
In an era where ambition and caregiving are still too often treated as competing identities, this episode examines what it actually takes for working parents, and mothers in particular, to build both a career and a family without sacrificing either.
A must-listen for HR leaders, working parents, entrepreneurs, and anyone who has ever waited for the "right time" to pursue something they already know they're capable of doing.
Enjoyed this? Check out our sister podcast @thepayrollpodcast for more great content!
Guest and Host:
Connect with Stanislava Susla: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stanislava-susla-6a8298b2/
XperienceHR website: https://www.xperiencehr.com/
Nick Day's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickday/
Find your ideal candidate with our job vacancy system: https://jgarecruitment.ck.page/919cf6b9ea
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Stay tuned for the next episode of the Payroll Podcast, brought to you by Nick Day, CEO at JGA Recruitment, landing soon!
Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction: Becoming CEO at Four Months Pregnant
(01:54) What "Human Resources" Really Means
(03:35) The Call That Changed Everything: Becoming CEO While Pregnant
(06:41) Normalizing Pregnancy and Finding New Efficiency
(12:18) Fear vs. Wisdom in Decision-Making
(17:57) Advice for Mothers Considering a Return to Work
(22:33) Maternity Leave: Six Weeks and No Regrets
(27:23) Merging Ambition and Motherhood Without Compromise
(34:18) Building a Human-Centric Culture at Experience HR
(44:34) Blind Spots and Self-Development as a CEO
(51:28) Inside Experience HR: Global Payroll and Time-Tracking Platform
(1:00:01) HR L&D Vault: Belief, Leadership, and LegacyBefore the Grievance | Detecting Workplace Culture Breakdown Early with Roy Magara
17/09/2026 | 46 mins.Grievances are never the beginning they're the final chapter of workplace culture breakdown. By the time a formal complaint reaches HR, the relationship has usually deteriorated in silence for months.
In this episode of @thehrldpodcast, Nick Day is joined by Roy Magara, employment solicitor advocate, founder of Magara Law, and accredited workplace mediator. Roy's career began on the legal side, managing escalations, grievances, dismissals and tribunal claims, but training and mediation gave him a different view entirely, a window into the conversations, emotional needs, and missed interventions that exist long before positions become entrenched. That dual perspective, acting for both employers and employees, is exactly what he brings to this conversation. Roy reveal the early warning signs HR leaders and people managers miss. Discover how to detect workplace culture deterioration before it escalates, why your grievance process is too late, and the specific conversations that stop problems before they become formal.
Nick and Roy explore why workplace conflict is rarely about the incident itself and almost always about what happens, or does not happen, afterwards, and why a rising number of UK employment claims are a direct consequence of avoided conversations rather than genuine wrongdoing. They unpack the early warning signs most leaders miss, from quieter team members and rising sickness absence to sarcastic emails and avoided one to ones, why people raise grievances not because they want a legal process but because they do not feel heard, and why remote and hybrid working has quietly made this worse by removing the informal moments where tension used to get caught early.
They also dig into where the genuine dividing line sits between issues that should be mediated and those that require formal investigation, why email is one of the worst mediums for resolving disputes, why leaders replacing assumption with curiosity changes outcomes, and why the coming changes to UK employment tribunal time limits, alongside a backlog stretching cases into 2029, make prevention more urgent than ever.
In a climate where tribunal claims are rising and legal exposure is widening, this episode makes the case that the real barriers were never about policy documents. They are about silence, avoidance, and managers who were never trained to have the conversation in the first place.
A must-listen for HR leaders, in-house counsel, people managers, and anyone responsible for building a workplace where conflict gets resolved before it ever needs a policy to intervene.
Enjoyed this? Check out our sister podcast @thepayrollpodcast for more great content!
This episode is sponsored by Deel
Managing a global team is complex, Deel makes it simpler with payroll, HR, IT, and compliance all in one place. That's why over 35,000 businesses trust Deel to hire, pay, and manage their teams worldwide.
See how Deel works at www.deel.com/nickday
Guest and Host:
Roy Magara's LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/roymagara
Magara Law website: https://www.magaralaw.co.uk/
Acas Guide to workplace mediation: https://www.acas.org.uk/mediation
Nick Day's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickday/
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Stay tuned for the next episode of the HR L&D Podcast, brought to you by Nick Day, CEO at JGA Recruitment, landing soon!
Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction and Welcome to the HR L&D Podcast
(01:37) What Human Resources Means to Roy Magara
(03:00) The Biggest Misconception About Where Conflict Begins
(04:09) Early Warning Signs Leaders Routinely Miss
(08:04) Why Employees Really Raise Grievances
(17:01) Roy's Journey From Employment Lawyer to Mediator
(21:50) What Feeling Heard Actually Looks Like
(25:14) Reframing Conflict: Avoidance vs Disagreement
(26:36) Mediation vs Formal Investigation: Where the Line Sits
(32:15) The First 72 Hours: What HR Leaders Should Do
(35:14) Tribunal Backlogs and the Case for Mandatory Mediation
(49:01) HR Vault: Roy's Rapid-Fire Leadership AdviceWorkplace Culture & Psychological Safety | The HR Leadership Blind Spot with Seema Bhansali
02/09/2026 | 46 mins.What if the biggest barrier to innovation isn't a lack of confidence but a workplace culture that quietly punishes people for speaking up?
This episode is sponsored by Deel.
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In this episode of @thehrldpodcast Nick Day is joined by Seema Bhansali, author, strategist, attorney, and former Fortune 500 people and culture executive. With over two decades of experience across high stakes environments, from supporting US Congressman Steve Israel to senior leadership at Henry Schein, Seema reveals why psychological safety fails in most organizations and the specific hr leadership behaviors that are silencing your talent. Discover how to flip the script before your best people go quiet.
Seema challenges the assumption that confidence training solves the problem of employees holding back. Together, Nick and Seema explore why the brain treats speaking up as a genuine risk, why environments rather than individuals are usually the real barrier, and why this issue starts far earlier in life than most leaders realize.
This conversation unpacks what the silence tax actually costs an organization, from lost innovation to hidden attrition that never shows up until it is too late. Nick and Seema discuss the difference between building confidence and building psychological safety, why rotating who gets to speak matters more than who is naturally confident, and why the loudest voices in the room are not always the smartest ones. They also explore Seema's forthcoming book, Hit the Buzzer, and the science competition story that inspired its title.
In a world increasingly shaped by AI adoption, fast decision making, and the risk of losing talent quietly rather than loudly, this episode delivers practical frameworks every HR and L&D professional needs in 2026, including how to build a no repeats rule into leadership presentations, how to treat voice as infrastructure rather than personality, and how to make speaking up less costly for everyone.
A must-listen for HR leaders, L&D professionals, and anyone ready to stop asking people to be braver and start building cultures where being heard does not carry a hidden cost.
Enjoyed this? Check out our sister podcast @thepayrollpodcast for more great content!
Guest and Host:
Connect with Seema Bhansali: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seema-bhansali-esq-principal/
Nick Day's LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/nickday
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Stay tuned for the next episode of the HR L&D Podcast, brought to you by Nick Day, CEO at JGA Recruitment, landing soon!
Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction: Exposing the Silence Tax
(01:28) What Human Resources Really Means to Seema
(03:36) Why Accomplished Women Go Silent in the Room
(06:49) The Behaviors Behind Muted Cultures
(09:10) The Neuroscience of Silence and Why Confidence Training Fails
(15:11) Naming the Silence Tax and Its Cost to Retention
(18:43) Systems vs Individuals: Who Is Really Responsible
(21:42) Making It Safer to Challenge Leadership
(25:18) The Real Cost of Silence: Innovation in the AI Era
(28:39) Building a Practical Open Voice Culture Framework
(34:56) Command and Control, and the Story Behind Hit the Buzzer
(45:06) Rapid Fire Questions and Closing ThoughtsFertility and Workplace Culture | The Staff Wellbeing Gap HR Misses with Jennifer Elworthy
19/08/2026 | 49 mins.Most organizations think fertility is a private matter. It is not. It is a silent talent drain hiding in plain sight. Employees quietly step back from opportunities, and by the time HR notices, the resignation letter has already been written.
This episode is sponsored by Deel.
Hire, manage and pay, anyone, anywhere: https://www.deel.com/nickdayhr/
In this episode of @thehrldpodcast, Nick Day is joined by Jennifer Elworthy, a career and fertility coach and Director of Engagement at Fertility Matters at Work. Jen's own path into this work began in 2015, when a ruptured ectopic pregnancy, a miscarriage, and a second ectopic pregnancy left her navigating PTSD while working at a senior level in the media industry. Despite it all, with the right manager and the right support in place, she was promoted, and she now spends her career helping organizations turn good intentions into meaningful workplace policy. That lived experience, paired with the research she leads at Fertility Matters at Work, is exactly what she brings to this conversation.
Nick and Jen explore why fertility remains one of the least discussed issues on the HR agenda despite affecting one in six people globally, and why the myth that it is not happening in your business is quietly costing UK employers an estimated 217 million pounds a year. They unpack the four questions every manager should ask when an employee discloses a fertility challenge, why 87% of managers have no training despite being the first point of disclosure for 70% of employees, and why a policy sitting in a dusty folder means nothing without a culture of psychological safety to back it up. They also dig into why fertility is not a women's issue, the hidden struggles of the childless not by choice community, the often overlooked reality of pregnancy and parenting after loss, and why career ambition and fertility treatment are not mutually exclusive, no matter how well meaning the advice to just relax might be.
In a world where 38% of employees have left or considered leaving a role due to lack of support, this episode makes the case that the real barriers were never about policy documents. They are about silence, stigma, and managers who want to help but were never given the tools.
A must-listen for HR leaders, L&D professionals, and anyone responsible for building a workplace where employees don't have to choose between their career and their fertility journey.
Enjoyed this? Check out our sister podcast @thepayrollpodcast for more great content!
Guest and Host:
Jennifer Elworthy's Website: www.jenniferelworthy.com
Jennifer Elworthy's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferelworthy/
Fertility Matters at Work: fertilitymattersatwork.com
Nick Day's LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/nickday
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Stay tuned for the next episode of the HR L&D Podcast, brought to you by Nick Day, CEO at JGA Recruitment, landing soon!
Timestamps:
(00:01) One in Six Face Infertility, Yet It's Still Hidden at Work
(03:24) Jen's Story: Ectopic Pregnancy, Miscarriage, and a PTSD Diagnosis
(10:05) What Real Support Looks Like: Policy, Manager Training, and Culture
(13:17) Why Fertility Is Missing From the HR Agenda
(17:27) Coaching From the Scar: What HR Never Hears in the Coaching Room
(20:32) Quiet Quitting and the Hidden Cost of an Unsupported Workforce
(24:28) Why 87% of Managers Have No Training for This Conversation
(26:17) The Four Questions Every Manager Should Ask
(29:14) Fertility Is Not a Women's Issue: Protecting Career Ambition
(35:01) When IVF Doesn't Work: Supporting the Childless Not by Choice
(37:45) Becoming Fertility-Friendly: Accreditation and the Power of Storytelling
(41:28) Life After Loss, the Future of Work, and Rapid-Fire Vault Questions
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About The HR L&D Podcast
HR gets handed the problems nobody else wants to own. The restructure, the grievance, the engagement survey that came back badly. And then gets asked why people are leaving.
I'm Nick Day. I run an HR recruitment agency, which means I spend most of my week on the phone to HR directors, HR leaders and people leaders talking about what the job is actually like rather than what's written on the job spec. This HR Podcast came out of those calls. I kept hearing things worth repeating, and nobody was repeating them.
Every week I sit down with HR leaders, chief people officers, L&D specialists and the occasional academic who has changed how I think about work and people engagement. We get into leadership, and what happens when someone brilliant at the technical side gets promoted into managing humans.
Employee engagement past the survey score. Diversity, equity and inclusion in a climate where saying those words out loud has become a decision in itself. Pay transparency, talent management, reducing bias in hiring, HR digital transformation and the HCM systems everyone is being sold. And of course we cannot forget HR AI tools and platforms that are flooding the landscape as AI in HR becomes a hot topic every people leader is keen to understand and leverage.
Wellbeing comes up constantly, and it usually turns into the same question. Who looks after the HR team.
I'm not an HR practitioner and I don't pretend to be. I'm the person who hires them, which puts me in a useful position. I get to ask the obvious question that everyone in the room already knows the answer to and nobody says.
No script and no polite version. Mostly it's the conversation you'd have with someone doing your job at a different company, if you ever got the chance to sit down with them.
If you work in HR, people management or L&D, or you're building a career in it, start by subscribing to The HR L&D Podcast. We have had guests including Stephen Covey, Alan Stein Jnr, Andrea Wareham and Dr. Thom Mayer among other HR Leaders who are shaping the future of work and leadership.
Need HR staff? I run JGA Recruitment, an HR and payroll recruitment agency. www.jgarecruitment.com or info@jgarecruitment.com
Want to be on the show? Nick@jgadigital.com
If payroll is closer to your world, I also host The Payroll Podcast, the most listened to payroll show in the world.
Topics include HR leadership, workplace culture, retention, people management, employee engagement, diversity, equity and inclusion, DEI strategy, AI for HR, AI recruitment tools, talent management, HR digital transformation, HCM, staff wellbeing, pay transparency, reducing bias, L&D and HR recruitment.
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