S3, Ep12: The Meaning of Boy to Man.
When, and how, does a boy truly become a man?
In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I sit down with men’s guide and therapist Ewan Corlett to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in modern life — the journey from boyhood to manhood.
Drawing from his own story of addiction, recovery and self-discovery, Ewan shares what it means to live as a self-led man — one who moves with integrity, emotional awareness, and purpose. Together, we explore the ancient and modern meanings of initiation, the difference between growing from boy to man versus child to adult, and and how reconnecting with our primal, grounded energy can help us lead more self-aware and fulfilled lives
We also examine how the absence of strong male role models, and society’s confusion about masculinity, leaves many men searching for meaning — often in the wrong places.
This is a conversation about courage, maturity, and transformation. It invites you to reflect on your own path, to confront the parts of yourself that are still waiting to grow, and to rediscover what healthy masculinity can look like — for you, your relationships, and the world around you.
Hear more from Ewan:
www.ewancorlett.com
@ewan.corlett
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Timestamps:
03:41: Ewan's Journey to Self-Discovery
06:29: The Transition from Boy to Man
09:32: Rites of Passage and Male Initiation
11:23: Emotional Regulation and Safety
14:16: Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset
14:32: The Role of Initiation in Society
15:40: Connecting with the Wild Man
18:29: Integrating Strength and Wisdom
21:44: Embracing Adversity and Ego
26:30: The Role of Fathers and Male Initiation
30:19: Creating Safe Spaces for Boys
31:23: Understanding Masculinity and Toxicity
36:38: Modern Day Initiation and Self-Discovery