19: Lauren James: Accepting a Second Diagnosis Alongside Down Syndrome
Lauren James joins me to talk about her gorgeous 3 year old daughter Dottie. This is an emotional one for me because my Leo is only slightly younger than Dottie and a lot of Lauren’s initial feelings about a diagnosis of Down Syndrome mirror my own. We discuss acceptance, how to talk to siblings about a diagnosis – Dottie is one of 6, and how Lauren is dealing with developmental regression, likely caused by autism.
You can find Lauren on Instagram here @keepingupwithdotz
The books Lauren mentions about how to talk to children about additional needs are here:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/s?k=the+abilities+in+me+books&adgrpid=159542794286&gad_source=1&hvadid=696275714049&hvdev=c&hvexpln=69&hvlocphy=1007409&hvnetw=g&hvocijid=62791021235228350--&hvqmt=e&hvrand=62791021235228350&hvtargid=kwd-1105399785062&hydadcr=15245_2304951&mcid=c83807181e2e3906a0d1ff777d8041a6&tag=googhydr-21&ref=pd_sl_9r4jdif5dn_e_p69
Tags: Down syndrome, autism, development regression, SEN SEND, parenting
This week I’m joined by Jessie Townz to talk about her son Max who has Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and high functioning autism. We discuss the challenges of navigating the school system and how hard it was to find Max a suitable setting where they understood his needs. We discuss the importance of advocacy, the impact of PDA on their family life, and why there is a need for greater awareness and understanding of PDA.
You can find Jessie on Instagram @jessietownz
Tags: PDA, autism, neurodiversity, sen, send
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17: Charlotte House: Managing a Rare Form of Epilepsy
My guest this week is Charlotte House, talking about her son Barnaby who has a rare form of epilepsy. Barnaby can have up to 70 seizures a day and we discuss how Charlotte manages that and what measures have had to be put in place to keep him safe. We talk about the on-going wait to find out what’s causing Barnaby’s seizures, how Charlotte finds researching everything helpful and she gives some great advice on how to keep track of information and appointments. We also discuss the mental toll of waiting for a big upcoming surgery and how she finds time for moments of self-care throughout the week.
Tags: epilepsy, infantile spasms, brain surgery, SEN parenting
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16: Steph Papas: Navigating An Extremely Rare Diagnosis of TARP Syndrome
In this episode I speak to my first international guest, all the way from Australia! Steph Papas joins me to chat about her 2 year old son Archie who has the extremely rare genetic condition TARP syndrome. We discuss the emotional resilience needed to deal with a potentially life limiting diagnosis, the decision to delay telling more than a handful of people, and how difficult it is to find peer support with such a rare condition.
Steph has such a beautiful outlook on how Archie’s diagnosis has changed her as a person, and the way in which it has made her live in the present instead of always planning ahead.
Tags: TARP syndrome, rare genetic condition, SEN parenting, SEND parenting
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15: Kelly Sadler: Living (and thriving) With A Limb Difference
In this week’s episode I’m joined by Kelly Sadler to talk about her 10 year old son Kobi who was born with an upper limb difference – picked up at her 20 week scan. We discuss the need for medical professionals to be trained properly to deliver unexpected news and how she felt horribly anxious for the remainder of her pregnancy after receiving the diagnosis
Kelly talks about how Kobi feels about his limb difference and what it holds him back from doing, but more importantly what he’s thriving at. We discuss representation in the media and how crucial that is, and Kobi’s breakthrough acting role in a huge Netflix hit show!
Kelly mentions a couple of charities in this episode and you can find them below:
www.reach.org.uk
www.limbbofoundation.co.uk
You can find the page Kelly runs for Kobi on Instagram here:
www.instagram.com/k_o_b_i___s__/?hl=en
Tags: limb difference, SEND, parenting
The SEND Mum Club is a parenting podcast with a difference. Made specifically for parents with children with all kinds of additional needs and/or disabilities. It's a place to share the joys and challenges of raising children with extra needs, with raw, honest conversations, designed to make you feel seen and heard on a journey none of us expected to be on.
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