Well Enough

Reality TV star Vicky Pattison opens up about her personal battle with PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), a debilitating condition that goes far beyond typical PMS symptoms. She candidly discusses the physical and emotional toll it's taken on her life, and how finally getting diagnosed changed everything.

Vicky also shares her experience with egg freezing, offering an honest perspective on the process, the emotions involved, and why she made this important decision for her future. Her vulnerability about fertility and planning for motherhood will resonate with many listeners navigating similar choices.

Vicky’s new show ‘Maybe, Baby?’ is available to stream now on Channel 4.

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Timecodes:
00:00 Introduction
01:00 What Is PMDD? Understanding the Symptoms
03:16 Two Weeks of Hell: Living with PMDD
05:51 Five Years to Get a Diagnosis: Medical Gaslighting
08:13 "Just a Period" - How Doctors Dismissed My Pain
10:21 The Social Media Diagnosis That Changed Everything
12:16 Finally Heard: Getting My PMDD Diagnosis
14:46 Why Boys Need to Learn About Periods
17:31 Antidepressants for PMDD: The Treatment Dilemma
20:36 Navigating PMDD as a Couple
24:11 Maybe Baby: Our Fertility Journey on TV
27:01 Freezing My Eggs at 35: Taking Control
30:31 The Hate I Got for Freezing My Eggs
33:16 One Message That Made It All Worth It
37:21 Can You Be a Good Mum with PMDD?
42:01 Feel Your Feels: My Wellness Advice
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What does it really mean to navigate womanhood under constant scrutiny? This week on Well Enough, author, DJ and broadcaster Ashley James explains the impossible standards women face.

Ashley reveals the truth about misogynistic labels, from the slut-shaming she experienced at an all-boys school to being called 'selfish' both for not having children and then for wanting a life outside motherhood. She shares how becoming a mum forced her to confront her own internalised misogyny - and why birth trauma is dismissed as a 'negative mindset problem' rather than a maternity care failing.

We also explore the hidden costs of being a woman, from the £20,000 women spend on menstruation in their lifetime to the double standards that mean female voices are constantly questioned while male commentators speak without proving their credentials.

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Timecodes:

00:00 Introduction
03:16 The Misogyny Behind Calling Women Influencers
05:46 Slut-Shamed at 14
08:21 Punished for Having a Woman's Body
11:01 Why "Bimbo" Needs Reclaiming
14:06 The Impossible Standards of Mothers
17:11 Regretting Motherhood
20:16 Birth Trauma & the Failure of Maternity Care.
22:46 Why C-Sections Shouldn't Be Shamed
26:31 Childcare Costs More Than My Mortgage
28:46 The Pressure to "Bounce Back" After Birth
32:26 Trolls & Misogyny: Refusing to Be Silenced
36:41 The Hidden Cost of Having a Period
40:31 Medical Gaslighting: Why Women's Pain Is Dismissed
43:21 Raising Kids Without Misogynistic Labels
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Rosie Viva used to travel the world as a fashion model. It wasn’t until being arrested after a psychotic episode in Stansted Airport that she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder.

On the week of World Bipolar Day, Rosie joins Emilie on Well Enough to ask: what does the world still get wrong about bipolar, especially for women.

Rosie’s book ‘Completely Normal and Totally Fine’ charts her journey with bipolar. She documents mania, depression and recovery all whilst navigating relationships, jobs and her new identity. In today’s episode, she also shares her one rule for drinking on medication, how to manage hypomania without losing the magic, and why thinking she was Susan Boyle for a week taught her family not to challenge delusions.

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Useful links:
Rosie’s Substack
Rosie’s book ‘Completely Normal and Totally Fine’
‘Maybe its bipolar?’ test from Bipolar UK
Samaritans

Timecodes:
00:00 What Is Bipolar Disorder? Breaking Down the Basics
02:46 Type 1 vs Type 2 Bipolar: Understanding the Difference
05:21 Misdiagnosis: When Doctors Miss Bipolar in Women
08:16 The Psychotic Episode That Changed Everything
10:11 Religious Delusions & Mania: My Breaking Point
11:26 Arrested at Stansted Airport: The Baggage Drop Incident
13:01 The Shame Around Mental Illness Nobody Talks About
15:16 Getting the Right Medication: Why It Takes Time
17:26 When Therapy Goes Wrong: My NHS Experience
20:01 Managing Hypermania: Practical Tools That Work
22:16 Navigating Friendships with Bipolar Disorder
24:51 PMDD & Bipolar: The Hidden Connection for Women
27:31 Can Women with Bipolar Be Stable? The Answer Is Yes
29:56 How to Know If You Have Bipolar: First Steps
32:31 Making My Channel 4 Documentary: Telling My Story
35:26 Is My Madness Actually Magic? Reframing Bipolar
38:01 The Euphoria of Hypermania: Like Astronauts in Space
39:21 Drinking with Bipolar: My One Simple Rule
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The UK has a nutrition problem, and it's not the one most wellness influencers are shouting about. While TikTok pushes high-protein everything, Britain quietly ranks second-worst globally for fibre intake.

Nutritionist Rhiannon Lambert joins Emilie to expose the fibre gap, reveal why Parliament is finally paying attention, and explain how protein hype has distracted us from a genuine public health crisis. Only 4% of Brits meet the 30 gram daily target, and 80% think fibre is just about bowel movements - missing its profound impact on immunity, heart health, brain function, and even longevity.

Rhiannon also dismantles dangerous wellness trends, explains why "what I eat in a day" videos are mostly fiction, and shares the changing gender norms behind our lost cooking culture.

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Timecodes
00:00 The Pressure to Be a Perfect Nutritionist
02:46 The Reality of “What I Eat in a Day” Videos
05:46 The UK's Shocking Fibre Crisis
09:16 Why Diet Culture Destroyed Our Relationship with Food
12:01 Rhiannon’s journey: Opera Singer to Nutritionist
15:46 Taking the Fibre Fight to Parliament
18:56 Why Fibre Has Had Such Bad PR
22:11 The Protein Hype Has Done Damage
25:21 How to Eat More Mindfully
28:16 Fibre for Immunity, Heart Health & Your Brain
32:46 Why Women Lost Cooking Skills
35:01 Wellness Trends to Avoid
37:51 Why Social Connection is as Important as Nutrition
40:26 Simple Swaps for Better Gut Health
41:21 Shut Out the Noise
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TV presenter Cherry Healey shares her unexpected perimenopause journey, revealing how debilitating anxiety and heart palpitations at age 40 led her to nearly seek antidepressants, before discovering her symptoms were hormonal.

In this conversation, Cherry discusses the misdiagnosis crisis facing women in their forties, the connection between depleting estrogen and UTIs (including her own life-threatening sepsis scare), and why she believes perimenopause is actually "the main event", not menopause itself.

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Timecodes:
00:00 Perimenopause Hit at 40: Cherry's Story
02:11 When Menopause Was Taboo
04:01 The Dread That Won't Go Away
05:36 Finally Getting Diagnosed
07:01 How Misdiagnosis Destroys Women's Lives
08:06 Is Perimenopause the Main Event
10:06 Perimenopause as a Gift
11:21 Why Lifting Weights Changes Everything
14:31 Perimenopause Ended My Relationship
16:01 Should You Get Your Hormones Tested?
17:26 Track Your Cycle to Understand Your Body
21:26 The Power of Sleep
22:31 UTIs & Perimenopause: The Hidden Link
24:26 My UTI Turned Into Sepsis
27:01 Advice for Women Turning 40
32:21 The Wellness Boom & Longevity
38:46 What Makes You Feel Well Enough

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