On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Today, Jay breaks down seven mindset shifts that have fundamentally changed how he approaches pain, relationships, purpose, and growth. This isn’t surface-level inspiration. It’s the kind of perspective that stays with you, reshaping how you think in hard moments and how you show up every single day.
Jay challenges the idea that clarity comes before action, showing instead that purpose is built through movement, experimentation, and courage. Most people don’t fail because they lack discipline. They fail because their environment quietly shapes their habits, energy, and identity over time. From the stories we tell ourselves to the relationships we choose, Jay reveals how our internal narrative drives everything, from resilience to self-worth.
In this episode you'll learn:
How to Heal From the People Who Trigger You
How to Stop Waiting and Start Moving Forward
How to Build an Environment That Supports Growth
How to Recognize the Patterns Keeping You Stuck
How to Create Stronger Relationships Through Daily Habits
How to Practice Mindsets That Actually Change Your Life
The way you think shapes the way you live, and even the smallest shift in perspective can begin changing the direction of your life. You do not need to have everything figured out to move forward. You only need the courage to take one honest step today.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:20 #1: Pain Is Temporary, Don’t Let It Become Your Identity
04:57 #2: You Are Not Your Thoughts, You Are Your Response to Them
07:26 #3: The People Who Trigger You Are Your Greatest Teachers
11:29 #4: Clarity Comes From Action, Not Overthinking
14:44 #5: Your Environment Shapes Your Life More Than Motivation
18:59 #6: The Most Powerful Story You Tell Is the One About Yourself
22:12 #7: Real Love Is a Daily Choice, Not Just a Feeling
26:19 Mindsets Only Change Your Life When You Practice Them Daily
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Today Jay sits down with one of the world’s most influential digital storytellers, Dhar Mann, for a raw conversation about failure, identity, and resilience. Dhar opens up about growing up feeling caught between two worlds, battling loneliness, depression, and self-doubt, and how those painful experiences ultimately shaped his purpose. Together, they explore how our deepest wounds often become the message we’re here to share, and why real healing begins when we stop hiding who we are.
Dhar also breaks down the mindset and systems that helped him turn his lowest moments into a global storytelling brand. He shares why success comes from repetition, failure, and emotional connection, not validation, and reveals the story behind the one video he almost didn’t post that changed everything.
In this episode you'll learn:
How to Keep Going After Rejection
How to Find Confidence Through Consistency
How to Build a Purpose-Driven Brand
How to Stop Hiding Your Struggles
How to Pivot When Life Changes
How to Choose the Right Partner
How to Create Success That Lasts
Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs happen after seasons of rejection, loneliness, and uncertainty. Keep showing up, keep believing in your growth, and keep taking the next step forward even when no one else can see the vision yet.
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Jay Shetty
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Check out Dhar’s new podcast, What Happens Next - https://www.youtube.com/@dharmannspodcast/featured

What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:01 The Hidden Cost of Childhood Pain
05:36 Growing Up Desperate to Belong
08:47 The Real Meaning of Belonging
11:17 The Hustle That Started It All
16:05 What Failure Teaches You That Success Never Will
18:57 Fear of Failing in Public
26:07 The 5-Step Formula for Success
27:25 Owning Your Story (Even When It’s Messy)
32:35 How to Make People Actually Trust You
41:42 The Systems That Actually Build Success
49:39 The Key To Connection
54:20 Turning Content Into Impact
55:52 The Moment Everything Fell Apart
01:06:12 Choosing the Wrong Partner Can Cost You Everything
01:10:39 What Love Teaches You That Success Can’t
01:14:44 Dhar on Final Five
01:18:52 The Story Behind What Happens Next?
Episode Resources:
Website | https://www.dharmann.com/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@dharmannspodcast/featured

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_hK9fOxyy_TM8FJGXIyG8Q
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/dharmannofficial/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/dhar.mann/
LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/dharmann
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@dhar.mann
X | https://x.com/dharmann
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What if the hardest moments in your life weren’t there to break you, but were actually pointing you toward who you’re meant to be?
Today, Jay sits down with renowned psychologist, Columbia professor, and bestselling author Dr. Lisa Miller to explore the powerful intersection of science and spirituality. Together, they unpack one of the most transformative ideas of our time: that spirituality is not reserved for the religious or the enlightened, it is an innate human capacity wired into every one of us. Through groundbreaking neuroscience, Dr. Lisa reveals how our brains are biologically designed to perceive that we are loved, guided, and never truly alone. Jay and Lisa invite us into a new way of living, one where anxiety, heartbreak, disappointment, and uncertainty are no longer viewed as signs that we’ve lost our way, but as invitations into deeper spiritual awakening.
Throughout the episode, Jay and Lisa share profoundly personal reflections on life’s “red doors” and “yellow doors”, the moments when what we desperately wanted fell apart, only to lead us somewhere far more aligned, meaningful, and expansive than we could have imagined. Through intimate stories, spiritual practices, and powerful meditations, they explore how intuition, synchronicity, and inner knowing can guide us toward our true path when we finally learn to listen. Jay opens up about protecting his purpose, discovering his calling beyond societal expectations, and the courage it takes to trust the quiet voice within. Lisa beautifully reframes suffering not as punishment or failure, but as the very catalyst that awakens us to greater love, wisdom, and purpose. This episode is a reminder that some of the greatest breakthroughs in life begin with the moments that break us open.
In this episode you'll learn:
How to Listen to Your Inner Wisdom
How to Turn Pain Into Spiritual Growth
How to Recognize Signs the Universe Is Sending You
How to Feel Guided When Life Feels Uncertain
How to Stop Ignoring Your Intuition
How to Stay Spiritual in a Busy, Modern World
How to Strengthen Your Spiritual Awareness Daily
How to Navigate Depression Through a Spiritual Lens
Maybe the answers you’ve been searching for aren’t outside of you, but in the quiet voice you’ve been too busy, too hurt, or too afraid to trust. Life won’t always go as planned, but sometimes the detours, disappointments, and closed doors are leading you somewhere deeper than success, toward a life that feels aligned, meaningful, and true.
To grab a copy of Lisa’s latest book, The Awakened Brain: The New Science of Spirituality and Our Quest for an Inspired Life, visit https://www.amazon.com/Awakened-Brain-Science-Spirituality-Inspired/dp/198485562X
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:58 You Were Never Meant to Walk Alone
03:14 Why This Generation Is Craving Spirituality
05:24 The Life-Changing Benefits of Spirituality
06:11 The Hidden Link Between Spirituality and Depression
08:32 What Does it Mean To Be Spiritual?
10:46 The Shift That Makes Life Feel Inspired Again
17:05 When Life Stops Being a Plan and Becomes an Adventure
20:07 The Part of You You’ve Been Ignoring
21:19 The Missing Piece in Mental Health
22:23 The Two Ways You Actually Know Something
25:04 Why Your Purpose Isn’t Something You Find
29:09 How to Finally Hear Your Inner Voice
36:10 What It Feels Like to Touch Something Higher
40:51 Anxiety As A Catalyst
43:52 What If Nothing in Your Life Is Random?
46:52 Learning to Trust Yourself on a Deeper Level
51:32 The Unexpected Path That Leads to Love
56:21 The Habit That’s Making You More Judgmental
57:10 Different Beliefs, One Aligned Relationship
01:02:53 The Subtle Sign You’re With the Wrong Person
01:04:59 The Truth About Money and Meaning
01:05:55 The Mistake That Keeps Spiritual People Broke
01:07:16 Why You Feel Stuck (And How to Get Back Into Flow)
01:10:20 How to Actually Ask for Guidance
01:13:06 The Real Source of Energy, Peace, and Clarity
01:14:15 The Awareness You Were Born With
01:16:16 What Happens When Kids Lose Their Intuition
01:18:08 Why Your Home Shapes Your Spiritual Life
01:21:35 Spirituality vs. Religion: What’s the Difference?
01:24:30 Why a Strong Spiritual Core Changes Everything
01:27:29 Lisa on Final Five
Episode Resources:
Website | https://www.lisamillerphd.com/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/dr.lisamiller/
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You know that moment after a breakup when you find yourself going back to their photos. Not all of them, just the best ones. The trips, the laughs, the versions of you that felt happiest together. And before you even realize it, it starts to feel like you lost something perfect. This is about that moment. The quiet spiral where you begin to question your decision, wondering if you made a mistake, where the relationship in your memory starts to feel better than it actually was. Jay breaks down what’s really happening there. Your mind is editing the past, holding onto the highlights while slowly letting go of the reasons it didn’t work. The arguments, the doubts, the patterns that hurt you all start to fade. So what you’re missing isn’t the full relationship. It’s a curated version of it.
Jay unpacks why heartbreak can feel so overwhelming. It’s not just emotional, it’s biological. Your brain responds to the loss like withdrawal, craving the connection it got used to, which is why checking their profile or replaying old conversations can feel almost impossible to resist. Even deeper than that, Jay explains how breakups often tap into something older, patterns of attachment, fears of being left, or the need to feel chosen. When you think you’re missing them, part of what you’re really feeling is the loss of security, identity, and the version of yourself that existed in that relationship.
In this episode you'll learn:
How to Stop Romanticizing Your Ex
How to Break the Late-Night Thought Spiral
How to Let Go Without Losing Yourself
How to Resist the Urge to Check Their Socials
How to Heal Without Reaching Out
How to Rebuild Your Identity After a Breakup
If you’re in that space right now, missing them, questioning everything, going back and forth in your mind, just know this: what you’re feeling is real, but it doesn’t mean the story you’re telling yourself is true. It means you cared, you attached, and now you’re learning how to let go.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:20 The Version You Miss Isn’t the Whole Truth
07:29 Why Your Mind Rewrites the Past
10:46 The Hidden Patterns That Break Relationships
12:29 What You’re Really Grieving
17:22 The Real Work of Letting Go
19:32 #1: No Contact Rule
21:07 #2: The Full Picture Exercise
22:01 #3: Interrupt the Spiral
23:38 #4: Rebuild Your Identity
26:09 #5: Grief is Grief
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In this special compilation episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty brings together three powerful voices in the world of fitness and human performance, Dr. Andy Galpin, Dave Asprey, and Senada Greca, to challenge everything we’ve been told about fitness and strength.
This episode isn’t about aesthetics or gym culture. It’s about building real strength that shows up in your life, the kind that lets you pick up your child without pain, lead with energy and focus, and stay independent, capable, and mobile well into your 70s and 80s.
Together, they break down why strength training, not endless cardio, is the real driver of longevity, energy, and mental clarity. They share how to train smarter in less time, fuel your body for real results, and build strength that actually carries into how you move, feel, and live every day.
Each guest brings a unique angle:
Dr. Andy Galpin breaks down why performance is about showing up stronger in everyday life, not just lifting heavier in the gym.
Dave Asprey reveals how to “hack” your workouts for maximum results with minimal time perfect for busy or burnout-prone people.
Senada Greca shares why strength training is the base of everything and how even beginners can build structure, stay consistent, and transform their mindset through movement.
Whether you’re brand new to strength training or just looking to reset your relationship with exercise, this episode is a reminder that strength isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why Building Muscle Protects Your Brain, Bones, and Joints.
How to Train Effectively Even if You Don’t Love the Gym.
The Best Way to Time Your Meals Around Strength Workouts.
How Strength Training Increases Confidence, Clarity, and Leadership.
Why Strength is the Secret to Aging Well and Staying Independent.
This isn’t about looking a certain way. It’s about living in a way that feels strong, steady, and sustainable.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty.
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What we Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:53 How to Actually Boost Your Health & Longevity
03:39 The Science Of Strength Training
11:36 Hack Laziness Today!
16:09 All You Need is 5 minutes 3 Times A Week
18:02 Train Your Brain To Overcome Laziness
21:24 Why Strength Training Should Be A Priority
27:15 Take Action & Don't Rely On Motivation
30:22 Reward Yourself After Challenging Your Body
34:07 Biggest Misconceptions In Strength Training
35:44 Eat This Right Before & After You Workout!
37:26 How Much Do Genetics Matter?
39:01 Benefits Of Having A Lower Body Fat Percentage
40:01 Is Cardio Important In Strength Training?
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