The Dr. Leaf Show

AI and your brain: what happens to your memory, focus, and judgment when a machine does the hard thinking for you? We first aired this last year. It's worth a second listen.

In the year since, AI has moved into almost every part of daily life: work email, homework, health questions, even the late-night conversations people used to have with a friend. In this episode, I walk through what cognitive offloading does to your mind and brain, why confident-sounding AI is so easy to believe, and how to use these tools while keeping your own voice and judgment.

🔬 What you'll learn:

Why you remember less when you know you can look it up later (the Google Effect)

How automation bias makes AI feel right even when it gets the facts wrong

Why AI emotional support can't replace another person in the room

Three practical ways to let your mind manage AI, so you keep your memory, voice, and discernment

What's at stake for kids growing up with chatbots before they learn to trust themselves

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📚 Resources mentioned: Sparrow, Liu & Wegner (2011), Google Effects on Memory, Science Help in a Hurry: https://helpinahurrybook.com

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When life feels like too much, you need something you can do right now. Here's what I do in the first 63 seconds, before the stress takes over.

In this episode, my daughter Dominique and I get practical about the weight of too much: the moment everything piles up at once and you're about to snap, shut down or walk away. Dominique shares a real moment when a small comment set off a reaction far bigger than the comment, and I walk you through what to do right then and afterward.

🔬 What you'll learn:

• The 3-7 breathing pattern I use to get my body back under control in about a minute

• Why breathing alone won't fix it, and the statement that gives you your power back

• How fight, flight, freeze and fawn responses are signals you can use, and how fight can become assertiveness

• Why a small comment can trigger a reaction way out of proportion, and what's been piling up underneath

• How to run a fast Neurocycle in the moment, then deal with the pattern over 63 days

📚 Resources mentioned:

Help in a Hurry (Chapter 18, "Help, Everything's Going Wrong," including Visualize Your Tunnel) : https://a.co/d/08P2TyDu

Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess (the 63-day Neurocycle process): https://a.co/d/0eQrqSsM

Neurocycle app, now with Neurocycle Prescriptions: https://neurocycleapp.com (https://neurocycleapp.com/)

Books, research and resources: https://drleaf.com (https://drleaf.com/)

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A neuroscientist's near death experience: six years ago, after a long surgery, my heart stopped for three to five minutes. Here's what I saw, and what the science says.

I flatlined in the ICU, left my body, and watched my husband Mac bang on the door shouting that something was wrong. In this episode, my daughter Dominique and I talk through that experience, a shared death experience I had years later, and why so many researchers now say a dying, oxygen-starved brain can't explain what people report.

🔬 What you'll learn:

• What happens when you die, from someone who came back and studies consciousness for a living

• Why the oxygen deprivation and hallucination theories don't match what experiencers describe

• How nearly dying can take away the fear of death for good

• What a shared death experience is, and why the reports are so consistent

• How your mind drives your brain, and why that gives you more power than you realize

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📚 Research mentioned:

Dr. Raymond Moody, Life After Life

Dr. Bruce Greyson, After

Dr. Michael Egnor, The Immortal Mind

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Do you say yes when you mean no? My daughter Dominique and I open up about the fear of disappointing people, and why it runs so many of our decisions without you even noticing.

In this episode, I break down where the fear of disappointing people actually comes from, why it feels so physical in the moment, and how to start telling the difference between genuine kindness and people pleasing driven by fear.

🔬 What you'll learn:

• Why saying yes when you want to say no leaves you grieving a part of your identity

• The difference between being kind and being afraid of someone's disappointment

• How to spot your own pattern before guilt and resentment take over

• A simple in-the-moment test for deciding when to say no

• The 5-step Neurocycle process for working through the fear of disappointing people, step by step

📚 Resources mentioned:

The Neurocycle app, for the full step-by-step walkthrough of the process discussed in this episode: https://drleaf.com/neurocycle-app

🔗 1:1 Coaching with Dr. Leaf: https://drleaf.com/coaching-1-1

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Up to 92% of long-term goals never stick, and it has nothing to do with willpower. A neuroscientist breaks down the real, brain-based reason and the exact steps to fix it. What you'll learn:

Why up to 92% of long-term goals never stick, and why it's not a discipline problem

How your non-conscious mind treats an oversized goal as a threat

The single trick for shrinking any goal until your brain says yes

How to update the identity story that keeps predicting you'll quit

Why a vague first step kills follow-through, and how to make it visible

The two-minute daily habit that locks a new pattern into your brain

What the Neurocycle is and how it gets to the root of the pattern

Resources: Dr. Leaf's Website: https://drleaf.com 1:1 Coaching with Dr. Leaf: https://drleaf.com/coaching-1-1 Neurocycle App: https://neurocycle.app Support the sponsors:

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Subscribe so you don't miss the next one. New episodes every Wednesday. Which of the 5 steps do you think you're skipping? Tell me in the comments.