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How to have Extraordinary Relationships

Lucy Cavendish
How to have Extraordinary Relationships
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  • S3 E2 Anne Sebba
    From her website: Anne Sebba HistorianWelcome to 2025! Worries about Covid may have receded but war, brutality and uncertainty are still with us four years on. So it has seemed fitting that I have been researching a new book about a grim subject for grim times… the extraordinary story of the Women’s Orchestra of Auschwitz. It’s about female solidarity and the redemptive power of music as well as survival against the odds and will be published in March 2025 in the UK to commemorate the 80th anniversary of the liberation of the camps. there are various translations planned in the course of 2025 and 2026! watch this space.  2023 was the 70th anniversary of the execution of Ethel Rosenberg, electrocuted for for Conspiracy to Commit Espionage without any evidence against her, and I was very honoured that my biography of Ethel was published in France. Having spent years thinking about one woman in one prison, I am now contemplating the lives of hundreds of women in one of the most appalling prisons in history.  Living in isolation during Covid helped me a little in my understanding of the tragedy which befell Ethel.  But entering imaginatively into the lives of women in Auschwitz is a far harder task and listening to their testimonies (thankfully there are hundreds of these online) does keep me awake at night. I never forget that as the great giant of biography Richard Holmes wrote, self identification with one’s subject is the first crime of the biographer, but it still is a kind of duty to try and help the women who survived as well as those who did not bear witness to what they saw. I tried to tell the story of an era through the story of a woman, Ethel Rosenberg, I shall try and do the same with the current book.Incidentally Ethel has a variety of titles – An American Tragedy in the US Ethel Rosenberg: A Cold War Tragedy in the UK and for the paperback it is called The Short life and Great betrayal of an American wife and mother.My previous book was published on July 14th 2016 – Bastille Day –  Les Parisiennes, about women in Paris from 1939-49, in US, UK, France, Czech Republic, China and other countries. There are stories in it about resisters, collaborators, spies, writers and actresses, couturiers and jewellery designers, housewives, concierges and prostitutes. It won a prize and is being turned into a multi-part screenplay for TV (watch this space!)  I have always been fascinated by French History and the reverberations from this period are still being felt in the country today. Although I loved writing the story of Wallis Simpson (and she even has a cameo role in this book) I wanted to write a book of history this time and move away from biography for a change.For two years of my research I was chair of the Management Committee of Britain’s Society of Authors, a great honour and privilege in  difficult and challenging times for authors as the Society fights for Authors’ rights in a number of areas and is desperately needed. I am now on the SOA Council. But when I am not busy reading or reviewing someone else’s book, I will be concentrating on talking about my books, including Les Parisiennes. As any writer will tell you, you never quite leave your old books behind. New material keeps coming your way and you are constantly re thinking your work!In 2011, I published That Woman: a life of Wallis Simpson Duchess of Windsor in the UK alongside a C4 television documentary ba Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/
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  • S3 E1 - Sarah Vine
    WELCOME TO SEASON 3!Sarah Rosemary Vine was born in Swansea, Wales on 16 April 1967.When she was five, the family moved to Italy, initially staying in Rome before moving to Frascati. After graduation, Vine worked in customer services for the retailer Hobbs Ltd. She then worked in a series of jobs within journalism, including TV listings sub at the Daily Mirror and features editor for the magazine Tatler before joining The Times. She was promoted to arts editor at that newspaper.And now, she ia an author and in this podcast you will understand why and perhaps have a shift in perception....Key points of the episode:Her new book, as the ex of Michael Gove, "How not to be a political wife"How being in those circles makes you very much having (if you'll pardon the pun)  -toe the party line.Her "Lady Macbeth" moment....and the fallout of that.What it feels like to have horrible things written about you in the paper.How she feels the need to "have a conversation" with the reader and share who she really is.Her parents, and how they have affected her.Her people pleasing tendencies.How she feels about her upcoming book tour. Has this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/
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  • S2 E11 - SPECIAL EPISODE - Coercive Control
    In this anonymous episode we talk to "Mary" who shares her experience of coercive control. **TRIGGER WARNING**How coercive control is hard to notice until you are out of it.How it tends to happen slowly.How, 30 years ago, the words "Coercive Control" wew not even in our lexicon.The stages of coercive control and how red flags can be innocently and easily missed.How she hated being married and how it started to go wrong in a year.How it lasted over two and a half decades.When the physical violence kicked in and how to the police at the time it was "just a domestic"The divorce process and avoiding manipulation.Her experience of gaslighting.How materially "on paper" she had everything, but was screaming inside.How she has recently- very very recently found her sensible side.The reasons why people stay - the rationale they use to stay.Her new, free life and what she most desires now.For obvious reasons there are no contact details here.We hope this podcast has helped and inspired you.If you have been affected by anything you have heard here - support and help can be found here:https://www.womensaid.org.uk Has this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/
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  • S2 E10 - Dr. Catherine Ducker
    Since studying at Central Saint Martin’s in the 90s, she has been farming, and planting, and growing, and mothering, but always, at heart, painting.She sees myself as someone who watches, quietly, but also as someone who gets on and does, so I’ve grown multiple biodiverse wildlife corridors around her home in Oxfordshire, and painted magical and challenging moments. She is surrounded by plants at all times, and whenever something takes her eye and moves her, she works with the feeling and paint, using colour to evoke the emotion. Sometimes her work veers towards the abstract, but she always circles back to the use of flowers, as a metaphor for my feeling of the fragility of life;the need to be in the moment.She chooses to make uplifting work which reminds her to be present, to live fully, to be the best she can be, both aesthetically and in her life.She also chooses to express her need for peace, and her determination to be conscious of the way she lives and its impact. Key points of the episode:  How she was a high achiever (and why) and how she nearly drove herself to burnout.Her painting and her thoughts on it. Her time at art school and how she loved it thanks to a wonderful teacher.How there is more love in her art now.How she is in a much better place now.How we should not be dis-eased with ourselves.What has worked for her with trauma releaseHow she had found a way of "getting it all done" without burnout.The connection between farming practices, soil health and gut health.How her workaholism got in the way of her relationships.How she recovered from Burnout and working out how to work without panic  and burnout. Inspired and interested? Reach out:  www.thecoachingbarn.com https://www.youtube.com/@catherineducker  Has this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/
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  • S2 E9- Bibi Lynch
    Her therapeutic experienceHer struggles and philosophy on relationships.How she cares much less about how she looksWHIPS- What is that?(not what you think!)Her current interesting and fun philosophy.Reach out to Bibi and see her work here: www.bibilynch.com Has this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/
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Well we have all wondered about it haven't we?And "Relationship" is a big word. Because if you think about it, we all have a relationship with everything don't we?Join us for fun facts, deep dives and every conceivable mind broadening angle of relationships.Reach out to Lucy on www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com
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