247: The 3 Attachment Needs to Instantly Ease Tension in Marital and Parenting Conflicts With Zero Need to Say Anything Clever
Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!!
In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever.
In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others.
Instead, their focus is on changing their emotional state via meeting their attachment needs.
When this happens, emotional reactivity is gone and full intelligence comes back online...aka: end of conflict.
Let’s begin…..
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246: 10 Ideas To Break Up Mundane Marital Boredom By Unleashing Your Freedom-Loving WILD Man
Unspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world.
The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration.
This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!!!!! Your Queen has been patiently waiting for you to wake this up inside of you….
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245: Why Not Giving A Sh!t About Your Wife’s Happiness Actually Inspires Her To Love and Trust You More Than Ever Before
We’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives.
This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage….to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects.
This episode offers you a radically new option.
What if stopping giving such a sh!t about your wife’s happiness was the key secret to becoming the type of husband she can love and trust without any inhibition?!
Get ready for a revelatory and liberating ride of a lifetime!!!
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244: The 6 Most Unsexy and Untrustworthy Mistakes Husbands Commonly Make When Trying to Save Their Marriage
Every husband listening in to the podcast has great intentions.
Yet great intentions are useless if you are unwittingly making one or more of these common yet catastrophic mistakes.
If you want the peace of mind knowing that your efforts in marriage are making a difference, this episode is a must.
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243: These 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking)
There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife.
Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage.
The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are.
They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful.
When spoken sincerely by a husband to his wife, everything starts changing for the better in marriage.
Let’s begin…..
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