Why Sex Often Doesn't Feel Good For Women | Ep. 173
The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about.But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals and orgasms felt impossibly difficult because we are all trying to approach them like men’s? This is what we discussed on the podcast this week- sharing openly our current challenges with my partner learning my body as well as the common feeling amongst women that we don’t work properly or that we’re broken.And to make it practical, we also included some basic concepts to understand when approaching the clitoris.We didn’t hold anything back in this 30 minute episode and I hope you can find a quiet, private moment to join the conversation.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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When Talking About Sex is Difficult as a Couple | Ep. 172
Janna and her husband discuss the ins and outs of talking about sex as a couple- why so many people struggle with it, their personal challenges with communication, and what they're currently experimenting with to try to improve.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Teaching Teens Consent - with Janna's daughter | Ep. 171
It’s been a dream of mine to be able to chat with my daughter on the podcast and get her take on some of the concepts we discuss here.In this episode, we touch on what she is learning in her class about consent and rape culture, her take on what’s happening in teen relationships, and a bit of advice for parents thinking about teaching consent to their own kids.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Does Husband Hygiene Impact a Wife's Libido? | Ep. 170
Over the last 8 years Janna has specialized in helping women with low libido, she frequently hears them share about how difficult it is to talk with their husbands about personal hygiene.“My husband always has bad breath.”“I wish he would shave before coming to bed.”“Is it too much to ask to wear clean boxers?”In this episode, Janna and her husband, Dwayne, discuss the trends she's been seeing, the cultural messages that impact this topic, his experience as a pre-teen learning about personal care, his current routine, and advice for talking to your husband about this.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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How to Stop Feeling Emotionally Disconnected During Sex | Ep. 169
If you’ve ever felt emotionally disconnected during sex, you’re not alone. Janna and her husband Dwayne talk through the common reasons this can happen (for both men and women), how to recognize when you’re feeling out of sync, how to share that with your partner, and the steps you can take to make those moments feel more connected more often.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
About Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.
Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does.Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others.I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life.If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the podcast for you!
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